Author: goldenboy

“Cup Or No Cup?”

Introduction
Last night, I tried something different: I went to sleep wearing my “chastity” SafeTGard jockstrap and Cage Cup. But I got the urge to remove the cup and just wear the strap. I kept the cup in bed with me and it felt good to “cup” it and cradle it. Of course I could feel my flaccid and soft package through the silky-smooth pouch. Such a good feeling, I quickly nodded-off….

NPTs—Here They Come
I knew it would only be a matter of time before I awoke with an NPT erection. When that happened the first time, I reached for the cup and “slid-it-in”. Thus, I was placed in a position unable to enjoy the full pleasure of the erection. Sort-of a semi-chaste state. The cup stayed in place for the rest of the night.

Afterthought
This “new” technique opens up a new night-time feeling for me—sure, I have worn jockstraps to bed before but wearing the “pouch” ones sure feels a bit different. I’ll see how the other ones feel without the cup (to start). Should be a couple of interesting nights ahead!

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“And The Train Keeps Rolling Along!….”

Introduction
Currently in Day 8 of semen retention. I believe it has been about 2 weeks since I had a session. They say that “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. In my case, Aneros absence makes for a ******* good session! Let me explain…..

Semen Retention and Aneros
I’m not quite sure why but so far in Day 8 I have no “blue-balls”. Could my absence from prostate stimulation during that time have made the difference? I don’t know but I’ll take it and stay-on the train! How far can I go? Time (and feelings) will tell.

Aneros Sessions
I had two back-to-back sessions in Day 7 and Day 8. Day 7 was with Eupho Classic and was outstanding! Lots of movement, lots of O’s, lots of precum and a HFWO feeling on top of everything! The only downside was that it was too short a session (perhaps 30 minutes). This session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a 9+!

I decided to “chase” this session in Day 8 with another one, this time with the Helix Trident. The anticipation was, I suppose, just too great and this session was rather lackluster. Sure, the Helix nudged my prostate but I just didn’t feel anything more than a little shiver. Not even a drop of precum. This 30-minute session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a generous 2. Oh well, better luck next time! Read more »

“Three Simple Words!”

Prologue
In my estimation, the practice of male chastity for me can be summed-up in a three-work question:
“CAN I CUM?” And the answer is equally as brief: “NO YOU CAN’T!” Is it really that simple? Let me explain….

Male Chastity
I practice a form of male chastity wherein I use “chastity cups” (athletic jockstraps with hard cups) to prevent me from masturbating and ejaculating. It really is that simple. My “urges” usually occur at night when my NPTs* are prevalent. These are automatic erections (perhaps 3 to 7) that all guys experience while sleeping. They can last anywhere from 20-40 minutes or so. I know I’ve just experienced one following a dream sequence: I will be awakened with a strong, throbbing erection. My frenulum makes contact with the inside of the cup, stimulating it repeatedly. It feels like I am near the PONR, only I cannot cum from this level of stimulation. Nevertheless, I am restrained and prevented from cumming for the duration of the erection which can seem like an eternity. Such sweet pleasure! Since I can’t touch my cock during this time, I am held captive by the feeling of being close to an ejaculation. As the erection subsides, my level of arousal slowly dissipates and I return to a flaccid (or semi-flaccid) state, ready for the next erection. Read more »

“It’s Not All Physical!”

Introduction
I have noticed lately that not all sexual arousal has to originate from physical touch. For example, while wearing a “chastity cup” this morning, I began to develop an erection while browsing some personal hygiene things online. And I began to think: Is there indeed a mental “component” to sexual arousal in addition to the more obvious physical one? And I believe the answer has to be a resounding “Yes!” Let me explore this further….

Analysis
What is it that enables our sexual thoughts to “communicate” with our bodies? And are we males “hard-wired” for this response? This is intriguing! Does it mean that (as related to Aneros) we need to be in the “right” frame-of-mind to achieve good results from a session? I believe that most of us here would answer this in the affirmative.

I believe that there is more at work here than meets the eye. For example, how do I feel about myself as a male? Do I see myself as a super-stud, ready to take-on any available female? Perhaps in my younger days, but probably not now as an older man. So what attributes would I possess now to embrace my male hood? I think that “Aneros knowledge” plays a part here. I am more “in-tune” with my sexual self now (post-Aneros) than at any other time in my life. I am always exploring how my body reacts sexually to different stimuli; in essence, how aroused I can become. Read more »

Male Chastity “Pointers”

[This blog was inspired by @Pasttime and @BigGlansDC, thanks!]

Introduction
@Pasttime expressed an interest in male chastity and our wearing of “chastity cups”. I thought this would be a good time to express some of my opinions (as a sort-of refreshed “training session”). Here goes…..

Basics
This “chastity play” is always voluntary, and unlike other chastity “devices” where a keyholder allow access to orgasms, this activity is totally under our control. Whether and when we wear a “chastity” jock/cup is entirely up to us. How long we wear it is also up to us.

Selection Process
I have discovered over the years that there is a wide range of “fit” options when selecting a jockstrap/cup. Some are tighter, some are looser. Some cups are big, some are small. I would suggest buying a few different brands since all of them will “fit” differently. (In actuality, there are not a lot of cups on the market). Currently, my favorites are Mueller FlexShield and XO ProCup.

What Do the Cups Do?
{Normally, the jockstraps with hard cups are worn by men to protect the male genitals during contact sports like baseball. Using these cups for “chastity play” is an entirely different use for them. I will explain the secondary use in this blog.} Read more »

“Precum Pump!”

