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Ready to give up on the toy – Advice needed

I bought an Aneros Helix Syn Trident about 7 months ago and I must say it is not doing it for me. I respect it and what it has taught me about my prostate but I think all the involuntary shaking is just painful and frustrating. While it has felt good, I have gotten nothing close to the pleasure that everyone talks about on here. It’s as if the strain on my body being so tense and spazzing around is significantly worse than the amount of pleasure I get from the toy. I also get weird bouts of anger while using the toy kind of like a super orgasm but of overwhelming anger, it just pisses me off for no reason lol.

Anyone else experience anything similar? Any advice? I am one more session away from throwing this thing in the trash. Also sorry to anyone who praises the toy I mean no disrespect and I do believe in the positive attributes of it but I’m starting to think that it may just not work for some people.

Side Note: I am no stranger to psychedelics/smoke weed daily and have never experienced any aggression or anger in the slightest. I barely even get angry in my daily life so I am not sure why the Aneros does this to me.

Am I using the Progasm wrong?

Title explains it. When I really get into the mood and start to feel the toy moving inside me, it never gets into the rhythm of out-in-out-in like I’ve had with my trident helix, and instead just slips out slowly until it falls out. Am I putting too much pressure on it, or am I just not doing something right?

Hypothyroid/ testosterone issues and Aneros

Hi everyone, I’ve been using the helix syn for about 6-8 weeks and I freaking love it. I spent a few weeks self/ jackhammering myself with it and now I’ve been practicing mindgasm probably too regularly so I’m taking a break at the moment. My ass was telling me it’s tired I think lol. Haven’t had the famous super o yet but had plenty of involuntaries and P waves ( I think)I’ve been no nut/ no porn for a while too and only reserve cannabis use for sessions (what I really like is LSD with it) I don’t have a partner for sex atm but for some reason I’ve been very gregarious and have a couple hookups pending after a long time… like 4 years..
Here are my questions: would low testosterone/ having problems with quality of erection make a difference in your prostate health and ability to sustain massage? I have tried it with dick pills and actually it seems to be more pleasurable but also stimulating my dick from the inside and having it get super hard is mentally pleasurable as well. I’m about to get started with hormone therapy and I hope I’m in the right track here.
Also: would having a depressed thyroid function/ and neuropathy in extremities have much of an effect with results? It could be down to hashimitos , other inflammation disease or even parathyroid tumour, which I definitely have. I live in Canada so having a decent doctor actually help you and order tests and keep track of your levels is nearly impossible. They tend to wait until it’s too late. So the tests I need are coming on my own dime and 800$ later. Imagine a doctor telling you that the Lima- bean sized tumour in your neck is “probably fine” and they’ll look at it in a year’s time.
Third: I’ve lost over 100 lbs and now don’t smoke and work out and eat like an athlete but I still have about 80 lbs to go and muscle to build hopefully when my hormones work out better and chronic pain is better. Does being overweight affect the position of the Aneros and what it can hit inside? I think the tabs are hitting in a relatively blubber- free area but not sure how obesity would affect me inside. It feels great but like many, I’m hoping to hit that super O sooner rather than later. I know, I know… it’s a process… I have just received the program jr and the mgx but haven’t tried them yet except for slipping them in a little the other day when my butt told me it was nice but it was tired… kinda wish I got the bigger progasm. Sorry long post.

Orgasm Bootcamp

I am looking to launch a private Open Orgasm Bootcamp. The purpose is to help men who are looking to have more enhanced orgasms via meditation, arousal exercises, and prostate stimulation.

Basics

Length: 6 weeks

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Min participants: 15

Requirements

Open to physiotypical male-bodied participants only (exceptions may be made for trans individuals, please contact me to see if you qualify)

Two toys

Passive prostate toy (like, but not necessarily an, Aneros Helix Syn)

Lovense Edge (either model) programmable vibrator

Active participation on at least a weekly basis (participants with substandard participation will not be eligible for the $20 gift card)

Details

Scheduled meditative and masturbatory exercises, varying week to week

Daily discussion threads

Polls and other data gathering

No personally identifying information is necessary, however photo proof of owning the required toys will be requested. All data gathered is assumed to be reusable in any future form (but again, nothing that could possibly identify you will be gathered or requested). An email address is needed for the giftcard, but it can be a burner email.

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Hi! 6 months in and my experience so far! (Spoiler alert: I f*ckin luv it)

Hi all.

First off, how the hell is it that not every man on this planet with a prostate isn’t doing this? It should be taught in sex-ed in schools!!!

I started this journey about 6 months ago with a chinese knockoff (which broke) then progressed to the Helix Trident and more recently a progasm.

It has been a learning curve for sure with perhaps the main lesson being that you can’t make grass grow faster by tugging in it. This has taught me that I have to be patient and diligent. As many others have spoken about here, i think the time required is so that the rewiring process does what it needs to do as you move away from the 2D ejaculatory orgasm mindset to the IMAX 3D PGasm mindset.

For me it was the realization that this shiz is real when i got my first PWave after about a month on trying. i was like: “Whoa!, what was THAT???” it felt kinda familiar and i eventually realized that i feel that sensation of contraction and pleasure just BEFORE and during regular ejaculation.

Once i had that truth under my belt, once i knew that the prostate is able to make it’s own distinct sensations OUTSIDE of ejaculation i was off to the races. IT WAS SUDDENLY REAL! Read more »

Lube Help

I find myself quickly reapplying lube often during sessions and it can ruin the mood for me and sometimes be a session buster. I use the Helix Syn Trident, which is made out of silicone, and my question is: Can I pre-lube with olive oil, but use a water based lube as the lube for the aneros?

Nsfw first major O

So the wife hasn’t cared about me owning the Helix Syn. But had never been interested. She had fun moving it around herself, teasing, talking dirty, and ending up having the craziest O ever.

My body went into borderline convulsions and didn’t have any wet orgasm at all. Which my wife proceeded to blow me for that to happen. But was anti climatic after the anal O.

Total beginner

Hi all,

I’m a straight male (if that matters) and am considering purchasing an aneros helix syn. I’m a total beginner and have never used a butt plug of any sorts before.

The idea of using an aneros with erotic audio excites me very much.

However I’m a bit nervous/worried about any possible injuries or the Aneros getting stuck!

Are these pretty safe to use?

Slight pressure in my head

I was wondering if anyone has experienced a slight pressure in their head after using the aneros. Not painful just weird feeling.
Since the lockdowns I’ve been using my Helix Syn a lot more. I’m having this feeling in my head after I use it. Not sure if it’s from the aneros or not. I’ve been to the doctors and had CAT scans and found nothing. I’m not sure, but I think it only happens if I don’t have an p-orgasm, which happens sometimes.

Also, was thinking of getting the Eupho for more movement. What are opinions of Helix vs Eupho?

How to make progress

I’ve had my helix for years, I don’t get time to use it very often. A while ago i felt like i was making some progress, getting everything lubed up better I started being able to have wet hands free orgasms while thrusting my hips with the helix in. I’d get slowly building and dropping pleasure building to the point where i feel the point of no return and then i cum (my dick is completely soft). I find that when i’m thrusting it feels great but my dick is flapping about maybe getting stimulated and it makes me cum? Do i need to just stop thrusting (but it feels great)? I’ve tried wearing underwear to hold everything in place but it feels distracting.

I’ve just got a Progasm to try, i’m comfortable with larger things so this shouldn’t be a problem hopefully, but someone please give me some guidance for where to go from here, i always enjoy my sessions but the wet hfo always seems to end it all early.