Category: Aneros blogs

Dealing with Arousal

What was your journey in learning to combine ejaculation and Aneros Use? And how do you deal with the refractory period that follows?

If I don’t ejaculate for several days, the sessions are mind-blowing, but I am so aroused I am unable to work or study. There’s nothing else I can think about, except teasing myself through nipple stimulation or having an Aneros session. I also have to think of ways to avoid ejaculating during sex.

If I ejaculate through sex with my partner or masturbation, I cannot reach the same level of satisfaction through prostate play for several days. I am either not interested or the sessions are dull.

I suppose it is a learning experience to get to a place where I can rewire and combine both, or enjoy both without affecting the other. This is just one of those things that I haven’t yet mastered.

Cheat Codes

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have combined my solo play with a a variety of different cheat options and enhancements. I guess it was simple curiosity, I wanted to try it all, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both). Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I could never satisfy my curiosity. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

Edging – 6/10 I would still be interested to get to a ‘goon’ state or a multiorgasmic masturbation session. But this is usually contradictory to Aneros play. I have generally enjoyed my experiences with edging, especially as this is something my partner is receptive to. Those are even better. But generally I don’t have the patience to start stop enough times to get a continuous orgasm state. It would be interesting to learn this one day. Read more »

Levels

One of the times where I found myself in a floating orgasmic state I tried to put these different level orgasms (both physical and mental) into a pyramid of sorts, or a circle of pleasure (the orgasms re-circle).

Level 1: Relaxation
Level 2: Noise Elimination
Level 3: Auto Contractions
Level 4: Prostate P-Waves
Level 5: Dry-O
Level 6: Floating, Loss of Direction
Level 7: Whole Body Waves
Level 8: Mental-Orgasm
Level 9: Loss of Time and Space
Level 10: Physical Super Orgasm
Level 11: Mental Super Orgasm
Level 12: Complete Out of Body Experience

Last level for me (Level 12) is the feeing of ultimate trance, almost godlike. Close to heaven if such ever existed. Pleasure is fully in my mind, it is unbelievable, and I have no sense of physical body.

Level X: Combined Level 10 and Level 11 Super Os at the same time – this is the the most stimulating type of orgasm. It activates all physical and mental outlets. Only had it a few times. I think it requires to keep up the physical contractions whilst allowing thyself to drift into trance.

It is hard to define this well as I haven’t had a session for a while sadly. At the time of having these I came up with more complex, more beautiful definitions.

Levels 1-12 is my ultimate session, happens every 5 sessions or so. Sometimes requires help (weed). Not always. I only have a session about once a month. So it is rare. Most often I go 1-4. Sometimes 1-8. Read more »

Njoy Pure Wand Session- A Must Read

I love my Aneros toys, I really do. But truthfully I have a few other toys that are worth talking about. I picked up an Njoy pure wand a couple of years ago, out of pure curiosity. It carries quite a reputation amongst men and women for its pleasurable effects. If you aren’t aware of what it is, look it up. To summarize its an 8 inch long curved solid piece of stainless steel with a 1 inch bulb and a 1.5 inch bulb on opposing ends. It works great for G spot and P spot stimulation, and since its made of pure stainless its not an issue to deep clean it in boiling water. I find both ends work equally well depending on what my body is craving. The slim end is more nimble and able to touch all the good spots around my prostate. I can do circles around my prostate with the small end. The larger end is more to the point direct pressure and more filling feeling. Now lets get to the good parts. Read more »

My Only Regret

My only regret was never having a true hfwo, not from sex or from play. I guess it wasn’t meant to be, but I have surely come close a multitude of times through hypnosis, nipple play, nJoy wand, a sex machine, THC, a Theragun or sex itself! If there’s anything I haven’t tried (that doesn’t involve penis stimulation), then shout!

My big success (if you can call it that) came from squeezing my penis between my thighs so that there was very minor stimulation – this was not totally a hfwo. I used a theragun successfully and sat on it at the edge of the bed. I came, but felt overstimulated. Another time, I invested a lot into eStim equipment and finally ejaculated, but it was overwhelming. It was more shocking than pleasing.

I suppose a hwfo is not always helpful for Aneros play. Those that have it say they are tired of ending all their sessions with one, and those that don’t – always want to experience it.

A hwfo envy! But hanging off the edge is also fun. And it helps to get to the next level of pleasure.

Recap

I have been an avid user of Aneros toys and playing with my prostate for several years now. It started independently of my relationship with my partner, which runs in parallel. Our sex life is amazing and mind-blowing, if a tad ‘traditional’. We have been together since we have been very young and never looked back. We share an intimate romantic bond and have long almost tantric body-to-body sex sessions. I usually top, but we can both be versatile. I was always a more sexual person than he is and is constantly looking to enhance our experience without cheating. But he is rarely interested in anything else. I suppose I am happy with this, but always wanted to personally go beyond ‘nomal’ sex.

Even as a kid I knew something is ‘up there’ and would sometimes have dreams of some sort of anal pleasure, without understanding it. Now that I think about it, I find it almost unbelievable. I just didn’t know what to do with it. I wonder if anyone else was the same?

As a teenager, I was an eager participant in a variety of forums and keenly tried out all forms of masturbation and play before stumbling upon prostate play and the Aneros forum. But my first solo experiences were hardly a success. I tried using a pen or screwdriver handle to simulate sex. I should say that before serious prostate play, anal sex was fun but not as pleasant physically as it is now. Read more »

Eagle40

I just ordered the vice2. Any recommendations. I have a trident series which is nice for a manual but wanted something with vibration

Early morning Aless

Have been having some great sessions with my HSV lately. That having been said, my Aless sessions have been ramped up as well. Early this morning while still in bed, I was pleasantly awakened by a pleasant feeling in my perenium area. This feeling began building up and generated contractions in my rectum as well as movements in the pelvic floor which also radiated into the area around my tailbone. Could feel my prostate responding in rhythm with the contractions and felt even more intense pleasure. Unfortunately had to get up but could feel the pleasure continue. Good way to start the day!!

Mind Blowing

I have found the trick to a Super O almost every time. Go out and get the small leg pillow shaped like a triangle. Insert the aeros and then put the small leg pillow between your legs tight up on the Aneros This will allow you to rock up and down and it is amazing. I ride it like a saddle.

Laying on my stomach session

Ive started doing sessions on my stomach vs on my Side or back. Im not sure if this is the same for everyone or not but I have found it has some advantages for me. The cons are pretty minor. 1st con is that if I develop an erection its very distracting and not the most comfortable in this position. 2nd, this has Todo with anyone who is a leaker. I tend to make a mess, I usually lay on a towel or wear my jock strap. Now for the pros. I have little ability in this position to touch my penis. I struggle leaving it alone and this position helps. I also have found that laying on my stomach makes the massager feel more maneuverable with less effort. It defiantly puts more pressure on my prostate in that position. I get to orgasmic bliss faster in this position than others. That iss just something about this position that I really enjoy. Its comfortable and relaxing to stay in this position for a while. Sometimes I will lift my legs 90 degrees at my knees. This helps to take it up a little from a pleasure standpoint. Probably due to a little tighter core in the position. I love the feeling of the massager against my prostate, making me leak, I love the leaking feeling, especially the little tickle I get at the tip of my penis. I like the feeling of the massager moving, touching and dancing on my prostate. Sound off in the comments on your experience with this position.