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Hi all,
I started my journey with the helix trident to some mixed success. I went on to try some other toys (Hugo) which to me feel better than the helix. If I start a session aroused enough, I can feel warmth and flutters right away when I put my Hugo in, but this doesn’t happen with my Helix.
I’m wondering if there is a bigger/fuller or just different aneros model that I should look into. I just don’t think the Helix is hitting me right.
I often see a metaphor on here that learning to have prostate orgasms involves first “hearing a whisper.” In other words, that the pleasure from prostate stimulation is incredibly subtle and easy to miss. I also see this used as the logic behind avoiding prostate vibrators at least to start with.
I’m still new to prostate stimulation. 2-3 Aneros sessions, a handful of sessions with a loki wave. But the only time I ever felt prostate pleasure was from a partner’s manual stimulation. When I’m on my own I just can’t seem to find the whisper. I’ve done mindgasm, and I’m really working on relaxing and letting go of expectations. I’m just soliciting any helpful tips, tricks, insights that you all may have had at this stage in your respective journeys.
After reading up on the wiki, I found the following passage, which seems essential…
” Two muscles are involved in making the Aneros do its thing, your PC muscle (the one you use to stop urinating) and your anal sphincter (the muscle you use to hold in gas). Locate these muscles and learn how to manipulate them. Contract your anal sphincter, then your PC muscle, then back again. Alternate contracting, then two contractions of one, followed by two contractions of the other, etc.”
I can definitely contract both of those muscles, but I am having trouble contracting one without contracting both. In other words, I cant contract one muscle without the other one going too. Any tips, tricks, methods, etc that could help me try to isolate these muscles would be so so appreciated!!! Thank you.