i am not saying it will work for you but if you are anything like me then it will work wonders.
get comfortable and give it a try. it took me some time but now i have no trouble with it as i know what i'm trying to achieve. i just imagine being a passive woman having sex or doing any thing that doesn't bother me or turn me off, just anything that i wouldn't mind doing. i would like to know if that works for anyone, particularly straight guys that never wanted to have sex with a man and do not take pleasure from anal penetration.
i know there are gay people here too, i'm guessing that it will not work for you but by all means please prove me right or wrong.
you can let me know if it doesn't work after first try either but feel free to revisit the idea any time and update.
you do not necessarily need an aneros session to test the waters. also don't forget to mention your sexual orientation and whether you have success with lesbian or straight sex. pm me or create a throwaway if you don't want to disclose this stuff.