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Am I using the wrong Aneros? Any tips?

Hi guys! So I read about prostate orgasms about 4 years ago, and got myself an Aneros MGX to start prostate play. At first I think I was too eager and was trying to force a prostate orgasm by contracting my PC muscles over and over. Then I figured out that just relaxing and letting the Aneros kind of do its own thing was better. No big-O, but I sometimes got some great full tingly feelings in my abdomen. Usually at this point, I got excited and my heart rate increased, which could sometimes kill the feeling. Does it sound like I’m on the right track? Any tips?

Although I haven’t regularly used the Aneros in about a year (only a few times since then), I’m still eager to have a big-O and want to try it out again. I recently had some chronic soreness in my left testicle, and the doctor diagnosed me with a minor prostate infection and put me on antibiotics. He also mentioned during my exam that I had a fairly small prostate. I’m a tall guy (6’5″ and 200 pounds), but is the MGX maybe the wrong one based on having a small prostate? I’d appreciate any input. Thanks guys!

First time advice (syn)

TL;DR version: I’ve read all the advice online, but if you were to say one thing (technique/tip/FYI) that really made the difference with your Aneros toy, what would it be? (Figure if everyone’s a little different, there might be some variety!)

Background: I’ve had another Aneros model in the past (can’t remember which, just the normal white model) which didn’t do much for me at the time, but I was honesty a bit conscious about butt-play at the time so didn’t really go for it.

After months of thinking about it, finally ordered a Syn and it arrived today. Looking forward to my first session. I’ve done a bunch more reading this time around so feel more prepared for the journey (so won’t get discouraged when it’s 10 mins in and I’m not cumming my brains out!)

Session sharing rabbit

I thought it would be cool if we got a video group going for folks who would want to share their sessions. I think it would be a good way to a high going and learn from how others move their bodies.

Was thinking rabbit but open to other platforms too.

Thoughts?

Can I have some advice on prostate orgasms?

So I’ve hit my prostate with my lubed finger, it feels good and makes my regular orgasms better, but i’ve never experienced earth shattering orgasms just from the prostate alone. I was thinking about getting an aneros but I’m not sure because just having a finger in my ass on my prostate doesn’t feel amazing to me. It feels good but not amazing if that makes sense. Am I doing something wrong or does the toy make the prostate just feel so much better?

Also, I’ve heard the female g spot sometimes doesn’t feel like much, but usually once someone has one g spot orgasm they can easily achieve it again, is this how the prostate works. Also one more question, once you have a prostate orgasm does regular sex feel better?

tl;dr – I’ve stuck a finger in my ass on my prostate, it felt good but nothing close to an orgasm, am i doing something wrong? Also once you get a prostate orgasm, does it make PIV sex feel better, and is it possible to get a prostate orgasm during PIV?

PREPARATIONS – ANEROS HELIX

Hey guys,

I just wanted to know how you prepare for your aneros sessions.

Do you clean your ass, do you strech it? what are you doing ?

Thanks !

How long do you go for?

How long do your sessions go before you feel anything? How long do the sessions last?

I usually leave it in for like an hour doing contractions before I start to feel that pleasure feeling when you’re about to cum but just like a minor version of that then it goes away and I feel nothing else. I mostly end my sessions after that but I’ve been thinking about leaving it in longer and I just want to make sure I’m don’t leave it in too long that I end up hurting something.

Lasting yearning itch/tingle in the prostate through the day is distracting. Suggestions?

Still haven’t achieved full prostate orgasm. But now in many many many situations, I start getting ‘blue-ball’ in my prostate. Kind of a burning itch/desire that can’t be relieved, any stimulation makes it worse, but you never quite reach prostate orgasm either.

This is really bad when driving, sitting through meetings, trying to get work done at work, wanting to do things like jostle my leg but can’t because that just makes it worse. Etc. Caffeine now always makes my prostate feel like it’s swelling with salt water in a good-but-can’t-get-off way. Vibrations while driving on the freeway are the same deal.

Out of ideas for actually reaching full prostate orgasm. Butt plug + perineum massage cradle with vibrators + semi-full bladder and belt pressing that down. Nope. Several different models of vibrating prostate massager + perineum massager. Nope. Hitachi wand to find my prostate. Nope.

Fucking christ I just want to get off. I can’t get off.

It’s now to where the major nerve going down my leg is slightly pleasurable to flex in a certain way, but not enough that you could ever get off on it. Super distracting.

Very very slow progress sure beats no progress

If you’re not having progress with your Aneros, so long as it isn’t hurting, do keep giving it a go from time to time. There’s a comment in the sidebar that “some guys have spent years getting there”; take that literally.

I suspect I got my Aneros back in 2005, give or take a year. I bought it at the point believing there was only one model and was surprised to receive one called a MGX – this might help people be able to place it in time. It probably took me several years and a lot of effort and exaggerated clenching to get any sort of reaction, and for the longest time I would try the “lots of deep breathing, fifteen full clenches then hold it quarter-way” routine. I might get one pleasant sensation, though not always, then that would be it in terms of anything pleasurable for the session. I would keep trying and trying and get nothing further. There were two occasions, years apart, where I clenched so much that for several (5? 7?) days afterwards I felt like I had bruised myself internally and felt like I was buzzing inside, in a not-at-all pleasant way, to the point where sitting down was uncomfortable. Ever since then I’ve taken it more easily. Read more »

Any similar or recommendation to lube like boy butter?

[https://www.amazon.com/Boy-butter-h2o-based-Pack/dp/B00JEXTG9A/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1527371339&sr=8-5&keywords=boy+butter+h2o](https://www.amazon.com/Boy-butter-h2o-based-Pack/dp/B00JEXTG9A/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1527371339&sr=8-5&keywords=boy+butter+h2o)

I like this lube as it is not that sticky, but lasts a long time.

As I used it all, I want to find out if there are better alternatives ?

Thanks

Looking for my first

I’m looking for a recommendation of what my first Aneros should be and from where.

It’s currently Friday night and I’d love to get it by early in the week next week so I’m trying to see my options on where to purchase as well. In the past I’ve gotten a couple cheap butt plugs (Anal Fantasy?) and I’ve enjoyed them both, but I’m wanting to take a step up to get a real prostate massager.

I’ve been browsing their website and I’ve been looking at the MGX Trident, any opinions? Or should I go to the older models?