So, I’ve been on the journey for around 7 years now. I started with the Helix Syn. Then I got the Progasm Ice and finally the Helix Trident.
Alll three have given me different sensations but none have pushed me over the edge. I probably like the Helix Trident best and he’s definitely my go to. I haven’t really used the Helix Syn for some time as the material seemed to cause me a little bit of discomfort.
Now as I said. All three have given me good sensations. I’ve tried pretty much everything with all of them. Doing nothing, doing something. Holding at a low pressure, doing straight up Kegels and/or Reverse Kegels.
Laying on my side, my back and my stomach. Standing up, kneeling. Hard surface, soft surface. Watching porn, not watching porn. Listening to binaural sounds. Abstaining and not abstaining.
I tend to leak pre cum quite freely during sessions, and I go from soft to hard and back again a few times.
Don’t get me wrong, I love the Aneros, and I tend to reach for it whenever I get a private moment. But I will admit that I am starting to lose the sheer excitement I had for the first 3-4 years.
Do you guys have a pro tip I should try to maybe reach the next step? Pretty much willing to try anything. I’ve seen a lot of guys make great progress using weed and/or gummies but that’s out of the question for me.
Any tip greatly appreciated
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/wbv1o4/7_years_and_counting/
Have you tried being very aroused so that your prostate swells up and is more sensitive? I find nipple play helpful also.
Try a dildo or something like the Lovense Edge 2 or Njoy Wand.
You need some variety to regain the thrill, and once you’re into it again, revisit your Aneros toys.
It will reinvigorate your prostate (not literally, but you get my point) and give you new appreciation for what you’re feeling. Right now you’re just burned out.
After 6 1/2 years in this game, I’m exactly in the same boat you are. I started with the same models you did and thoroughly enjoy every toy in my box.
I’ve put my disappointment and expectations behind me and decided to focus strictly on the pleasures. If the proverbial Super-O comes around, it’ll be welcomed but until then, I’ll enjoy the pleasures of my journey.
Good luck in your search.
Arousal and having the right mindset is needed. Relaxing and clearing your head is also needed.
You’re not hitting the prostate. For me, aneros toys are too thin, they don’t rub or press hard enough. With a bigger toy (dildo, beads, njoy wand) I can really hit the prostate and I can start having PO’s as the toy is inserted, and keep going from there. Aneros toys do nothing for me. Try toys bigger and/or differently shaped than the aneros toys, and make sure you pull them out far enough when you are playing. I suspect people have trouble because the prostate is much closer to the entrance than they think, and they are in too deep.
Things that really work for me:
1) The Eupho Syn. I know it’s small and looks ineffective, but it’s probably my favorite model by far. Don’t get me wrong, I love the pressure that the Progasm puts on my prostate, but the Eupho tickles and teases my prostate, making my brain and body almost beg it for more. This just sends me over the edge.
2) Lying on my stomach with a pillow under my stomach/pelvis, dick between my legs pointed toward my feet. There’s something about the dick in between legs position that anatomically changes how accessible my prostate is. Whether it’s through Aneros or dildos, dick between legs always knocks it out of the park for me.
3) Don’t rely on porn to stay aroused. You can use it to start a session off, but then turn it off to focus on sensations.
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Sometimes, the aneros isn’t just what my body needs. Sometimes, my body/prostate craves a deep and hard pounding to literally fuck the cum out of me. In these situations, the Aneros probably won’t do the trick. However after getting fucked silly by a machine, my hole and prostate tend to get a bit sensitive and that’s when the aneros comes in handy.
Keep on experimenting!