Hi there! I've been interested in prostate massaging and the Super-O for years now but only just registered to be a part of this community, if you'll bare with me I'll explain what's brought me here.
I'd first heard about all this lark about 6 years ago, when I was perhaps younger than I'd like to admit, I'd became very interested in anal play. Before I'd bought myself any proper sex toys I'd really enjoy sticking miscellaneous and probably unsafe items up my bum. I knew where the "sweet spot" was because I'd like to press into it really hard.
When I was about 16/17 I managed to get my first ever sex toy, not an Aneros device but a Nexus Glide. I remember getting home with it, being giddy, it was barely out the packet before I'd lubed it up and stuck it in me. I read a lot relating to prostate massaging from many parts of the internet, although Googling "hands-free orgasm" only ever gave me information on women's orgasms – not that useful for somebody with a penis.
I'd had numerous sessions but, with hindsight, I'd fallen into the trap that many Aneros users have fallen into: impatience, expectations and trying too hard. I'd have nice sessions which at their peak gave me waves of a dull orgasmic pleasure. It was still fun but I knew from other's that there was more. I'd still use the same toy every now and then, occasionally having periods where I'd use it multiple nights. I'd never prepared myself properly and still had expectations of more traditional penile orgasm. I started to doubt everything I'd heard, thinking it was mere myth and cynically a marketing tool to get people to buy sex toys, and I haven't used the toy since I was 19.