I used to brush off that abstinence does not affect the quality/pleasure of my prostate play at all. My mood was the main factor. But recently i discovered that I was wrong. If I tried to have an aneros session or any prostate massage session with my wife on the day that I had a normal orgasm, the quality of the session will go down the drain. It feels empty and i could not have any super-O, or even had a problem achieving mini-O. The only pleasure that I get is the initial high that the aneros slides in and touch my prostate. That feeling diminished fast. So fast that I am bored after 2-3min into the session.
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Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV
To Whom It May Interest,
Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.
From Aneros and an ‘Optimal’ mind state?
Hi guys,
I was recently asked by a member [quote]…about how to get into the right state of mind to encourage a prostate orgasm to happen…[/quote]That’s a good question which deserves some thoughtful responses from our members. First off, let’s dispense with the word “right” and it’s implied antonym “wrong”, the semantics of which imply too much moral judgment attached to their use. I prefer to use the term “optimal” in lieu of “right”. Second, we need to identify what constitutes this “optimal” state of mind. I think I have a pretty good idea about this but it is just my opinion. Third, we need to identify those practices which will help us get into that “optimal” state of mind. Some of this was alluded to in the thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/7967-identifying-facilitators-to-progress”]Identifying Facilitators to Progress[/URL][/U] so this post could be considered an addendum to that thread. This also ties into [USER=”7188″]rook[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/5228-whole-body-whole-mind-the-mental-side”]Whole Body/Whole Mind – the mental side[/URL][/U] & [USER=”7244″]SteelColdiron[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/6775-aneros-the-essential-mind-state”]Aneros: The Essential Mind State[/URL][/U]
“Men Get Erections!”
Introduction
Yes, I know I get erections at night. They are supposed to occur in my sleep. But……
Reality
I seem to be awakened at night by some of these erections. Just this morning, I got up about 12:30 AM and could not believe the “stick” I had in my PJs. I carefully got out of bed, visited the lavatory and crawled back into bed, still very firm.
Later-on this morning, about 4:30 AM, sure enough, a metal rod down in my groin. This time, being in Day 7 of SR, I was really tempted to rub-it-out and get more rest. But I persevered and when it subsided a little bit, I decided to don my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup”. I immediately felt better since I couldn’t even touch it. I crawled back into bed, and the erection was finally starting to subside.
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Analysis
What is it about these NPT erections that can wake me up? I supposed that many guys just sleep through them? Or do they? And how many do I/they have after all? I believe I have at least a few more during the night that I am not even aware of. Thank goodness for that! Otherwise, I wouldn’t be able to sleep at all!
Information Box
Here is some interesting information on this subject that I found on “Netwellness.org”
“Back To Basics”
Introduction
Haven’t had a session in a while (8 days). Haven’t had an ejaculation in a while (6 days). Haven’t worn a “chastity cup” at night in a while. That is changing this morning. Let me explain…..
Nightly Activity
I awoke about 4 AM after a good night’s rest. A very vivid (non-sexual) dream too. Woke up with a very arousing erection and it was hard to keep my hands to myself. As I did not want to achieve an ejaculation this morning (I really thought about ending the run), I decided to put-on my Mueller Flex Shield cup for protection. I did and went back to bed. The cup can be very stimulating and sure enough, just enough stimulation to induce a throbbing erection. Every so often, my whole body would “twitch” in ecstasy. One thing I noticed this morning is how my prostate seemed to be “pulsing” as well. I haven’t had a session in a while and right now, I don’t intend to have one any time soon. Why is that? Like with regular male chastity, “Aneros abstinence” seems to make me very “prostate horny”. What is wrong with that? It seems that any kind of male “abstinence” is good for the libido, right? So by thwarting the ejaculations, thwarting the edging/masturbation activities, and thwarting the prostate stimulations, can I get as horny as possible? I don’t know but it sure is fun trying!
Taking off
Phew, theres so much that has happened but I’ll try to summarise the points. So recently my sessions have been exceptional, easily hitting 10 orgasms in each session. One thing I notice is that prostate orgasms can vary alot from mild pulses to really strong distinct PC contractions. Also, the amount of conscious contraction may hinder the orgasm.
There was this point I had a prostate O fr 20 secs and it kept going. The pelvic floor started to really warm up. The arousal kept feeding itself with the Aneros stroking the prostate each time. It was automatic. I relaxed and let it take over. About 40 seconds in cumming non-stop, a huge wave of pleasure lit up my entite body like a full body orgasm, could be some kind of chemical release. The whole thing laster about a minute.
