Author: goldenboy

“Edging Every Night?”

Background
I raised a question on the forum recently. It had to do with “edging” frequency and duration. I generally do not edge all that often since this action usually precipitates in me the dreaded “blue-balls”. However, it seems clear to me now that in fact I do “edge” and often—almost every night! Astounding? How you may ask. Let me explain……

Night-time Edging
Usually, I retire for the night wearing only pajamas. Nothing unusual there. But it is what happens in the middle of the night that needs an explanation. I practice semen retention (SR) all the time now. In fact, I am currently in Day 4. I know that SR helps to boost my testosterone level and I can feel it. It also aids me in my Aneros sessions.

Every healthy guy gets night-time erections*—-they come like clockwork to help keep his penis healthy. They are good and beneficial. But in my case, some of these (particularly the last one) are so strong and so arousing that they wake me up. This morning, I awoke (or rather was awakened) by a rock-hard erection and a close to PONR feeling that lasted I believe at least 15 minutes while I was awake (unknown time while I was asleep). If you’ve ever experienced this, you know the feeling. Every little movement, every little “twitch” seems to propel me ever so closer to that PONR and an ejaculation! I can feel pressure building-up in my perineum and my prostate. It feels like an automatic “edging” session. What to do? Is there any solution? Read more »

“An Untapped Reservoir Of Pleasure”

Backgound
Being 67-years-old now, I will admit that I grew up through the “disco” era of the 70s and 80s. This music has been all but rejected as of late, but I lived through it. Very early this morning, while searching on YouTube for some nice tracks, I began to listen to some of the old-time disco “classics” almost by accident, and let me tell you, there was still a “spark” that ignited through my memory-banks!

Listening Session
I won’t elaborate on the specific titles, but listening to these classics brings back a wealth of memories. There is no need to suppress these feelings; they are part of my existence and are residing in my subconscious mind! I lived through these songs, I danced to them, I fantasized through them and I made love through them*!

These tracks now seem to energize in me a new realm, a new beginning to my sexuality. Do these tracks somehow tie-in to my Aneros prostate pleasure sessions? Absolutely! The mindset that these songs generate in me is totally beyond normal, rational comprehension! It is so important to let-go, fantasize and just give-in to the feelings these tracks elicit. That pleasure is just beyond words! “Disco is dead?” Come-on, get real! Just give a listen! I’m sure more than a few of us “old-timers” remember those days!

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“Two Great Sessions Even At SR Day 3!”

Introduction
I am only at SR Day 3 but took a chance at not one but two sessions today. One, early morning and the other about mid-day. Here is what happened in each…..

Session #1
I wore my Safe-T-Gard strap with Mueller cup overnight. This first session was with the HIH 950, one of my favorites. I lubed-up generously with Slippery Stuff Gel and got started. Almost from the beginning, I had a strong sense that I was going to ejaculate. I had a lot of fluid (possibly precum?) and distinctly felt that if I continued this session longer, I would have a HFWO. But I stopped-short of that. Instead, I decided to retreat to my comfortable sofa and put on some nice tracks. I selected one on YouTube and when I awoke, I was listening to “Music for the Soul @Enigmatic Mix” and it was incredibly stimulating! Before I knew it, it was about 2-1/2 hours later than when I started! Several times during the “session” I developed a strong erection within the Mueller cup and again, it honestly felt like I would ejaculate.

New mindset for Session #1: Instead of the usual “male chastity cup” I developed a new mindset. My urologist wants to prep me for a procedure and I am to wear a jockstrap/cup for two nights prior to my procedure. This morning ended the second night. I don’t know what this “prep” was supposed to do but it worked! Read more »

“I Was All Set To Ejaculate, So What Happened?”

Background
I am currently in Day 9 of SR and quite horny. I slept in my SafeTGard jock (with Mueller cup) the past two nights. Early this morning, I “danced-around” the PONR with a strong erection within the cup. I thought that perhaps I should end this SR string and just ejaculate; it would feel amazingly good! So I went down to my comfortable sofa and tried to find an ejaculation binaural that fit my mood. I was ready to cum.

