Author: TSapphire

I hit a wall every single time

When I get the chance for a session I find that they always start well – precum, involuntary contractions, great feelings – and they build up to a point where I feel like I’m at the edge of something really great, but I find that after about 45 minutes to an hour I hit a wall and suddenly the arousal all disappears and it feels like I’m back at square one again.

This seems to happen no matter how good the beginning of the session was, and I find it really hard to relax again and build the arousal back up. At that point I usually switch to a different toy or my hands and get myself a traditional orgasm.

I don’t know if it’s just that I run out of patience or I get taken out of the moment but it happens every single time. I’ve tried mindgasm, I’ve tried other audios, none of them stop this from happening. Every time I feel like I’m on the edge of my arousal moving up to new heights and then it just plummets. What can I do?

Spontaneous sessions while living with partner

I’ve been using my aneros for a couple of years now and am slowly but surely making progress. However, as I live with my partner and generally have a lower libido nowadays I almost always plan my sessions in advance rather than when I get the spontaneous urge. This usually means that I’m usually not particularly aroused and not always relaxed when I begin.

Eventually my arousal will build, but I don’t think it’s a coincidence that my two best sessions have happened spontaneously rather than when I had planned my session.

I rarely get spontaneous urges, but when I do I would like to be able to pursue them and capitalise on the pleasure. It just feels a bit inconsiderate to my partner to say that I’m horny and need to not be disturbed for a few hours. How do others that live with partners get around this?

Tingling in prostate between sessions?

I’ve been using my Helix Syn on and off now for just less than a year, with varying levels of success. However, recently I feel like I’ve been understanding my body more and having a bit more luck as a result. I haven’t yet had a super-O, although I can feel myself getting closer, and am getting lots of fluttering and involuntaries during my sessions (I’m currently trying the “quick and dirty” method).

Just in the last week I’ve started to notice that between my sessions I’m getting this interesting sensation in and around my prostate, when I’ve not got the toy in. It’s like a tingling, tickling sensation, which reminds me of a sense of yearning almost. I’m finding that when I focus on this sensation it increases and if I start to clench my muscles ever so slightly it can lead to little flutters and even some precum.

Has anyone else had this experience? Is this part of the prostate awakening process?