Author: goldenboy

“An Erection Comes With Strings Attached”

Introduction
Here I am at Day 7 of SR. I woke up early this morning with a very stiff and stimulating erection. I put on my XO “chastity cup” for some relief. As I went to lie-down back in bed, I began to dwell on the erections that all of us guys experience during the night (known at Nocturnal Penile Tumescence). This is what I thought about……

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Importance of Erections
Our erections are nature’s way of reminding us the importance of this “event” in our male lives. An erection is preparing us for ejaculation. Men that want to be fathers need to ejaculate.

Our night-time erections occur every evening without fail. The resulting feelings that accompany the erection are most powerful indeed. It is not just the erection that happens, rather, there are a multitude of additional stimulating feelings and thoughts (attached “strings” if you will) that occur as well. These are all automatic too and are nature’s way of preparing us for the ensuing orgasm (and ejaculation) that is to follow this stimulation.

An erection can be spontaneous and occur at any time of the day or night, without our control. We sometimes must “hide” our erections if they could be embarrassing. Guys know how to accomplish this.

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“MGX, I Love You!”

Introduction
In Day 5 of SR, I went to sleep not wearing a cup. I was feeling ‘prostate-horny’ all day yesterday and around 5AM, I decided on a session with the MGX Classic. I had been wearing my XO “chastity cup” for a few hours this morning and I was ready for action.

Session
I lubed-up the MGX with SSG and started the session. It didn’t take too long before the MGX started working its magic. My flaccid cock quickly firmed-up. No matter what I did, the MGX responded well. Eventually, due to the ribbed-stem design, I began to experience some serious anal auto-contractions and eventually I felt some ‘liquid’ make its way to the tip of my penis. Man, the MGX REALLY hit the spot!

I have been doing rather infrequent and short sessions as of late; but that does not mean that I do not experience any prostate sensations. As I mentioned, I was feeling some prostate orgasms yesterday and my prostate was ‘nudging’ me into an eventual session.

Afterthought
For me, prostate massage now is a form of therapy, helping to alleviate some BPH symptoms. It does that very well. And as a side-benefit, the pleasures of a stimulated prostate are….(well, you guys know the feeling!)

PS An ample amount of precum for this session.

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“Edging, Cups, Orgasms and…..Life!”

Introduction
I slept in my XO “chastity cup” overnight and reveled in the PONR-sensations induced on my frenulum overnight. Being in Day 7 now of SR, I am feeling the effects of the T-boost! (I have no sense of the blue-balls yet so I don’t feel impelled to ejaculate just yet.)

I had a pseudo-edging session while wearing my cup. I queued-up ‘edgemeplease.com’ for a regular session and started watching. (I had my lube in-hand and ready-to-go-at-it.) But instead of stroking my cock when instructed, I “stroked” my cup up-and-down! It felt nice with a strong erection within it. This session didn’t last too long, but when the ‘CUM’ screen appeared, I was still somewhat disappointed! Yes, I would like to have cum, but instead, I let myself cool-down. Now, I’m listening to some old disco tracks and they are nice!

Where To From Here?
I am maintaining my chastity profile at least for now. It is a trade-off between the myriad positive effects of semen retention and the specter of blue-balls. I’ll choose the former for now…. My sexuality is imbued in my very existence and I’m thankful for that!

Without an Aneros session, I have to concentrate…..no, meditate on the role sexuality has on me. What I discovered is a wonderful sense of “maleness” —-if you will—- that exerts a very positive influence on me and my daily actions. Certainly not a ‘super-macho’ mentality but rather a nice (if not gentle) “glow” of male libido that I can feel. Read more »

Do You Have Confidence In Your “Chastity Cup?”

Introduction
I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” to bed last night. I am now in Day 6 of SR and starting to feel rather horny. While awake in bed, I began to dwell on the various aspects of male chastity, particularly when wearing a cup. Here are some of the details as best I can remember……

Comfort
The Mueller jockstrap and cup is one of the most comfortable I have. This type of jockstrap is a most-intimate piece of male apparel and it has to fit right. The Mueller earns top marks in my book. The waistband is not too wide, not too narrow; it is “just-right”! The pouch is roomy to accommodate the cup. And the cup is generous, firm and soft around the edges. All-in-all, a nice package! Wearing the Mueller cup to bed for me is like cuddling-up with a warm blanket or a teddy-bear! It just feels good and right!

