I just picked up a rocks-off rude boy and tried it out for the first time. Apart from it being bigger than I expected, I had the issue of it not staying secure during my session. It is simply smooth and doesn’t have any bumps to help it stay in place, so it felt like it kept sliding out. I tried inserting it then sort of sitting on it, as well as clamping it with my legs, but it never really felt secure or that it was actually doing anything as a result. Does anyone have any tips for better hands free use of a vibrating toy?