Action
Believe it or not, I could not find a track that fit my mood! I searched for a good 5 minutes but to no avail. So instead, I settled on some nice sex music which I am listening to as I type this blog. The cup stayed on throughout. Taking it off now would just be too tempting.
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What happened? I’m not entirely sure at this point. It seems that although I had every intention to ejaculate this morning, my body told me otherwise! I don’t have a hint of blue-balls so this ejaculation is not really required. Can I go farther? I guess the answer is “yes”.
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Am I disappointed? Of course, but in hindsight, I remain in chastity and that only helps to ramp-up my arousal level. With this higher level of semen retention, I can feel the effects right down to my prostate.
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When will I be ready? Ah, that is the question for which there is no answer right now. I’ll just have to make my way through the next day or so and see what develops. I do know that wearing the “chastity cup” solidly for the past two nights certainly has helped keep me chaste! Read more »

“The Soda-Pop Analogy”

Introduction
Well, I made it to another Day 7 of SR! I decided to sleep in my XO “chastity cup” overnight. As expected, I was awakened about 4:00 AM with a strong erection. As I began to dwell on the fact that I felt so good but was unable to masturbate or ejaculate, I became more and more frustrated. (If there is a stronger word, I would gladly use it). I began to think about something tangible so that I could describe the feeling. Here is what I came up with…..

Analogy
The analogy I discovered was that of a soda-pop bottle (like a 2-liter one). With every passing day while in semen retention, the bottle is shaken-up a little bit more. By Day 7, the bottle is violently shaken and all the while, pressure is building-up inside it. The bottle actually gets quite hard from the internal pressure developed. Anyone that has attempted to open a bottle which has been shaken-up in this way knows that a “surprise” is in store for them when they open it! Namely, when the pressure is released, soda comes gushing-out everywhere!

Isn’t this a good comparison to the practice of semen retention? I think so. Of course, the analogy is quite simple: The cap on the bottle is my chastity cup and my practice of semen retention. The shaking is my arousal which comes at regular intervals. An Aneros session while wearing a chastity cup would qualify as well. Removal of the cap is my removal of the cup and hence the desire and yearning and anticipation of an ejaculation. And the gushing-forth, well we all know what that represents! Read more »

“Anatomical Delights Of A Male”

Introduction
No sessions for a couple of days now. I am in a new Day 3 of SR and just relaxing and enjoying my maleness. While in bed this morning, wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” I began to dwell (like a meditation) on a few things. They all seemed to have something in common: the male anatomy. So here is the essence of that story…..

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Male Anatomy 101
Of course, we all have a penis, two testicles, a scrotum and a prostate. Males are very sensual creatures; we are sexually stimulated mainly by touch or sight. Whether we touch our own cocks or have that pleasure performed by someone (or something) else, we derive extreme orgasmic satisfaction from our erections and ejaculations. Need I say any more?

But there are other things unique to our male anatomy that can give us great sexual pleasure. Among them are prostate stimulation and perineal stimulation. Read more »

“Sometimes Sex Just Happens”

Background
No session this morning. But I awoke fairly early and wanted to relax with some meditation tracks. I selected one: “The Timeless Sea 10 hr’s” and began to listen. It was very calming and relaxing. It wasn’t too long before I began a meditation…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on sex. Not in the usual sense, but within the context of all reproduction of wild species. For example, how do insects mate? What about birds? And so on….

And the meditation turned-back on us humans. We certainly reproduce but in our own terms, no? We have “rules and regulations” galore—generally monogamous unions and all kinds of penalties if we are not. We human males then are not “free” in a sexual sense. We are usually committed to one single female for life. Is this the way it is supposed to be? Perhaps, but then the mechanics of sex becomes quite…..boring! There is no variety! Maybe that is why so many men have issues with ED? PE? DE? We rely more on artificial means (pills, etc.) to increase our arousal and our sexual performance. So there is a deeper-rooted psychological basis for the sexual maladies of the human male. Intriguing….

