Author: Wanton_song

7 years and counting

So, I’ve been on the journey for around 7 years now. I started with the Helix Syn. Then I got the Progasm Ice and finally the Helix Trident.

Alll three have given me different sensations but none have pushed me over the edge. I probably like the Helix Trident best and he’s definitely my go to. I haven’t really used the Helix Syn for some time as the material seemed to cause me a little bit of discomfort.

Now as I said. All three have given me good sensations. I’ve tried pretty much everything with all of them. Doing nothing, doing something. Holding at a low pressure, doing straight up Kegels and/or Reverse Kegels.

Laying on my side, my back and my stomach. Standing up, kneeling. Hard surface, soft surface. Watching porn, not watching porn. Listening to binaural sounds. Abstaining and not abstaining.

I tend to leak pre cum quite freely during sessions, and I go from soft to hard and back again a few times.

Don’t get me wrong, I love the Aneros, and I tend to reach for it whenever I get a private moment. But I will admit that I am starting to lose the sheer excitement I had for the first 3-4 years.

Do you guys have a pro tip I should try to maybe reach the next step? Pretty much willing to try anything. I’ve seen a lot of guys make great progress using weed and/or gummies but that’s out of the question for me. Read more »

Trying the Maximus Trident tonight

So I have the Progasm and Helix Syn. Maximus Trident arrived a few days ago and tonight will be my first session.

Do you guys have any tips and tricks to try out? Any position that did the trick for you? A lot of lube or a small amount. Porn or no porn? I know some like to listen to ambient sounds, links would be appreciated.

Basically I’m looking for what made you go over the edge and achieve the much coveted super o.

Kind regards

Finally, some kind of a breakthrough

I’ve been on the journey since 2016. No super O, no wet orgasms. Just a lot of nice feelings and precum.

Last night I started with my Helix Syn for about twenty minutes and then switched to the progasm. I tried a new position. With my ass hanging off the side of the bed and feet on the floor.

I did this kind of rolling movement between my spinchter muscles and pc muscles. And suddenly I could feel my heart start racing and I could swear I thought my head was going to explode. A constant good feeling gripped the whole of my body. It only stopped when I couldn’t take any more.

I tried repeating this after I had rested for about a minute but I was to tired in the muscles to reach the same rhythm.

So, Super-O?

I don’t know. It sure felt good, but not as good as a conventional orgasm. It was more of an intense, great feeling. Didn’t really peak at anytime.

Tomorrow I will be ordering the Maximus Trident to add to my collection. I’d made that decision before the session last night, but considered aborting that since the Progasm did such a good job.

4 years and still no dice

It’s been four years since I got my Helix Syn. During that time I’ve also bought the Progasm.

On this journey there have been ups and downs. During a bad session I get nothing. During a good session I’ll leak precum and get some moderately good sensations. I mostly lie on my back with a pillow under my hips. Although I have tried most other positions as well.

I have tried using a lot of lube (coconut oil + water based) and I’ve tried using little. I’ve tried abstaining from orgasm a few days before and I’ve tried the day after an orgasm.

I usually start by doing nothing for a while and then clenching softly. Holding the clench and breathing. I usually play with my nipples during sessions.

Do you guys have any suggestions for me? I see a lot of guys recommending weed as an aid but that’s out of the question for me. I’ve never felt this disheartened about the Aneros, there was always hope but now I feel I’m loosing that hope.

Please help me.

Muscle spasms

Whenever I have a session I eventually develop muscle spasm. They are usually centered in my upper thighs or buttocks. They don’t bring any sensations and are really distracting because the uncontrollable shake kind of throws me off and makes it difficult to concentrate. I’ve found that if I try to control them they stay pretty much in the same place but if I don’t do anything and let go it turns into a full body shake.

Is there any way to fight this off? Should I keep going until they go away? I’ve tried changing positions but they still come.

First time with Progasm

So I had my first session with my Progasm last night. Lay on my back while my wife masturbated in front of me. It was awesome.

The difference from my Helix Syn is huge. The size is a big difference of course but I also like the p-tab on the Progasm much better. When using the Helix I usually have to wait a bit for the good stuff to hit but almost immediately after inserting the Progasm things got really intense. The amount of precum oozing from my cock was unbelievable, like nothing I’ve ever seen.

After about 30 minutes I did feel a bit sore though, need more practice I guess. Didn’t super-O but don’t really care. Looking forward to trying it out on my own as there is this tiny bit of self-consciousness that holds me back when not alone.

Finally brought my wife into it

So. I’ve had my Helix Syn for almost two years. No super O but have enjoyed the ride immensely. Learning a whole lot about myself along the way.

I never told my wife about my Aneros. Only used it privately and had it hidden away. I had been wanting to try wearing it during sex though and finally told her a few days ago. Needless to say she took it really well and is super excited that we finally have a toy exclusively for me. We had this ridiculous edging session the first time we used it together and it was just euphoric.

So, now that I can finally keep my Helix with our other sex toys, I ordered a Progasm Ice yesterday to try something new. I wanted to get the new Trident but Lovehoney don’t carry them at the moment so maybe that’ll be my next purchase.

I’m just so glad that I don’t have to hide this anymore.

Aneros during sex?

Have any of you tried using the Aneros during sex? Intercourse, blowjobs or handjobs?

Is it perhaps not recommended? I can only imagine that it feels great but I’ve had my Helix Syn for almost two years now and have only used it on my own.

Different sensation after coming of anti anxiety meds.

So I started taking meds to deal with my anxiety a few weeks back. Turned out the meds didn’t really suit me so I went off them, after consulting my doctor. I had all kinds of side effects. The one that got to me the most though was the loss of my libido and the fact that it was almost impossible for me to finish. These are known side effects for this medication so I knew what to expect.

Before I took the meds I had been using my Helix Syn for about 10 months. No super O but a lot of really good sessions and enough progress to make me a fan for a lifetime. One thing that I have found is that after i started using the Syn my nipples became super sensitive. I had developed a real connection between my nipples and my prostate so when I played with the I could feel an instant tingle down there.

However, since I went off the meds my libido has been slowly coming back and is now at the point where I’m back at my old self and almost constantly horny. My nipples though have not followed suit. I mean, it feels nice when I touch them but nowhere near how it was before. I’ve been trying to figure out why that is.

I had never given them much attention before and was very surprised when I found out that they were a turn on for me (thanks Aneros), and now I miss them so much! Read more »

Milestones, progress and a question.

So, I haven’t had a chance to use my Helix Syn for about a month or so. Married with two young children so quality alone time is not in abundance.

I’ve been trying to keep at it though, using what little privacy I get to clench and release, using basically the same technique I’d use if the Aneros was inserted. I’ve gotten pretty good at it too. I can achieve some pretty powerful p-waves and the precum flows like crazy. A few times I’ve gotten to the point where I think “oh my god it’s happening” but never seem to cross the threshold. Since I started using the Aneros my nipples have become hugely sensitive and I truly can feel my prostate grow larger when I rub them, a testament I had read from other users but always found hard to believe.

So yesterday I finally had an hour on my own and the only things I could think of was getting my Aneros and have a session. Within minutes of inserting I felt my prostate tingle and what followed was my best session so far. I didn’t have the super o but for the first time I couldn’t control myself and was moaning/grunting like never before. It was truly amazing. I like to think it was a mini o but whatever it was, I liked it a lot. Read more »