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Day 12 of 3rd attempt

No significant changes to the way I feel over the last couple days, so just some observations of things I notice.

Still have a really hard time getting sex off my mind, been like that a few days. When I start fantasizing about something in my head, I get really excited and get almost like a slight anxious feeling or jittery.

Noticed during some sexual contact with partner (just playing with my cock a bit while we were cuddling on sofa) that my physical response to arousal was a bit different. I had a really strong erection at first, but it went down more quickly than usual and I was soft the rest of the time (usually I stay hard). Still felt good though, and didn’t have any orgasmic contractions, but had lots of orgasmic sensations and feelings. Thought I’d have strong orgasms and stronger erections that lasted longer the more I got into the semen retention. I noticed last night, and a solo session day before, that my cock wasn’t as hard as normal and had more periods of just being soft (but still aroused).

Sometimes when I pee, I notice there is some semen at the tip of my urethra after I pee… if I touch it, it’s clearly more thick and stringy than just pee. So leaking a bit I guess.

I have I stronger desire for other parts of my body to be touched, not just my cock.

Day 11 of 3rd attempt

Woke up this morning and feel pretty confident, bit more energetic. Easily turned on, was hard to ignore my morning erection – but I did and got myself to the gym and work.

Last night was having a session with Aneros Eupho, Pro Jr, and Pro Ice (in that order). I think I was just a bit tired. After being horny all day and having sex on my mind almost constantly yesterday, I thought I’d have an amazing session with amazing orgasms. I had some good orgasms, but wasn’t feeling orgasmic for more than about 20-30 min at a time (and did that twice, with about a two hour break in between those two sessions). Stroking my cock really helped with arousal when nothing was happening and was able to enjoy some really long orgasms (longer than normal in duration, but not as intense as I usually get). It was really nice though. Felt very much in control. Able to stroke my cock and orgasm without feeling like I was too close to PONR and didn’t have any close calls.

Today I feel horny again and sex on my mind. But I also feel in control. If I actually try to focus on something else – I can. It’s just hard to because I like thinking about sex 🙂

Day 10 of 3rd attempt

It’s probably been a few years since I went this long without ejaculating, and the first time able to have MMO sessions I’ve not ejaculated this long (was re wired about 1.5 years ago).

Noticed yesterday that I generally just felt like I was in a better mood, and a little bit more energetic during the day. I didn’t feel especially horny or frustrated during the day, but also felt like I could turn myself on easily with thoughts or light touch. I had sex with my partner for about 90 minutes, initially when we started I didn’t get an erection right away, but then after a few minutes I was really hard and really turned on. I was having good orgasms from him stroking me and oral sex, but they seemed like it maybe took a little bit more pleasure to “get there” to an orgasm. I actually thought that was a good thing, because when the orgasm did happen it felt a little stronger (like more pressure had built up and was being released). I also didn’t have a toy in – often I do because 1 – it just feels good and makes orgasms easier to have and 2 – I thought the pressure against my prostate during an orgasm made it harder to ejaculate so felt safer.
Anyways, I was feeling in control and far enough away from the ejaculation reflex that I decided to go A-less for the whole time. We fucked for about 45-60 minutes, and I didn’t have any close calls. Had some really good orgasms though, one that lasted about 2 minutes which was amazing. I felt pretty happy being at that 80-90% level and not too afraid of going to far to like 99% where I could easily trigger the ejaculation reflex. I was really horny, really hard, but after he ejaculated I just pulled out and we stopped. The energy and horniness declined pretty easily – within about 5-10 min i was soft and not feeling frustrated like I missed out on something. Read more Â»

Day 9 of 3rd attempt

Today is Day 9, so beat my previous best attempt of 8 days.

I haven’t really had any big spikes in sexual energy or frustration the last two days. On Saturday (Day 7) I had three sessions (had a few small breaks) and was edging and orgasming for several hours. Was very tempted to ejaculate during the session, but had good discipline and control and didn’t. I felt very frustrated at times during my sessions. On Saturday night I tried to have another session, but it was a dud. I had been stroking my cock a lot earlier that day, and it almost felt numb, didn’t feel much pleasure at all stroking it and couldn’t really get hard. I w as surprised, because I was so turned on and wanting to cum so bad earlier that day – even when I ended things to get on with the day, I was so turned on and hard. I was surprised later that day I didn’t get back to that feeling.

Sunday (Day 8) I was busy and just distracted with other things. So nothing to really report there.

Today (Day 9) I’m noticing that I feel pretty energetic and awake, maybe a bit more than normal. But not really hornier than normal. If anything, a little less sexually frustrated, just more energetic. And noticing that if I touch areas of my body (eg. my face) or if someone else touches me (eg. my partner touches my arm) it feels really good and i get slightly aroused. If more cuddling and touching for a longer period of time, I think I’d get turned on really fast.

Day 7 of 3rd attempt

The biggest change I’m noticing today is I can go from uninterested in sex to completely turned on and rock hard to uninterested and soft in like 2 minutes. I’ve had 4 different sessions today and it’s only 2:30pm. I’m gonna go on to other things now, but I feel so much energy in my groin area right now, and fullness. Even though I’m soft and now not aroused. But I get myself aroused and hard very very quickly if I want.