Effect with Aneros
The meditation then shifted to Aneros and our prostate pleasures derived from these simple devices. I read about men in the Forum having issues with arousal, erections and generally a lack of stimulating, orgasmic sessions. I too experience this from time to time. And I began to dwell on their cause. Of course, the usual explanation is that “our expectations are too high!” But I would like to counter that with “just let sex happen!” “Sex” in this context implies anything sexually-arousing such as an Aneros session. Read more »

“Not A Great Session, But I’ll Take It!”

Background
I made it to Day 7 of SR. Had a good night’s sleep (sans cup). I awoke about 5 AM with not too strong an erection. I decided on a nice “milking” session with the HIH 950. I donned my Safe-T-Gard cup to assist me with this session.

Session
The HIH 950 is dependable for me in that it is not too invasive, but gives me a definite “nod” in the right direction! During this brief (~15 minute) session I really felt like I was on the path to a HFWO! Of course, I have never experienced one, but it is nice trying. When this session was over, I checked the inside of the cup and (just as expected) really nothing in the way of precum or prostate fluid. But that’s okay with me; sometimes just going through the motions can set-up my prostate for bigger and better things in a future session!

Afterthought
I would not call this a “dud” session at all. It certainly was pleasurable and I could have extended the duration perhaps another 20 minutes or so. But I am not looking for great pleasure in these sessions. Virtually all of them now are for my prostate’s health. And I achieved just that this morning!

Would I ever think about stopping Aneros sessions altogether? Of course not! Just as I need to “massage” my cock periodically for a release, I also need to “massage” my prostate for its release. Perhaps not in exactly the same way, but that activity needs to occur. Anyway, it is just too pleasurable to quit! Read more »

“Chastity To The Max!”

Background
I decided to sleep in my XO “chastity cup” overnight. This is probably the most comfortable cup I have. I got a good night’s rest; about 3:30 AM I awoke to an incredibly strong erection within the cup! And for the next 40 minutes or so, I struggled with a strong yearning to ejaculate! Honestly, if it weren’t for the cup, I probably would have ejaculated. That PONR feeling was so strong and intense that I doubt I could even resist it. As I squirmed-about in bed, my cock was being slightly stimulated within the cup. But not enough to induce an ejaculation. So, once again, the “chastity cup” saved the day!

Discussion
First and foremost, a “chastity cup” prevents masturbation and ejaculation. After all, the cup (as it it used for chastity) is not there to protect the male genitals from injury, it is there for a completely different purpose. And it performs that function well! With a throbbing, aching erection, an ejaculation would be most welcome! But there is an impediment: a solid barrier to stop any touching and any masturbation on my part. The cup is anatomically-shaped so that it cradles my scrotum, perineum and erect cock. It works very well. I am prohibited from masturbating. It is an intense denial of pleasure.

Conclusion
When the erection subsided, I am still in chastity. But being in Day 6 of SR, my T-level is definitely on the rise! I can feel it! I would like to ejaculate! I feel like I want to ejaculate! My cock is aching for a release! Darn chastity cup gets in the way! Read more »

For Me, “Chastity Cups” Hit All The Right Marks. Here are 10 Reasons Why…..

Background
Wide-awake in bed early this morning, I contemplated a session but did not initiate one. Instead, I began to dwell on what it is about “chastity cups” that is so appealing to me. And my head was suddenly filled with a myriad of reasons. Let me explain some of them…

Reason #1
It feels good!
IMO, nothing feels as good as a “cup” that envelops my manhood. By definition, the cup has to touch, cradle and protect all the vital male sex organs which can be easily damaged through an inadvertent kick (like from a martial arts maneuver) or contact with a sports projectile (like a baseball or hockey puck). That particular area of our anatomy is the epitome of our sexuality.

Reason #2
It massages my prostate.
What I like about wearing a cup is the way that the bottom of the cup is designed to cradle and protect my perineum. It puts gentle pressure on that area and feels great! It gently provides an external stimulation of my prostate. It does this just by wearing it.

Reason #3
I can sleep in it.
Wearing a cup to bed at night at least for me is very natural. It just feels “right”—no pain, no discomfort. There are numerous brands of athletic cups on the market and I have about six of them. Each one has a different “signature” and they feel slightly different when worn. Of course, I don’t wear one every night; that would get boring! But if I am in the mood, the cup becomes a perfect night-time pacifier! Read more »