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Origin story & best experience yet!

So backstory first: Long time lurker, after buying a Helix classic. I was first drawn to the aneros by an ex gf deciding to get kind of handsy during a bj, surprising at first with a knuckle duster and then she used her index finger to tap down (barely) on my prostate while going down on me. I melted as I came, it was fantastic! Being curious about this new sensation and comfortable enough in my own sexuality, I decided to investigate further all the while having this image in my head of the guy in Road Trip getting his prostate milked by the nurse – I wanted to feel that even though it was an act, I wanted that feeling. So I looked at Prostate massage for men via google and came upon the aneros and forums. Jackpot, I found what I was looking for and decided to go with a Helix bc the Progasm looked a bit much at the time. The Helix reminded me of the thought I had that if I could just contort my hand the wrong way, I could milk myself lol. Read more »

My understanding of what happens during reprogramming. How to start step 1 of using the aneros.

– Get super relaxed, so relaxed that you feel like your body doesn’t want to move, and your eyesight gets blacker. I repeat to myself, “going deeper” as I relax, which is done in waves. Focus on the sensations of breath and your body. I like to imagine that I’m focusing on sensory receptors on the skin, inside of the nose and most other cells, because I’m scientifically inclined and that helps me visualize. Eventually your mind gets numb to your body, and you mostly experience just sensations.

– Next try to focus purely on the sensation on the aneros, and not the location of the aneros. What the GOAL, is to shut off the body’s location processing, become completely unaware of the location of the aneros sensation. After this is done, instead of going “sensation-> body part-> brain”, it goes “sensation-> brain”. And so the brain just knows that the sensation is coming from the pelvic region, and it thinks you are being sexually stimulated but instead you are just stimulating a VERY sensitive non-sexual area.

– You have to stay in the super relaxed and super-sensory-shut off mode for a long time while you focus on the sensation of the aneros. I said to myself “I have no idea where this sensation is coming from” as I focused very hard on the sensation. Read more »

not masturbating. is it worth it?

i am trying not to masturbate or look at any porn in an attempt to focus my energy on prostate stimulation.

is this worth it or am i just wasting my time?

Trouble with Insertion

I recently got the Helix Syn, and in the first two sessions trying to use it, I can’t seem to insert it all the way. I’m able to insert it maybe half an inch or so, but I then meet some resistance. I’ve tried to massage it around to relax the muscles and have tried some deep breathing, but this doesn’t seem to help. When I try to gently force it, it just doesn’t feel right; I don’t feel pain, but I get the feeling that I would if I continued. I guess I feel a “dull pressure.” Since this is my first time with anal play, should I just expect the next few sessions to involve lots of teasing with no insertion?

Also, when I apply water-based lube to the Helix Syn, some stays, but some seems to “evaporate” right off. When I try to absolutely drench the thing, this still seems to happen. Is this normal, or is this the problem?

Any and all advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

Looking for a recommendation. I have moderate experience with anal play, but not aneros.

Right now, I own a nJoy Pure Wand, and a VeDO Cowboy vibrator. They are both fun, and I would like to add to my collection. I would prefer something that works with all types of lube, even silicone, so the aneros models that have a coating of silicone probably would be the best. Besides, I have discovered that I enjoy the hardness provided by the nJoy Pure Wand.

I am also worried that I will get one that is not big enough, or will not be the right size to reach my prostate. What are your thoughts? What models would you recommend looking into?

What does a p-wave actually feel like?

Still a beginner, had a handful of sessions now. Still unclear on exactly what a p-wave and involuntary feels like. I have a Helix, but don’t actually feel very much when it’s in me. I cannot tell whether it’s actually making contact with my prostate. I’m not sure if the mild pleasure I can eventually reach is from prostate stimulation, or just getting in the mood, breathing pattern, and clenching.

I do sometimes get a little pulsing feeling that doesn’t feel like the Helix is moving or feel it against my prostate, but feels more like I can sense my pulse right on my butthole. Is that anything?

I can get to some voluntary quivering of my body, but I’m not sure if I’m on the right track. I see lots of people talking about p-waves and involuntaries, but what should they actually feel like? How much movement does an involuntary actually have?

New contraction sensation in anus??

Anyone had ever experienced this sensation where the anus contracts internally?

Normally I have the “autofuck” contraction during sessions but yesterday during my usual session after the usual contraction my inside area of the anus sorta contract and relax by itself. Had this sensation for the first time but I’m not complaining ?

Classic vs. Syn? Go.

I get that the syn versions are softer, but oftentimes users have to resort to the condom method to get the desired movement from the syn versions.

Seems like the smooth, had plastic classics have the advantage there, no?

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