Category: Aneros blogs

Day 7 of 4th attempt

The last few days, and really for most of this 4th attempt, I’ve felt pretty calm energy and grounded.

Had a really good session yesterday afternoon that lasted about 2 hours, a-less. At the start was maybe just a bit too agressive because I was reaching the point of no return pretty quickly and needing lots of breaks. Maybe 2 close calls, but nothing that I couldn’t deal with and carry on.

The whole session my cock wasn’t as hard as it normally would be, especially for having not cum for almost a week! It did get very hard several times, but it was some effort on my part.

The last hour of the session really was amazing – I was stroking my cock lots and more aggressively than usual. I was able to keep myself in an orgasm for over a minute while doing this, and probably had about 15 or so of these orgasms that lasted over a minute while stroking my cock. It was about finding the right intensity to keep me in an orgasm vs. going to hard that I’d reach the point of no return. I felt like I was at the point of no return (and having an orgasm) but had really good control and wasn’t afraid of going over. Read more »

Ten weeks of enforced abstinence from Aneros! :-(

Hi guys,

This is my blog entry of 2017 during which I experienced more than ten weeks of enforced abstinence from the Aneros! 🙁

All this was the result of a completely unexpected fall I had at a friend’s house Friday evening, January 6 during which I broke my right hip. Hip replacement surgery occurred two days later on Sunday, January 8. Then for more than nine weeks I was at a rehab facility learning to walk again using a walker or a cane. I was released late last Friday morning on St Patrick’s Day to continue my recovery at home. I am getting stronger with each passing day, even walking to and from the 7 Eleven to do a little grocery shopping.

It will be some weeks before I attempt using the Aneros again, perhaps with Aneros Helix!

Pushing too hard!

I have come to realize I may have been pushing the envelope a little too much lately. I’m having about 4 sessions per week over and above two A-less sessions per day. I have reverted back to viewing a lot of porn and all this in strong attempts to achieve the Super-O. Not a good situation.
I need to get back on track and change gears a little. I need to slowdown and smell the flowers one good feeling at a time.

I will start that immediately but first, a good A-less session.

“Male Chastity: It’s All About Control”

Another “living fantasy”…..It started with my lover wanting me to start wearing my chastity cage at night instead of just my chastity cup. So I obliged. She knows that I cannot escape from my cage no matter what. She wants to really prevent me from masturbating. And she wants to see more precum. There is no expectation of orgasmic release for me now. It is a different feeling from that which I have had before. Usually, I expected a release about once a week but this time it is different. Since she has the control and the keys, I am not in control of my orgasms.

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I have regular erections within my cage now but they are not painful at all. I feel pressure from within the cage and my testicles swell up and become very hard. After a while, however, they return to normal and the pressure subsides. I suppose that I will be begging for release soon enough. The feeling while in my cage is almost like continuous arousal. I feel my precum inching its way towards the tip of my penis.

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I am listening now to a nice track: “Best of Chillout 2016 /Influence”. It’s about 2 hours long and I am not yet halfway through it. I feel another drop of precum finding its way……I will go lie down again and take this all in…. Read more »

Day 4 of 4th attempt

At day 4 – I’ve had really calm energy during the day, not feeling all that sexual. But when I’ve been having sessions/sex in the evening last two days they went really really well. Had lots of control and lots of orgasms, and very easily was able to stay away from the point of no return.

Don’t feel like I have a lot of stored up sexual energy though during the day. But at least my sessions at night have been great! When I stop them, I go soft within about 5-10 min and don’t feel horny. But at the peak of them, even when I end them, I’m really having a good time and feel lots of sexual energy.

Will be interesting to see how the next few days pan out (weekends are my biggest risk for a screw up since Im more likely to have sex, and that can be a little harder to control).

Male Chastity T/D Fantasy: “I Want You To Leak (Again and Again)”

My lover insists that I wear a chastity “cup” at night and I oblige. I woke up at about 3 AM with a semi-erect cock and just wanted to chill. So I start listening to a nice track: “Erotic Lounge & Luxury Chill Out Collection Vol. 1”. It was very relaxing and put me in the mood for what was to follow.

While listening, I had fallen-into a “living fantasy” and had a strong desire. My lover wants to arouse me within my “cup” and wants to use my anal and prostate vibrator on me. So she takes hold of it and before I know it, I have fallen-into a most erotic fantasy…….

My hands are now tied-up and I cannot see what she is doing to me (but I am not blindfolded). Before long, I feel the intense vibratory pleasure on my “cup”. Suffice it to say that it was an intensely arousing“session”. She stimulated me all around the cup, including my perineum and external prostate. Then she maneuvered the vibrator around my anal depression and arranged it in a way that when I relaxed, I could feel the vibrator “drilling-down” into my anus and I was getting hard all over again. It was a wildly erotic feeling and I couldn’t bear much more. I heard her whisper: “I want to know you are leaking inside your cup”. My moans were uncontrollable. I had relaxed beneath my cup just long enough for her to start-up all over again…..and again…. And then that is when I must have lost it……… Read more »

Day 16 – end of 3rd attempt

Last few days was feeling really good. Great mood, good energy, not sexually frustrated. Felt excited about sex a lot during the day, looking forward to sessions that would be coming up.