Confidence
Do I have confidence while wearing it? Does an athlete have confidence while wearing a cup in a sporting event? Of course he does! Otherwise, why would he put himself at risk in an inferior product? That same kind of thought runs through my mind while wearing my “chastity cups”. I know that my Mueller cup will be there for the duration of the night and there will be no “surprises” while wearing it. That is the kind of confidence it instills. Read more »

An Interesting “Virtual” Edging Session

Introduction
Yesterday, I had a few hours to myself in the house. I was only at Day 4 of SR so the possibility of an ejaculation was remote. Nevertheless, I decided to try my hand at ‘edgemeplease.com’. I selected a “long” session with a ‘cum choice’ to be selected by the program. I started the program…..

“Virtual” Session
I started watching the screens. Green for edge, Red for stop! So simple! I watched and watched…..But I did not touch!

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Yes, this was a long edging session, perhaps 25 minutes total. What I noticed while watching was most unusual. I began to feel a “stirring” deep down in my groin with every “Green” screen! It was almost as if I were actually edging my cock! There seemed to be an internal “switch” in my brain that released a ‘nearer-to-cum’ attitude with every “Green” screen. Similarly, every “Red” screen seemed to stop the virtual stroking. And when the end of the session came, the screen changed to a bright Green “Cum” screen! Oh, how I wish this were reality!

Implication to Aneros
After this “virtual” session was over, it seemed that I was quite “prostate-horny”. I had about another hour alone. So I decided on a “real” Aneros session, this time with the Eupho Classic. Read more »

“HFO, HFWO, and now HFSS?”

Introduction
I know what HFO is (Hands-Free Orgasm). I know what HFWO is (Hands-Free Wet Orgasm). But what is HFSS? Let me explain……

HFSS
I will call HFSS Hands-Free Sexual Stimulation. I say this because this is what I thought of while wearing my XO “chastity cup” early this morning. I am stimulated by the hard groin cup in such a way that it provides a nice, all-around pressure on my groin and especially my perineum. And the best part of all is that it is entirely……hands-free!

Why is it important?
While in male chastity (such as wearing a cock cage) the guy cannot touch his cock by design. And while wearing a chastity cup, he cannot touch his cock or anything else for that matter. Such is the nature and design of the cup. But devices such as cock cages and chastity cups (and even jockstraps) induce sexual stimulation just by wearing them. Thus it is that when I wear a chastity cup, and achieve an erection within it (through a NPT night-time erection or otherwise) that I become more sexually aroused just by wearing it. My hands never come close to my cock, but yet, I am being greatly aroused sexually. Fascinating! It is like lying in bed with a lover and being actively aroused by a pair of loving hands that are not your own. So sweet, so gentle, so sexy! Like an edging or masturbation session but without an ejaculation! Read more »

“The Refractory Period Is More Than Physical”

Background
I ended an SR “run” today at Day 7. I probably could have extended it a day or two. But I decided that I didn’t want a visit from Mr. Blue! I used ‘edgemeplease.com’ for a short session and it worked very well!

As expected, I developed a refractory period following a nice ejaculation. I didn’t feel too awful, thank goodness! But one thing I noticed this time is how downright TURNED-OFF FROM SEX I felt! It was almost as if I became not a male nor a female but a “neutered” human! Any kind of sexual stimulation was furthest from my mind. I had no interest in chastity either.

How long did this feeling last? Hard to say exactly but my guess is about 8 hours. Obviously, I would like this number to be smaller, but I’ll accept the hand that I’m dealt!

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Reference (from International Society for Sexual Medicine):

What is the refractory period?

“After orgasm, both men and women experience a resolution stage. At this time, their bodies “recover” from sexual excitement and return to their normal states. For men, the penis becomes flaccid again and he goes through a refractory period.

