I’ve used my Aneros for a long time (5-8 years), and while it feels great, especially while jerking with it in, I never got to handsfree territory- until I discovered something:
I folded up a sock into thirds and slid that underneath the perineum tab (like a cushion between it and my perineum), and holy man did that make a difference. I unlocked new levels of pleasure completely hands free🤤
I’m not sure why this works – I think it’s because I’m quite short so my prostate might not be as far in, and/or my prostate and perineum are very sensitive and this helps prevent overstimulation.
Whatever it is, I highly recommend (and experiment with different thicknesses of padding).