My doctor decided to take me off the meds as my BP and Cholesterol did not test out any lower. Funny thing is, now off the meds my BP is averaging a little lower and my cholesterol is testing lower too 🙂 But then I’ve been getting quite a bit more exercise. Wife and I have decided to continue with the sexless marriage, at least until she is totally done with her perimenopause phase – which has been going on for years. Once she goes into true menopause, then there will be no need for birth control eg condoms and we may both feel like re-starting things – especially Karezza as it would be easier on her – given dryness. Truth be told, I am actually turned on by the sexless marriage thing – it fans my homoerotic side somehow 🙂 Right now I would like to explore my bi side online with other like minded men of a similar age and in a similar situation.
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Year Nine Milestones, Plateaus and Pinacles
The MMO journey I have been on started in 2005. Along the way there have been so many milestones and experiences, they would be impossible to remember if it were not for the fact that I recorded them in an on line journal I began in 2011. Each milestone or event has been a building block that created a foundation for the sexual rapture I routinely experience now. The building and learning process was precipitous those first few years. Because I was learning and experiencing so much there were literally hundreds of sensations, techniques and changes in my sexual response in the first 9 years. Some of these I have shared here in this forum, but I am sure that if I were to try to relate them all it would be impossible.
However, year nine was special. I reached a plateau or a pinnacle in my 9th year in 2013. It was a watershed year that solidified MMO and anal pleasure in my sex life. There were several skills – achievements that I will relate here in this entry; there were also some major event – milestones that deserve detailed descriptions. I will focus this entry on the skills and achievements and the next several entries on the numerous remarkable sexual events of 2013.
past week +
Things just went side ways.
Friday 1/18 I some how buggered my neck at work, cant tilt to the left at all. Tried heat, cold, even tried a muscle relaxer from back when I pulled my back. nothing worked. I couldn’t get out of bed Saturday, ended up rolling off the bead as any movement made my head scream in pain. I went to the walk in clinic, they gave me a few shots & some pills to help.
Saturday 1/19 night tried the Jr just for s&g. I got nothing, almost couldn’t tell I was joined w/ him.
Sunday 1/20 I went ahead and did a full double release to restart my cycle,
Monday 1/21 tried some edging, it was like my cock was numb. I could feel myself stroking but got no sensations and only got half hard. Once I did get something it was to late and I just blew if you will, was an ultra lame orgasm/ejaculation. It was a waste of time. May as well give up till I stop the pills. You would think taking a muscle relaxer would work the same way as weed but seems not so much.
“No Set Schedule On The Horizon”
Introduction
My Aneros sessions are rather sporadic lately. But that is not necessarily a bad thing. Since I regularly practice semen retention (SR), I have found that my sessions can be more intense and positive if I delay them. They are not on a set schedule. Of course, I never know which model I will choose. Generally, I get a sense of that when I get close to the session.
Kudos to @BigGlansDC
A special shout-out to my buddy @BigGlansDC. His recent blog post was spot-on! I think one thing that is overlooked with wearing jockstraps and cups is the stimulation the hard cup provides for the male perineum. Of course, the P-tabs on the Aneros models do this as well. It is that pressure that provides the external stimulation of the prostate which feels so good!
Afterthought
I continue to wear jockstraps either with or without groin cups to bed most nights. Not wearing one just doesn’t feel “right” anymore. Just this morning while wearing my XO ProCup, the stimulation on my frenulum was so intense that I felt literally only a stroke or two away from an ejaculation! I have not ejaculated this way (yet) but that feeling is just too powerful for words. It makes me realize what my “malehood’s” purpose really is! Touche’.
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Nipple diddling, Kegeling, and jocks and cups!
Hi guys,
We are in the midst of winter here in DC, but it is going to get even brutally cold here for the next few days because of blast of Arctic air due to arrive late Tuesday night. Actually these blasts of Arctic air are the Arctic Vortex which breaks out of the north polar region. They are more severe some years than others. Actually we have some mild winters than others. What are Aneros guys supposed to do when such brutal winter arrive. In my case, I suspend my Aneros sessions for a while when milder winter weather returns.
I enjoy reading @goldenboy’s posts. He is so insightful when it comes to his sexuality/sexual experiences, his Aneros experiences, and his seasoned approach to jocks and cups! 🙂 His latest blog post, “Cup or No Cup?” piqued my interest.
Like @goldenboy, I wear a jock and cup to bed most nights. A jock and cup supports and protects my manhood for sure even in bed. Plus a jock and cup enter into my male sexual intimacy in the nighttime. Yes, like @goldenboy, there are some nights when I wear just briefs. They are OK, but nothing can compare to the raw, yet very sweet feel of a jock and cup at night!
“Cup Or No Cup?”
Introduction
Last night, I tried something different: I went to sleep wearing my “chastity” SafeTGard jockstrap and Cage Cup. But I got the urge to remove the cup and just wear the strap. I kept the cup in bed with me and it felt good to “cup” it and cradle it. Of course I could feel my flaccid and soft package through the silky-smooth pouch. Such a good feeling, I quickly nodded-off….
