fingers too short, Aneros too?

So, last weekend I had a 3hour session, half of it with weed.

I started with my fingers and I barely could reach a kinda pleasurable spot inside with my indexfinger (maybe 5-6cm inside?) Now I again wonder if even the Aneros will hit it because I had to curve my finger kinda. I said it a year ago, and I say it now again: it feels like that there is a edge/bone whatever in the way and no toy can reach it, not even the Njoy Pure Wand :/ nothing pleasurable “just behind the anus” or what others write sometimes in my experience :/

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How to level up from pleasure to orgasm?

I have been enjoying prostate play for about 10 years, and while I enjoy the feelings, I have never experienced an orgasm from only prostate stimulation.

Does frequency of practice play a part? Is there a position that works best? Am I doing something wrong? What is the secret to going from “this feels good” to cumming?

I have a Helix Syn and an nJoy pure wand.

Recommendation for a tall guy?

Hey everyone,

I’m quite tall (2 meters) and I wonder if someone of my size could recommend an Aneros model. Did you have better experiences with longer/bigger/larger models? Are there any?
I’m experienced with anal/prostate play but I’d like to take the next step with Aneroses.

Thanks!

How long does your session last before HFWO?

For those who get HFWOs, how long is your session before you reach that point ? My sessions usually last about 1-1.5 hours, I feel like people have said that before they get HFWO they have dry orgasms. I’m wondering if I am not having long enough sessions to get to that point . Also if it did take a certain amount of time and then got shorter or longer , let me know

How to transition from wet to dry?

Can anyone give some advice one how to transition from having HFWO to dry?

I am finally at the point where It seems like I can reliably have a wet orgasm in less than an hour. (30mins is the fastest so far!)

What works for me is inserting the toy, put on porn and play with my nipples. As I start to get an erection the pleasure builds up and feels great. Once I have a full erection the feelings progress as i start to do some light contractions but eventually the feelings sort of die off. At this point I take a short break (1 or 2mins) to find a different video and repeat the cycle with each time feeling better than the last until a HFWO.

Will this ever get me to a dry O or should I start looking elsewhere?

And help or previous post for reference would be greatly appreciated

Just had my longest orgasm yet last night (Expectation is the key)

Last night I want to have a very quick session while I only had one day abstinence only.

But it was the strongest and longest orgasm for me ever, so not having expectation is really matter.

The climax had lasted at least 25 min while I was listening to one binaural audio twice on Youtube:

ANAL And GENITAL Stimulation – Binaural Ambience Music – Meditation Vibes – Strong Isochronic Tones✔

Seem like different binaural audios also matter.

Aneros MGX fits snugly in me.

Hello! So I’ve recently started using toys. In initial couple of sessions the toy would cause involuntary contractions but now it seems to fit snugly in me. It doesn’t move much although with arousal i get hard and leak some precum. The lack of movement wouldn’t allow me to do contractions of my pc/sphincter it just feels uncomfortable.

I do relax alot so that isn’t the problem. Should I change positions? (I currently lie on my back with knees up) or should I change the lube? (I use a liquid based lube).

Please help me out!

Aneros & Vasectomy

I recently had a vasectomy and have to abstain from everything for a week. Does anyone have experience with this? Has there been any changes in your sessions after having this done?

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7 years and counting

So, I’ve been on the journey for around 7 years now. I started with the Helix Syn. Then I got the Progasm Ice and finally the Helix Trident.

Alll three have given me different sensations but none have pushed me over the edge. I probably like the Helix Trident best and he’s definitely my go to. I haven’t really used the Helix Syn for some time as the material seemed to cause me a little bit of discomfort.

Now as I said. All three have given me good sensations. I’ve tried pretty much everything with all of them. Doing nothing, doing something. Holding at a low pressure, doing straight up Kegels and/or Reverse Kegels.

Laying on my side, my back and my stomach. Standing up, kneeling. Hard surface, soft surface. Watching porn, not watching porn. Listening to binaural sounds. Abstaining and not abstaining.

I tend to leak pre cum quite freely during sessions, and I go from soft to hard and back again a few times.

Don’t get me wrong, I love the Aneros, and I tend to reach for it whenever I get a private moment. But I will admit that I am starting to lose the sheer excitement I had for the first 3-4 years.

Do you guys have a pro tip I should try to maybe reach the next step? Pretty much willing to try anything. I’ve seen a lot of guys make great progress using weed and/or gummies but that’s out of the question for me.