[Inspired by @Pasttime]

Introduction
About a week since last session. Home alone this afternoon (with the dog). Good night too; rare but I didn’t sleep in a cup! Quite aroused this morning and somewhat throughout the day. I took advantage of the time with a short session. I selected the HIH 950. Little did I know what was in store for me! Let me explain…..

Session
I lubed-up with SSG and (not wearing a cup) started the session on my side, with left leg up. It wasn’t too long, however, that I began to experience some serious auto-f&*( contractions which I could not stop. After about 3 or 4 “pumps” I reacted somewhat violently on the bed, along with a shout-out. Things settled-down for only a short while, then started-up all over again. I tried different positions for my legs and the auto-f&*( ing continued unabated. In fact, some positions were even more stimulating on my prostate. Perhaps a different part of it was affected.

To quote @Pasttime (in the shower): Pow! Pow! Pow! Pow!

This went on for a while; with every f&*( I could feel the P-tab on the 950 pressing and stimulating my perineum/prostate and that just re-energized the f&*( some more! When would it stop? At the last Pow! of every ‘pumping cycle’, I felt an intense contraction in my cock and before I realized it, I had a stream of precum oozing out and down. Read more »

“Which Comes First: The Arousal Or The Erection?”

Introduction
I have noticed lately that when I am wearing a “chastity cup” to bed at night, there is a certain period of time that I can experience and feel just prior to an erection. This is almost always un-stoppable. It is automatic and within a very short time, I feel my cock awakening and coming to life! I can feel it growing and throbbing into the cup. And voila’, I have my erection! At the same time, I feel a sudden surge of horniness. Is this normal? Let me explore it futher…

Analysis
The sexual response cycle in males and females follows a known, defined sequence: Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm and Resolution. But there are no clear-cut “lines” or demarcations between each phase. Most of what I experience occurs during the Excitement and Plateau stages. Since I usually practice semen retention (SR), the Orgasm and Resolution stages are rather infrequent now. Thus, the Excitement and Plateau stages remain. And the Plateau stage (for me) has to be limited, since if I remain in the Plateau stage for too long, I will develop and experience the dreaded “blue-balls”. So my personal “arousal” now consists primarily of the Excitement stage.

Arousal
Most of the time now, my arousal occurs during the night when the nocturnal erections occur on a regular basis. As I said in the beginning, sometimes I can feel when this occurs. Other times, I am awakened by the erection. Either way, when the erection occurs, it usually lasts a while. Read more »

“Going For Broke”

Summary
Well, I made it to Day 8 of SR. No sign of blue-balls yet. I slept in my SD “chastity cup” overnight and experienced several stimulating erections, feeling close to the PONR. This morning, I had an urge and every intention to end this “run” by putting-on a condom, my Duke swimmer’s jock and then lie-down and listen to a nice MB assist binaural track on YT. I would be sure to ejaculate with this erotic mix. I put-on the jockstrap but nixed the other ingredients. Yes, I could experience a great EJ, but there is a satisfaction in the mysterious absence of orgasm at this time. Going through the day knowing that it has been 8 days since I last ejaculated builds-up the anticipation to a greater level. Barring the blue-balls, I should make it!

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PS I thought about a short session with the HIH 950 this morning, but in my current “condition” I felt that would be too tempting for a Super-T! I’ll hold-off on that session for now.

PS In general, IMHO, any SR days in excess of 7 can yield wonderful, delicious results. Somehow, the mind is aware that an ejaculation can be imminent, and I will be constantly “reminded” throughout the coming days. That means more spontaneous erections, leakage, Aless prostate pulses and horniness. Oh yeah!….

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“Suddenly, The Door Closed!”

Background
I have been sleeping without a “chastity cup” for a few nights now. I seem to be getting a better nights’ sleep, but with one exception. I am awakened by a rather stimulating erection! This happened this morning around 4 AM. I am in Day 4 of SR but feel like I am ready to ejaculate! I decided to put-on my ARMR jockstrap which has a nice, soft cotton pouch and is very secure. I started playing with my erect package through the pouch and actually planned to then go and listen to a nice “Masturbation Assistance” audio track for about 20 minutes. which I discovered yesterday. I would become so aroused that I would have to ejaculate! Oh, I couldn’t wait!

Such was not the case this morning. Let me explain……

Sudden Chastity
It happened quick-as-wink! The ARMR jockstrap has a pouch and before I knew it, a Mueller cup was being slid-in place! Suddenly, I am in chastity and have no recourse to an ejaculation! This happened so fast and before I knew it, I was lying in bed and moaning from the sudden loss.

I began to think about the classic “tease-and-deny” techniques of cock cage keyholders who remove the cage, tease-and-play for a while, but ultimately deny the orgasm (ejaculation). Then, suddenly it is locked-up again. I experienced the same feelings this morning, only with a cup instead of a cage! Read more »

“HIH 950 To The Rescue!”

Background
I had a couple of good sessions during the last two nights. Yesterday, I had a fairly-good 25-minute session with Eupho Classic. Nothing to write home about, but still okay.

Last night, I had a rather lackluster session with Helix Trident. I have experienced this before, but I honestly expected “more” from it. I guess I was wrong; my expectations were just too high. Following this session, I experienced a “pseudo-refractory” period of a couple of hours and I thought that was all Aneros had in store for me today. I was wrong!

Session
I found myself alone in the house (with my dog) for at least a few hours this morning and so I decided, why not another session? I was in Day 8 of semen retention, feeling quite horny, but not yet ready to ejaculate.

Somehow, I got the urge to have a session with the HIH 950. I lubed-up with SSG and began. Almost immediately, the 950 “hit” just the right spot on my prostate and I seemed to fall-into a realistic, compelling fantasy….. Read more »