Author: goldenboy

“Sometimes, You’re Just Not Aroused”

Introduction
At Day 4 of SR and sleeping all-night in my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup”, I got-up around 1 AM but not with an erection. Nevertheless, I decided on a session with the MGX Classic. I lubed-up with SSG and started. Much to my amazement, I got no anal contractions like last time, nor did the MGX elicit an erection. After about 20 minutes, I got my “therapeutic effect” of this prostate massage (probably without precum but I didn’t look) but little else. Of course, I was disappointed but actually, I had no expectations going-in. So this session was a “wash”!

Listening “Erection” Session
I then retreated to my sofa and put-on some YouTube selections which were relaxing and soothing. While listening, I thought that I would experience at least one erection (like an NPT). But, alas, none were coming my way! {PS Toward the end, I decided to “cheat” and put-on a binaural beat for inducing an erection: it worked well and quickly too but couldn’t be sustained. When I stopped listening, the erection faded. Oh well…..}
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A couple of things I notice about these erections. First, I do not know the “timing” of them, that is: how often can I expect to get one? And second, once the erection starts (without help from, for example, binaural beats) it is virtually impossible to stop it! So when they come naturally, they are especially arousing. That is why I usually wait until the start or near the “end” of the erection to initiate an Aneros massage session. Read more »

What Is A “PCT”?

[Disclaimer: My use of the term “PCT” in this blog is not to be confused with any others currently in use.]

Introduction
I slept through the night in my Mueller cup. Being awakened several times by strong erections, during the last one I fell-into an unusual (but very arousing) fantasy. Here it is……

Fantasy
I realized that when I have a strong erection while wearing one of my “chastity cups”, my erect cock cannot be fully contained within it. I am a “grower” and some of the glans protrudes out the top of the cup. This is fortuitous since little motions can cause an intense stimulation on my frenulum. This happened this morning for perhaps 20-25 minutes. During that time, I fell-into in an unusual fantasy.

I am actually wearing a “PCT” which stands for Penile Copulatory Trainer”. Here is how it worked. With a strong, stimulating erection, part of the glans protrudes beyond the top edge of the cup. Gentle contact is made with the frenulum on the inside edge of the cup. Thus, with each “motion” (caused by slight hip rotation or even a “twitch” in the erection becoming stronger) there is a nice “rush” of pleasure to the cock. This eventually becomes self-sustaining. My fantasy was that I was wearing a special device that is designed to help men with ED get back-into the “real world” feeling of penetrative sexual intercourse and this “trainer” will help them to achieve that goal. Read more »

The “Why” of Male “Chastity Cups” —– Explained.

Introduction
I slept overnight in my XO “chastity cup”. It is probably the most comfortable cup I own. Early this morning, while lying in bed, I thought about the reasons why I like to wear these cups so much. And here is what I discovered…The answers came to me in rapid succession: Who? What? When? How? And finally…..Why?

It is the “Why” which distinguishes my use from all the others. Let me explain…….

Who?
Of course, male athletes wear cups to protect their groins from injury. If you watch a sporting event, perhaps baseball, you will notice a distinct “bulge” in the guy’s groin. It is quite obvious. That is the outline of the cup. Depending on the brand, it can be quite pronounced.

I wear a cup too for protection…..protection from masturbation and ejaculation! It is the same vital organs that I too am protecting.

What?
Both male athletes and I wear athletic supporters (jockstraps, if you will) with what is known as a “cup”. There is usually a “fold” of fabric in the pouch that is large enough to receive a groin cup. The jockstrap could be worn without a cup, but it is really designed for one and should be worn that way.

I wear a jockstrap/cup combination both for chastity control as well as an aid in Aneros use, wherein the back of the strap is open for ready access and non-interference for sessions from the leg straps. Read more »

“Just Do What Is Needed”

Background
Now in Day 4 of SR. Woke up about 3 AM with a very stiff erection. I again put-on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup; it felt so good! I decided to listen to some nice, soothing jazz tracks.