Also during sessions last few days felt like I had a lot more control and easy to know where to stop stimulation to cock and avoid the point of no return.

Failed last night during playtime. Too much muscular tension I think while playing and triggered the ejaculation reflex. Stopped it with my muscles but the hormones and stiffness of my cock immediately decreased. So while it only lasted a few seconds and there was maybe only one contraction – which I squeezed and held a squeeze for 10-15 seconds to stop further contractions (and nothing came out), i felt different and knew it had gone too far.

So time to start over.

Day 1 of 4th attempt

I feel more tired today and just less horny. When I focus down mentally to what my cock feels like, it just doesn’t feel as sensitive or good as it did before I failed and broke my 16 day no ejaculating streak last night.

Still woke up horny though and jerked off for about an hour. Didn’t cum. But erection would go down fast when I stopped stimulation a few times. But not feeling quite the same. Just more tired, less sensitive to pleasurable touch.

Bit mad at myself that I’m starting from 0 after a successful 16 days but that’s a mental thing I need to get over. I still can enjoy lots of good sessions on the climb back up to tie or exceed my 16 day record. Hard not to be a bit disappointed with myself.

“Male Chastity: Prostate And Anal Play”

I had been relaxing in the early AM wearing my “pseudo chastity cup” (my Shock Doctor Pro Ultra Carbon Cup) when it dawned on me: just because I am unable to touch or play with my cock doesn’t mean that I can’t play with my anus and my prostate. So, thanks to the observations of @Fred27 and @Orgasmic19 in some recent Forum posts, I reached down-below and began doing an external prostate massage by massaging my perineum close to the cup. And something amazing happened! I began to get hard almost immediately and felt my prostate swelling. When it did, it seemed to provide some “feedback” through the narrow portion of the cup near that area. Thus began a feedback-loop (similar to Aneros) where I felt an intensity of prostate pleasure building up. I just laid there and began thrusting into the sofa with each pulse of my erect cock.

A little while later, I did a similar probing around and slightly into my anus (through clothing of course) and I could feel another intense wave of pleasure from my prostate. I kept this up for a while and then it dawned on me…….

Guys like me that are in male chastity aren’t really deprived of sexual arousal. Yes, we can’t have normal erections but as far as the prostate goes, all of us chaste guys have one and it is capable of providing intense pleasure if we know how to stimulate it. I learned that this morning. Another “fringe benefit” of chastity and penile abstinence is that I can be more focused and listen for the “whispers” coming from my prostate. They are definitely there! Sometimes the whispers are so soft, they can be overlooked. But if I stay focused and listen, I can “hear” them! Read more »

waking the sleeping giant

With out getting into much detail, due to a family medical issue i had to relocate for a couple of months and did not and could not use my aneros. It has been over 3 months since my last session. since i got back there is always someone home at my house at all times and I have no privacy or time to have a session. I could not take it any longer today. There was someone in the house but i went up to get a shower and get dressed. The aneros was calling me from the closet where they have been put away for the last three months. i grabbed my coconut oil, my gel lube and my ps-new and closed the bathroom door. i lubed up my ass and the toy like there was no tomorrow i was not worrying about staining the sheets or making a mess on a towel. i put one foot up on the counter and reached around and inserted the toy. It felt amazing going in and almost like one of the first times. i stood in front of the mirror and had a little trouble keeping it in at first, gravity and excess lube wanted it to slip out. I never really tried it standing up before. I pushed it back in and gave a good contraction to set it in place. Then the body took over and new what to do. It slowly pulled itself in and relaxed in place. wow it felt good so there i was naked in front of the mirror aneros in place now what? I started some nipple stimulation and things started heating up. I could really feel the p tab applying pressure standing up and the aneros felt larger than normal and like it was in farther than normal. I tied to relax and breath slowly i could feel it slightly move in and out with my breathing. Then the warm full feelings started in my prostate area as i looked at myself in the mirror and played with my nipples. I felt like Iwas going to start getting a erection but i did not. Standing up was a little bit of a distraction but things where moving in the right direction. I tried to relax more and let go but knowing someone was just in the other room and standing up i could tell I was going to have to end the session. lube was running down my legs, i would grab some and use it on my nipples, I was heating up and if i could have moved to the bed I think Iwould have been in for a suprise. Now I have created a monster, my prostate wants more and so do I. My desire had slacked off with the long layoff but it did not take long to re wire. I will need to get creative with my sessions and hopefully will get some alone time soon. so looking forward to the next time. Sorry not alot of good details about my session but the groundwork is set for the next one.