I also tried a session on a really tired night and I was already half asleep. While my brain wasn’t focusing much since I was super tired, the orgasms seemed to have kicked in easier. The orgasms kept coming one after another.
I tried a short session with Aless and did some PC contractions, there were moments it felt exactly like a traditional O, with each pulse the flaccid penis got more and more erect. But when the penis got fully erect, the orgasm stopped. Maybe too much manual contraction.
I’m walking, la la la, I’m walking, and bliss occurs, I’m walking …
This afternoon I leaned forward on my hands positioned on the bathroom sink and focused on my perineum while reading a post of @WhoWouldHaveKnown about focusing on that spot. Standing on one foot I let my other leg sway and be subconsciously steered by some upcoming involuntaries, that caused some nice p-waves. Seemed like my subconsciousness just took the chance to massage my gland that way. Letting go some more consciously uncontrolled movements of my hips, pelvis and legs proved, that my subconsciousness even is an expert with starting a standinggasm this way. Then I’d been executing leg moves like when marching on one spot and the orgasmic state has been continuing. More and more I believe to get insights into the sexual aspects of the dances the indigenous peoples celebrate. After typing this to the forum I started with my marching moves again and could immediately ignite a full body orgasm along with growing to half mast and already shedding a first tear from my right eye. Life has become so wonderful. Oh, yabba dabba doo!
Btw, not sticking to certain motions but letting go induced the silliest motions fully controlled by my subconsciouness and started a very special kind of gymnastics in my bathroom, giving me pure bliss!
Cheers, Mart
Too Much Bladder Pressure?
Started out with usual routine prep time, with a little extra bit of flex training to try and tire out the muscles beforehand. They were definitely a bit fatigued when starting up with the Peridise. It went in smoothly up to the last nub again, which rested half in and half out, like previous times. Once I had stopped conscious contractions of my anal muscles, there were a few bouts of involuntary ones, and some interesting movements.
However, in this round of “do nothing,” I was interesting in trying to figure out if I needed to have the device in deeper for it to have its full effect. So with a gentle nudge, it went into my anus up to the hilt, with the tabs nuzzled against my outer anus. A few contractions to make sure it stayed there, then I went back to doing nothing, for the most part. For the first half hour, I could feel increased blood flow / my heartbeat in my anus and behind my testicles. There wasn’t really much else going on, aside from the occasional involuntary movement of the device inside me. After about 40 minutes, a gradual feeling of needing to urinate started. Over the next 10 minutes, it got to the point where I really felt like I needed to urinate, even though I did so before starting the session. I tried to breathe through it, but it eventually got to the point where the hour was up, and I had to pee. Walking with the device in was interesting, as was trying to pee with it inside me.
“Prostate Awareness”
Up around 4 AM; woke-up with a very arousing erection. Decided to put-on my Mueller cup for relief and control. I went to relax down on my sofa, but what to listen to? I selected “Prostate Gland Healing, Binaural Beats Healing Music” which was about an hour long. I queued it-up and started listening. Wow! This track was exactly what I wanted! Quite soothing and the embedded ‘tones’ seemed to resonate deep down in my prostate. Nice, gentle ocean wave sounds as well. Toward the end, it felt like my prostate was gently “asking” me for more stimulation. But before too long, this track ended and it was time to get up for the day. No session for me this morning.
Afterthought: It seems that I am more “aware” of my prostate within my body these days, with or without Aneros. Since the prostate is intimately involved with ejaculations, I should be aware of its role, especially with arousal and the resulting erection. I think that it is important for us males to be attentive to our prostate’s health and to “manage” our ejaculations accordingly. Anytime we are going to or are contemplating having an ejaculation, our prostates must spring-into action. As an exocrine gland*, the prostate’s function is to secrete prostate fluid as a component of semen. The prostate contains smooth muscles that help expel the fluid during ejaculation. This all happens automatically, without our direct control. The ejaculation is like on ‘auto-pilot’ once we males reach the ‘point of no return’.
A new level
Spent about 30 minutes in a-less land last night 2/19. I went to bed fully intending to go to sleep but decided to do some deep massage, got some wonderful sensations. Moved on to massaging my frenulum and those sensations dropped straight into my prostate, was on the verge of a dry-o that never came but felt wonderful. rolled over onto my left side and locked my feet like doing a session when all hell broke loose. Waves of pleasure flowed over me like I was joined with one of my lovers. I’m sitting on the couch writing this and can feel all these wonderful sensations starting again.