Wow this made sex so much better? But also what is happening to me lol

I’ve been using an aneros for a little over a year now and had a few orgasms and a couple super os (but only when high and I can’t reproduce it anymore?). I’ve had a few partners in the past year but nobody that I really clicked with sexually and now I’m having the most insane sensations when bottoming with my new boyfriend. The second time we hooked up my abs felt tingly and went to sleep and today my hands cramped up and both my arms and my face went to sleep. It felt insanely good don’t get me wrong but also what is happening and has anybody else experienced anything similar?

Any advice for aless?

I’m at home with my parents for the extended holiday season due to how my school laid out the rest of the semester. I’ve tried with moderate success by just doing extended kegels, anyone have any advice for aless?

Third aneros session

I just tried using my toy for the third time yesterday and I hadn’t had much success before. I read some on the subreddit and tried to listen to meditative music and try to have no expectations. I think it started working because before long I felt this incredible pleasure / tension across my body and my heart started racing. I kept feeling it for a while and it built and subsided. Do yall have any tips about going farther? It felt incredible but I couldn’t get myself to prostate orgasm / super-O. Is there any way yall have found to increase or maximize this feeling?