During the refractory period, a man doesn’t think about sex or get aroused. His body does not respond to sexual stimulation and he is unable to reach orgasm again until the period is over. The length of the refractory period is different for every man. It may take a half hour or more for his body to perform sexually again. Read more »

“There When I Need It The Most”

Introduction
What is “it”? And where was “it” when it was needed? Of course, I am referring to my “chastity cup” which I wore to bed last night. It was my Mueller Flex Cup, one of my favorites. I am now in Day 6 of semen retention and feeling the effects of increased testosterone. One thing about wearing a cup to bed is the interaction of my erections within the cup: the top of the cup rubs nicely against my erect penis and especially the frenulum; this action almost keeps the erection going for much longer than normal, when, without stimulation, the erection would begin to subside. With stimulation from the cup, an erection can last 30 minutes or longer. And because when I wear a cup all night, I can have an almost constant “stream” of stimulating erections (NPTs that all normal males must experience) when I am aware of them.

Session
Of course, all these erections make me very horny. In fact, without the protection of the cup, by Day 6, I would be so horny that I would need to ejaculate. Since I usually develop blue-balls any day after Day 6, the pressure is mounting for me to ejaculate! Read more »

“Sheer Frustration…..Averted!”

Background
I have been sleeping at night without wearing a “chastity cup”. A good feeling, except when I am awakened by a rock-hard erection. That happened again this morning and the pinnacle was when my “stick” emerged from my PJ bottoms! Since I am in Day 4 of SR, I am starting to feel the effects of not ejaculating for 4 days. Any rubbing on the frenulum sends me to a place where my only thoughts revolve around…..ejaculating! Since I want to avoid that now, I had no choice but to quench the fire and put-on my XO cup!
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Moaning
Sometimes if I am having a good Aneros session, I will experience some rather involuntary “moans”. Those moans came back again this morning, but this time not because of a prostate massage. The moans came because it felt so good wearing the cup as I had the satisfaction of ejaculatory protection around my male member. It seemed to settle things down and quite rapidly! I know with my new “rule” I could have extended the frenulum-rubbing against the cup but this time, it felt good just to relax and let things settle-down normally.
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Session
With only about an hour to go before I had to rise for the day, I decided on a quick session. I knew in advance that I wanted the Eupho Classic for this ride. The Eupho is a delicate work of art, crafted to glide-in to my most private area and begin to stimulate my prostate in a very delicate way. This session did not fail to disappoint me and I felt the effects immediately. ‘Sheer prostate heaven’ as I experienced both voluntary and involuntary contractions. The Eupho’s curved, bulbous head makes gentle contact in and around my prostate. This short (~15 minute) session was stimulating and invigorating. I ended this session not wanting any more.
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Conclusion
I have found that wearing a jockstrap with (or without) a cup is a perfect complement to my sexual style and helps keep me focused on my role as a male! It is a normal and natural (albeit male) piece of apparel! Weird or kinky?…….no way! Read more »

Chastity “Rules” Revised

Introduction
I slept in only my PJs overnight. Sure enough, during a night-time erection, I was awakened. While “catching” myself playing with my package, I got an urge to put-on one of my swimmer jockstraps: the Duke. This jock has a nice, large pouch and fits my package well. I decided to go lie-down on my comfortable sofa and just chill with some nice, erotic tracks.

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New Chastity Rules
Somehow, I was given “new” chastity rules when wearing a jockstrap: I can’t take it off and I can’t ejaculate in the pouch. Anything else goes!

I went to lie-down and listen. This “new rule” didn’t come into play until I developed an erection within the pouch. Then, it became very easy to touch and fondle my frenulum beneath the pouch but not too much! I remembered the new “rule” but it wasn’t easy. I was able to maintain my composure for at least an hour-and-a-half.

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Another New Chastity Rule
Since it was almost time to rise again for the day, I was given another “new” chastity rule when wearing a cup jockstrap: As before, I can’t take it off but this time I CAN ejaculate in the cup! What a change! I quickly exchanged the Duke jockstrap for the Mueller jockstrap with cup. Read more »