“Listening Session”
While listening, I began to “meditate”. What came to mind first was that professional baseball players generally need to wear a hard cup when they play. No doubt about it—-they need the protection the cup offers them. And the SD Ultra Pro is a great cup! They don’t think twice about it—they do what is needed to play the game!

And one-by-one, I began to dwell on many other things that one must do because it is needed.

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[Note: this may get somewhat graphic, but that is what I remember….]

Most guys (horny or not) need to masturbate and/or have sex periodically to expel semen. Otherwise, they will need a wet dream to accomplish it. The unlucky ones (like me) will also experience ‘blue-balls’ if they wait too long.

Guys who want a baby need to ejaculate into a receptive v****a. Often, more than one ejaculation is needed.

Guys who want to keep their prostates healthy need to internally stimulate it through the anus and rectum. They will need an Aneros prostate massager for this.

Guys who are into male chastity play (like me) need to limit access to their cocks so they can’t masturbate and ejaculate. Read more »

“Arousal Village: Where Do You Live?”

Introduction
While chilling and listening to relaxing sounds wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” , I “meditated” about this “place” and it became quite vivid and realistic. Here is what I remember…….

“Arousal Village”
It dawned on me that all of us guys actually “live” in the same village: I will call it “Arousal Village”. And within this village, there are a number of streets for residences and other activities. You can add your own, but here are a few that came to mind.

Examples:
“Chastity Lane” is where I am currently living. I practice semen retention and male chastity almost all the time now, so this street is most appropriate for me.

“Precum Place” is where a lot of guys live who practice male edging on a regular basis. They have a lot in common.

“Ejaculation Alley” is not actually a residence but a gathering place (like a saloon). It is only a “rest-stop” for the guys. Nearly everyone in town stops in here from time-to-time. Interesting tidbit: To get to this alley, you have to first pass-through “Erection Avenue”.

“Sex Street” is aptly named. This is where guys live who indulge in lovemaking on a regular basis.

And finally, “Aneros Way” is home to a joint where a lot of us prostate aficionados stop-by from time to time.

So where do YOU live? Touche’.

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“Tempted By SR, But Remained In Chastity!”

Introduction
I made it to Day 7 of SR. That means a boost in testosterone and the related effects. I slept in my trusty XO “chastity cup” for the entire night and it did not disappoint me! I awoke about 4 AM with a pulsating, throbbing erection aand decided to listen to some nice, soothing tracks. I remained in my cup while listening.

Temptation
I honestly thought I would “cheat” while wearing my chastity cup and “sneak-in” some masturbation with an ejaculation. But the desire to remain in chastity won-out! It wasn’t too difficult to do—-that is the reason I like to wear a hard cup rather than a soft cup or a just a regular jockstrap. Although the temptation is there, “accomplishing the mission” is near impossible!

Outcome
So I remain in chastity today, with a sudden boost in testosterone. I am feeling that boost throughout my sexual self today! Oh how I want Day 7 to last forever!

PS I do not have any ‘blue-balls’ feeling (yet)! Thank goodness for that!

PS Interesting how testosterone keeps my sex drive in high gear! It seems to do it automatically, as it should.

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SGX: My “Little Companion!”

Introduction
I made it to Day 6 of SR and slept in my Mueller FlexShield Cup all night. Wonderful, erotic frenulum-sensations during the night! Around 4 AM, I had the opportunity for an Aneros session. But which one? I selected the SGX Classic because I wanted some “mild” stimulation of my prostate. I am not ready yet for an ejaculation but I wanted some relief.

Session
The SGX was designed for the Asian market, meaning generally smaller individuals with a comparatively smaller male anatomy. Nevertheless, the SGX is suited for my taste: not too large and nicely-designed with a large P-tab and flared, ribbed base that also stimulates the anal cavity. All-in-all, a nice “package” from Aneros!

