Author: Henry5321

Mistakes to lookout for? Better models?

I’ve had the Helix for about 2 months and only realize realize my mistake. Every time I used it, it felt like it was pushing into me and would start to feel good after a while, but could get sore if I clenched too much. Progress was really slow.

But in the past 2 weeks, with my increased muscular control and strength, when flexing my sphincter, I felt it rotate backwards and suddenly slide in deeper. Turns out I’ve been just jabbing the front of my anal cavity for the past 2 months, and only getting pleasure by happenstance of trying different things.

But even now, I have to keep clenching my sphincter really hard to keep in place, otherwise it slides down and rotates forward to start jabbing me again.

I just got an Njoy pure wand and found my prostate. Got a bunch of dry orgasms from it. How deep I have to insert it is quite a bit longer than the insertable depth of the Helix. The Helix is is only rated for 3.5″ when flush (tabs completely useless). I’m having to insert the Njoy 4+”.

I’m assuming the Helix is not deep enough for me. And most of the models are 3.5″. The bulk of the longer models are also much bigger in general. My only option might be to buy them all and see what works… /sigh

Are there any other issues to look out for?

Mixed signals

I got a Helix Syn a few weeks back. The first night I used it I was doing basic experimenting, not trying best practice. You know, various kegel exercises, mostly focusing on comfort and discomfort.

That first night I found that when I flexed in a way to make it go deep, I felt a point where it felt really good and practiced rubbing this spot. I was at near 100% flex and I swear I almost came a few times, but the muscles were too fatigued by this point. Over the next several sessions I was trying various positions, duration, and strengths but always came back to this deep one and always kept feeling close to orgasm.

Finally feeling comfortable with the amount of lube, position, and kegel practice, I decided it was time to follow best practice. I feel nothing at all. After a 1.5 hour session I decided just to try doing it deeper again, and again it felt great but I was ready to stop.

I wonder if the Helix model is right for me. It just feels so great just a bit deeper, but I have to flex 100% to reach.

Feels like 1 step forward, 10 steps back. I can sit on a chair and feel more from my prostate. I’ve “almost” had a cargasm a few times now. Tingling all over, felt great.