So I would argue I’ve never felt anything specifically that I could identify as my prostate. I can’t exactly find it. I am having fun on this journey though. I have the most reliable success by aless with a bit of flower. Often the pleasure is squarely located in my lower zone and the pleasure from my cock distracts me. Last time I experienced something slightly different. I could feel my heart beat pulsing loudly throughout my body. Up and down it. And closing my eyes.. My sense of balance quickly rotated/flicked back and forth from the left side of one ear to the right side rapidly. I very briefly felt weight of a blanket on me, a hint of floating. Curious!
My thoughts for beginners are to give up the toys. I have several and they are not subtle enough. If you are having trouble feeling anything, just forget the toys for now. Flower is key.