Hello, I’ve been trying to get an orgasm from my Aneros Helix for about a year now, but I have been having little luck.
Recently, I’ve been taking all the measures to get any pleasure from it. I only start a session if I haven’t eaten in a while, I do some cleaning inside with a water nozzle, I use a lube shooter and put plenty on the actual Aneros, and I ensure I have ample time to tune in and relax.
My routine is essentially prep, then insert and do some breathing exercises, then minor contractions, then a baseline contraction, then more intense contractions. I do get involuntaries a LOT, but they never seem to bring pleasure. Well, sometimes just relaxing and letting my body sort of lose control over itself is arousing alone.
I’m not sure if I should not be watching porn while I contract so I can focus more? But what do you guys think? I do precum a lot so I know I’m hitting the prostate, but I just don’t know what I should be looking for and trying to replicate. Sort of getting let down a bit.
Any tips for preparation or contraction exercises? Or what I should be looking for and trying to replicate? Thanks!