I lubed-up with SSG and went to lie-down. I have quickly fallen-into a fantasy: I am being prepared for some kind of prostate procedure and I must lay absolutely still for about 15 minutes. Could I comply? Well, the answer, for the most part, was “Yes!” Although it wasn’t too easy, the stimulation is not as great as with my MGX which can induce all kinds of anal pleasure spasms which generally are uncontrollable and leads to more generalized prostate orgasms. This SGX session was quite “tame” in comparison, but every once in a while, I could feel my prostate being “nudged” especially when my penis started to get aroused. Read more »

“Same Rules, Different Feel”

Introduction
I managed to sleep through the night until about 4:30 AM not wearing a chastity cup. Yes, I awoke with an erection and decided: should I put on a cup? But I decided against it and instead, put-on my Duke swimmers’ jockstrap. I “set” the same rule for no masturbation and no-ejaculation as I do for the hard cups. But it is so tempting. I’m currently in Day 4 of SR and I feel that T-boost starting to build.

Harder-than-hard?
In some ways, wearing a regular jockstrap (like the Duke) is harder while in chastity than a hard cup. Since the erect cock (and balls) are readily accessible for probing fingers, just a little touch on the pouch-bound frenulum causes unbelievable sensations. Continuing this stimulation easily can result in precum followed by an ejaculation. And that is not in accordance with the rules!

Conclusion
I don’t know now, but if I wore this jock to bed all-night, I am sure that by morning, I will have edged and ejaculated while wearing it. I would then have a flaccid cock and a wet, sticky pouch! Should I try it some night and see how far I can last? It is very tempting!

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“A Different Perspective”

[This blog was inspired by @BigGlansDC]

Introduction
I was lying in bed this morning and began to think about (of all things): jockstraps! Here is what I remember.

Fascination with Jockstraps
I’m sure I’m not alone in my thoughts here. In puberty, I began to have wet dreams in bed (at first, I didn’t know what they were but I remember that they made a mess!) I don’t remember now how many I had but I’m sure there were more than just a couple.

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Fast-forward to junior high school. I remember we had to take physical education class. Part of the required attire was a jockstrap. I had never worn one before but I’m sure that’s when my ‘fetish’ for these pieces of male athletic equipment started. There was something ‘naughty’ but sweet about wearing one. The feeling of the soft knit pouch against my malehood, the tight waist, the open back, and the erections I experienced while wearing it. And later-on when I started masturbating, I remember putting it on just for the sensations of the pouch against my swollen member. I remember turning and wearing the strap ‘backwards’ and crossing the leg straps around my scrotum for added stimulation. I did this practically all the time while masturbating.

One year, we had to take a swimming class as part of our physical education curriculum. Much to my surprise (and delight) we had to wear a swimmer’s jockstrap under our bathing suits. Oh yeah, the delight of swimming with the girls wearing our jocks! Read more »

“Chastity Cup or Edging Device?”

Introduction
I often tout about the pleasures of wearing a “chastity cup” to bed most nights. Lately, however, I do not wear one when I first get into bed. After sleeping (and dreaming) for a while, I will wake up usually with a hard erection and then I decide to put one on. Last night, only in Day 2 of my SR, I decided to don my SD Ultra Pro Carbon Cup. This one fits snugly but is not too tight. However, this cup is designed differently from my other cups as it cradles and “hugs” my groin like no other cup can.

Edging “Session”
I awoke an hour or two later still wearing the feel-good SD cup. My erection was very strong within the cup and this cup has the nice “benefit” of stimulating my frenulum in just the right spot. Honestly, this edging “session” felt like it lasted a good 40-45 minutes (I didn’t time it). Actually, it would feel good to ejaculate from this stimulation. But alas, I could not effect one. It felt so good trying, thought!

Conclusion
It seems that I actually do perform “edging sessions” and quite often, just not with my hands! They are disguised under the auspices of male chastity play!

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