I’ve owned a syn for multiple years that I bought as a curiosity. I never dedicated much time to learning it and seldom used it. I’d try once every couple of months and just shove it back in the drawer.
I read some recent posts for tips, and it really changed my session tonight. It peaked after about 10 minutes where I was shaking involuntarily, was hard, and had difficulty breathing. It still wasn’t a super o as I felt there was more to build to, but it was one of the most intense sexual experiences I’ve ever had. I got distracted from my prostate and forgot to keep breathing. I’m excited to try again as I’m definitely going to be picking it up to play with most evenings!
What definitely helped was a number of things:
1. I put a few pillows under my hips and it made it more comfy
2. I smoked a little weed which definitely helped me get in tune with myself and be more relaxed. I think I might have an edible next time for a longer session.
3. Clenching and breathing. I breathed deeply while flexing my pelvic floor 10-20% power. I played around a lot to found what worked for me.
4. I focused on the warm feeling behind my stomach that just felt really good and just relaxed into it. Don’t rush it.