NPTs—Here They Come
I knew it would only be a matter of time before I awoke with an NPT erection. When that happened the first time, I reached for the cup and “slid-it-in”. Thus, I was placed in a position unable to enjoy the full pleasure of the erection. Sort-of a semi-chaste state. The cup stayed in place for the rest of the night.
Afterthought
This “new” technique opens up a new night-time feeling for me—sure, I have worn jockstraps to bed before but wearing the “pouch” ones sure feels a bit different. I’ll see how the other ones feel without the cup (to start). Should be a couple of interesting nights ahead!
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The Menagerie Grows and Declines as I Discover Who My Best Friends Are
I was doing a lot of work in New York City in my 8th year. The City offered a variety of stores to purchase sex toys in. The variety of implements I saw in various shops extended from politically acceptable marital aids to somewhat shockingly kinky devices to execute acts that both shocked me yet still caused me to get an erection.
A favorite store I frequented was “The Pleasure Chest”. It became a favorite for a multitude of reasons but the two most significant were they had a large variety of quality products, and minimal cheap breakable imports. The other was the sales people. They were edgy young women who were extremely comfortable talking about the products, and they were equally comfortable talking about my penis and anus and the the nature and charaxcter of the way they might respond to the devices. They also seemed to have used them enough or witness their use enough to describe to me how to use them; this included shaping their fingers of one hand in a circle and then using a finger of another hand to represent a toy or a finger being inserted into the digital representation of my anus. I always walked out of that store with an erection and wet underpants.
Over the course of my 8th and 9th year of Anerosing my toolkit grew to 16 devices. They filled a backpack that I took with me when I traveled. In the mix was six Aneros, five N Joys, two Lelos, a stainless steel Chinese stimulator the size of a pencil with a “marble ” sized head and two dildoes (one glass and another hardened latex).
What a weekend. Probably fifty SO’s
Started a new job. It really keeps my mind occupied so I don’t get very wound up prostate wise during the week. Prostate
came to life with a vengeance this weekend.
Yesterday, Saturday, on my way in I started playing with my nipples in the car. Had at least four A-less in the twenty five miles
to work. When I got home I sat down and started playing with my nipples again. At this point I was wound up pretty well so getting
off another eight or so was no problem. Later, my wife went out so I got about forty-five minutes with my PS-New. This worked
like it never has before. Wasn’t long before the fun started and I had at least another fifteen if not twenty.
Today I started with the Progasm Black-Ice. Wasn’t a minute until I had my first SO. After twenty minutes or so and probably fifteen
SO’s. I switched to the PS-New. WHAM! Things started going again. after five or so SO’s with it I switched back to the Progasm.
After a little while it was back to the PS-New. Had a good SO probably every minute through this session. Some incredible, some
not so incredible but still good.
I found the PS-New moves a lot more than the Progasm which I think helps in its performance. Used to be I felt it was too long and
was uncomfortable but that has passed.
MGX Classic, Progasm Junior, and Maximus : an amazing combo : Sessior for January 24
Hi guys,
Thursday morning, January 24, just around sunrise, I had an amazing sessions with MGX, Progasm Junior, and Maximus which lasted about an hour. All three models performed exquisitely. What impressed me most of this session was that I had to do anything but to relax and the each plow my ass and massage my prostate effortlessly. Yes, I breathed slowly and rhythmically which actually propelled the effortless action of each model as well as add in an occasional Kegel.
Immediately after the session, I had Aless which lasted throughout the day and overnight last night. I wore my BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no. 85 all night in bed which enhanced the sweetness of my Aless as well as my Kegels.
I hope to have a session with the same models tomorrow Saturday. Take care!
“And The Train Keeps Rolling Along!….”
Introduction
Currently in Day 8 of semen retention. I believe it has been about 2 weeks since I had a session. They say that “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. In my case, Aneros absence makes for a ******* good session! Let me explain…..
Semen Retention and Aneros
I’m not quite sure why but so far in Day 8 I have no “blue-balls”. Could my absence from prostate stimulation during that time have made the difference? I don’t know but I’ll take it and stay-on the train! How far can I go? Time (and feelings) will tell.
Aneros Sessions
I had two back-to-back sessions in Day 7 and Day 8. Day 7 was with Eupho Classic and was outstanding! Lots of movement, lots of O’s, lots of precum and a HFWO feeling on top of everything! The only downside was that it was too short a session (perhaps 30 minutes). This session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a 9+!
I decided to “chase” this session in Day 8 with another one, this time with the Helix Trident. The anticipation was, I suppose, just too great and this session was rather lackluster. Sure, the Helix nudged my prostate but I just didn’t feel anything more than a little shiver. Not even a drop of precum. This 30-minute session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a generous 2. Oh well, better luck next time!