Likely to have sex later today, so will have to try to do as good a job with all the control I did this morning and make sure I make it to tomorrow, which will tie my previous best of 8 days.

Day 6 of 3rd attempt

Made it through Day 5! I ended up having a long session last night – started with about 90 min of sex, then about 60 min solo session just stroking myself.

I felt like I was “pretty close” almost the whole time during intercourse, which lasted about 45-60 min. Had to go slow a lot, and for some minutes just stayed completely still – even that was enough to have me orgasm a lot. I did get a little closer than I wanted – I found that if I thought I was close, it was better just to stay with the orgasm, thrusting in rhythm and die down with the orgasm. A sudden stop, or sudden contraction was way worse than just relaxing and making slight adjustments to rhythm. So that was good. I lost my erection maybe 2-3 times during the course of the 90 min of sex, so thats not bad – it came back within 2-3 min most of the time.

I was still horny after sex, so stroked my cock slowly for 60 min after and didn’t have any close calls there either, just lots of nice orgasms.

Really good Day 5. Today is Day 6. I still got sex on my mind quite a bit. The videos at 21daychallenge.com calls these few days like around 3-6 hell days because dopamine levels are still really low or something like that. But I feel good, so not sure.

Fred27

Just keeps getting better and.better! Once have learned to totally relax and use different muscles to move my ice anything is possible! Pure pleasure in different moments! Once lubed and inserted I start out on my stomach and control breathing once ice is in as far as it will go! Get the most pleasurable sensations by letting it go in and hold while exercising the inner muscle in short bursts! Then roll over on my back while supported with pillows and arch my back with quick hold and relax with limp penis flopping – the feeling is out of this world as the ice moves within! Pure ecstasy!

Day 5 of 3rd attempt

Was feeling pretty average last night, not a depleted feeling of sexual energy, but not reved up either. I was walking home from gym in evening and thought about having sex later that evening, but couldn’t decide if i was really in the mood for it. Also, I didn’t really want to risk cumming and thought I’d just be safer if I was by myself. Decided to wait till weekend to have sex and did a solo session instead.

Started with Maximus and got pretty aroused pretty fast. I w as hard most of the session. I used that for about an hour and had a great session with that, pretty strong orgasms. Was also using my hand a little to really slowly stroke my cock. I really paid attention to how slow strokes and relaxing into the orgasm work really well. If I started stroking hard/fast, I could really feel how the ejaculation reflex can come out of nowhere and get close really fast without realizing. It’s like the stroking really fast was causing me to tense up around my groin area and I didn’t have enough time to just relax into the rhythm of an orgasm. I think that is an important lesson I need to remember going forward. Read more Â»

A “Virtual” Aneros Session….Amazing!

An amazing session! Here is the background……

I was in Day 6 of SR and chastity. My wife was feeling better after a week with a stomach bug. Anyway, we lay down in bed just relaxing and watching TV when I reached out to her to cuddle. I began to get an erection, but this one wouldn’t go down. It remained hard and just got harder. I began to get aroused and she felt it. She began a most-erotic, gentle tease of my cock and after about 25 minutes, I was thoroughly wet. I knew I would have to go-off or suffer the consequence of blue-balls. I didn’t have a towel handy so I went to get one and returned. I got it into position and my wife took over from there (knowing I am in chastity, she gave the green-light). She proceeded to finish me off with some mind-blowing ball massage and cock-work. I didn’t last long, I ejaculated with an incredible amount of cum! My pelvis was tingling for several minutes afterwards.

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Fast-forward to this morning; I am “locked” in my pseudo-chastity-cup and found an interesting track on YouTube: “Tantric Deep Lounge” by G.I. Joe. I started listening and could feel my cock twitching beneath my cup. I started performing some kegels but not knowing where this was going. After a while (I lost track of time) I began to feel an unmistakable clenching in my prostate and it was a prostate orgasm! Now realize I have stopped my “formal” Aneros sessions months ago. But this “session” felt like I never stopped! Things settled down for a short while, but started-up all over again! OMG! A MMO! During this session, I had the usual moans, deep-breathing, shaking and euphoria. I guess you could say that the Aneros re-wiring is indeed permanent! I probably could have lasted longer, but, alas, it was time to get-up. Read more Â»

The Plateau again – how to kickstart something else?

Yesterday I had another session, a long one, and this time I tried to use Mgx.

It resulted in the same pattern I have when I can feel something else than “blackground pleasure”.

And what it is? The plateau.
For 2 hours or so I was in a state of relaxed pleasure, more than background pleasure, but not having amazing pleasure.
What’s frustrating is that when I get to that state I feel that I’m close to something great, but never get there.

My prostate barely moves, and I think my body needs somehow how to spark the prostate into having involuntary contractions in this stage.
I prefer to do nothing and wait – nipples don’t lead to the right place, and I want to be “surprised” by pleasure, I want it to come to me.

During this time sometimes I feel a little more pleasure and my penis can go semi-hard or hard. Sometimes I can feel a faint pleasure pulse in the prostate, but it fades and goes nowhere.

It’s frustrating because I “know” if the prostate starts spasming by itself at this stage it will be wonderful. It’s the feeling of being so close but unable to reach it.

How can I, doing nothing, teach my prostate to have involuntary movements and trigger “real” sexual pleasure?