Struggling to feel good feelings

Hello, I’ve been trying to get an orgasm from my Aneros Helix for about a year now, but I have been having little luck.

Recently, I’ve been taking all the measures to get any pleasure from it. I only start a session if I haven’t eaten in a while, I do some cleaning inside with a water nozzle, I use a lube shooter and put plenty on the actual Aneros, and I ensure I have ample time to tune in and relax.

My routine is essentially prep, then insert and do some breathing exercises, then minor contractions, then a baseline contraction, then more intense contractions. I do get involuntaries a LOT, but they never seem to bring pleasure. Well, sometimes just relaxing and letting my body sort of lose control over itself is arousing alone.

I’m not sure if I should not be watching porn while I contract so I can focus more? But what do you guys think? I do precum a lot so I know I’m hitting the prostate, but I just don’t know what I should be looking for and trying to replicate. Sort of getting let down a bit.

Any tips for preparation or contraction exercises? Or what I should be looking for and trying to replicate? Thanks!

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/rbh4rq/struggling_to_feel_good_feelings/

10 comments

  1. I find it’s very hit and miss, excuse the pun.
    I have had a lot less success in my sessions than I’ve had dud sessions with little to no pleasure.
    Since I had my milestone moment (see my previous post) I haven’t gotten anywhere near there again. It’s very frustrating. But from the milestone I am a believer and will keep chasing that till I am either more fluent or far too frustrated… I wish you the best of luck!

  2. I find it’s very hit and miss, excuse the pun.
    I have had a lot less success in my sessions than I’ve had dud sessions with little to no pleasure.
    Since I had my milestone moment (see my previous post) I haven’t gotten anywhere near there again. It’s very frustrating. But from the milestone I am a believer and will keep chasing that till I am either more fluent or far too frustrated… I wish you the best of luck!

  3. I find it’s very hit and miss, excuse the pun.
    I have had a lot less success in my sessions than I’ve had dud sessions with little to no pleasure.
    Since I had my milestone moment (see my previous post) I haven’t gotten anywhere near there again. It’s very frustrating. But from the milestone I am a believer and will keep chasing that till I am either more fluent or far too frustrated… I wish you the best of luck!

  4. I find it’s very hit and miss, excuse the pun.
    I have had a lot less success in my sessions than I’ve had dud sessions with little to no pleasure.
    Since I had my milestone moment (see my previous post) I haven’t gotten anywhere near there again. It’s very frustrating. But from the milestone I am a believer and will keep chasing that till I am either more fluent or far too frustrated… I wish you the best of luck!

  5. I find it’s very hit and miss, excuse the pun.
    I have had a lot less success in my sessions than I’ve had dud sessions with little to no pleasure.
    Since I had my milestone moment (see my previous post) I haven’t gotten anywhere near there again. It’s very frustrating. But from the milestone I am a believer and will keep chasing that till I am either more fluent or far too frustrated… I wish you the best of luck!

  6. I find it’s very hit and miss, excuse the pun.
    I have had a lot less success in my sessions than I’ve had dud sessions with little to no pleasure.
    Since I had my milestone moment (see my previous post) I haven’t gotten anywhere near there again. It’s very frustrating. But from the milestone I am a believer and will keep chasing that till I am either more fluent or far too frustrated… I wish you the best of luck!

  7. I find it’s very hit and miss, excuse the pun.
    I have had a lot less success in my sessions than I’ve had dud sessions with little to no pleasure.
    Since I had my milestone moment (see my previous post) I haven’t gotten anywhere near there again. It’s very frustrating. But from the milestone I am a believer and will keep chasing that till I am either more fluent or far too frustrated… I wish you the best of luck!

  8. I find it’s very hit and miss, excuse the pun.
    I have had a lot less success in my sessions than I’ve had dud sessions with little to no pleasure.
    Since I had my milestone moment (see my previous post) I haven’t gotten anywhere near there again. It’s very frustrating. But from the milestone I am a believer and will keep chasing that till I am either more fluent or far too frustrated… I wish you the best of luck!

  9. Definitely do some kegel exercises every day for at least 5 minutes for 2 weeks. It will help a lot too if you try to exercise the PC muscle and sphincter muscles separately.

    Get yourself fairly aroused before insertion. I jerk myself to the edge a few times while watching porn, but that’s not the recommended way. Regardless how you do it, an aroused prostate is swollen and much more sensitive.

    My favorite techniques are mindgasm’s Big Squeeze or Endless Wave.

    Try different positions: on back legs straight or bent, on side legs straight or bent, flat on stomach, on hands and knees, reclining in a recliner instead of on bed.

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