I’m not a very frequent rider, but I have been on and off since like March this year. But recently I’ve been finding myself having more and more A less, specifically in dreams. Something about the subconscious being more powerful I guess. I won’t feel anything different before going to bed or upon waking up but I’ll have had a dream that would have induced something in my prostate. Happened three nights in a row last week. First was just glowing. Second night it was really intense glowing. Then it was a mini o. The second night was definitely the best though. And then in the past couple days I seem to have gained the ability to have some amount, if just the tiniest bit, of control over what I feel. And induced a completely a less mini o, completely awake and conscious, of my own willpower.
saw doctor
This morning I saw my doctor. Last time I had seen my doctor she had mentioned about blood pressure medication and cholesterol medication and wanted me to think it over. My doctor has been aware for years of the fact that my wife and I have a statistically sexless marriage and she is aware – and approves – of my aneros use. Having reviewed things with me, she noted that the only downside to taking these medications would be a strong possibility of ED. A statistical sexless marriage is one thing less than 10 times per years. An absolute sexless marriage is something else. My wife and I had been averaging 2 to 4 times per year for many years now.
So I informed my doctor that recently my wife and I decided to discontinue sex altogether. I said it was my idea, my offer and my wife readily agreed. I told my doctor that my health was more important than getting hard, when quite frankly I had no use or need for an erection. My doctor told me that it might reduce my libido as well. I told her I was fine with that.
So now I have a couple prescriptions.
“Sheer Frustration…..Averted!”
Background
I have been sleeping at night without wearing a “chastity cup”. A good feeling, except when I am awakened by a rock-hard erection. That happened again this morning and the pinnacle was when my “stick” emerged from my PJ bottoms! Since I am in Day 4 of SR, I am starting to feel the effects of not ejaculating for 4 days. Any rubbing on the frenulum sends me to a place where my only thoughts revolve around…..ejaculating! Since I want to avoid that now, I had no choice but to quench the fire and put-on my XO cup!
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Moaning
Sometimes if I am having a good Aneros session, I will experience some rather involuntary “moans”. Those moans came back again this morning, but this time not because of a prostate massage. The moans came because it felt so good wearing the cup as I had the satisfaction of ejaculatory protection around my male member. It seemed to settle things down and quite rapidly! I know with my new “rule” I could have extended the frenulum-rubbing against the cup but this time, it felt good just to relax and let things settle-down normally.
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Session
With only about an hour to go before I had to rise for the day, I decided on a quick session. I knew in advance that I wanted the Eupho Classic for this ride. The Eupho is a delicate work of art, crafted to glide-in to my most private area and begin to stimulate my prostate in a very delicate way. This session did not fail to disappoint me and I felt the effects immediately. ‘Sheer prostate heaven’ as I experienced both voluntary and involuntary contractions. The Eupho’s curved, bulbous head makes gentle contact in and around my prostate. This short (~15 minute) session was stimulating and invigorating. I ended this session not wanting any more.
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Conclusion
I have found that wearing a jockstrap with (or without) a cup is a perfect complement to my sexual style and helps keep me focused on my role as a male! It is a normal and natural (albeit male) piece of apparel! Weird or kinky?…….no way!
and now the final
I did it again. I have been locked for 18 days –day time only.– made it through most of Locktober. and I actually took the day off to let it happen. i had some time and let it go. was going on for about 45 mins and had to re lube 2x. I came 2x ist one was wet the 2nd was dry. was wonderful. wow what a feeling. am going to give myself a few days off and give it another go next week sometime.
Chastity “Rules” Revised
Introduction
I slept in only my PJs overnight. Sure enough, during a night-time erection, I was awakened. While “catching” myself playing with my package, I got an urge to put-on one of my swimmer jockstraps: the Duke. This jock has a nice, large pouch and fits my package well. I decided to go lie-down on my comfortable sofa and just chill with some nice, erotic tracks.
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New Chastity Rules
Somehow, I was given “new” chastity rules when wearing a jockstrap: I can’t take it off and I can’t ejaculate in the pouch. Anything else goes!
I went to lie-down and listen. This “new rule” didn’t come into play until I developed an erection within the pouch. Then, it became very easy to touch and fondle my frenulum beneath the pouch but not too much! I remembered the new “rule” but it wasn’t easy. I was able to maintain my composure for at least an hour-and-a-half.
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Another New Chastity Rule
Since it was almost time to rise again for the day, I was given another “new” chastity rule when wearing a cup jockstrap: As before, I can’t take it off but this time I CAN ejaculate in the cup! What a change! I quickly exchanged the Duke jockstrap for the Mueller jockstrap with cup.
Good session last night
“Is This A Dance? Is This A Race?”
I was thinking about all the sexual things I do, except for actual (p.i.v.)* sex. Do they all have something in common? Yes they do—-almost all of them involve some sort of “dance” around——an ejaculation!
Thinking about it, all the Aneros sessions, all the prostate play, all the pseudo male chastity play really has one goal in mind: ejaculation! Ah, but it is in “dance” that it all becomes worthwhile, almost like an art form! The idea is: how far can I go without ejaculating? How much stimulation can I endure before I have to blow the load?
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How far can I go? Here, I am referring to the practice of semen retention. For those guys that have never tried it, I would recommend it. It is a way of boosting your overall sexual response to any form of stimulation. Even by itself, just the practice of withholding semen will boost your testosterone level by almost 50%! You are sure to feel the results; I sure do! But one caveat—blue balls! I can get them, and usually do, after about 7 days of SR. For me, this “dance” ends and another one starts.
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“Horny and Desperate”
Introduction
I was online reading and watching videos about guys locked-up in chastity cages and one phrase that caught my attention was “horny and desperate”. It seemed that this guy was locked-in his cock cage and he was not the keyholder. He had an erection inside his cage and wanted to ejaculate so desperately. He tried and tried stroking and masturbating his cage but was unsuccessful. He became very frustrated to say the least!
Similarity
I decided to sleep in my XO cup overnight. Since I am now at Day 7 of semen retention (SR), I am feeling more frustrated that I have not yet ejaculated. I had a very strong erection within the cup overnight and was squirming-around on the bed close to the PONR. I guess you could say that I too was desperate for an ejaculation, sort-of like a wet-dream. But it was not to be and I became very frustrated.
I went to lie-down on my sofa and started to listen to some erotic chillout mixes. Very nice indeed! I changed from my XO cup to my ARMR all-cotton jockstrap. This strap is very tight and supportive and has a wide, 3” waistband. So it feels very good. It also has a cup pouch. Sure enough, I began to fondle my package beneath the pouch and, secretly, I wanted to ejaculate. But the frustration came back when the cup found its way into the pouch! I became more desperate by the minute!
Good session
Took about 10 minutes to get going but it got really good, really fast. I’ve stopped starting on my back. Starting out face down just works. Didn’t stop because I wanted to. I had things I had to get taken care of. The way things were progressing though I probably could have kept going another hour and found another universe.
Something I found out. If you want something to stimulate your nipples go find some “Bio-Freeze” in the roll-on bottle. It’s like the old Ben-Gay for sore muscles just more potent. Roll this onto your nipples and rub it in. It’s awesome! A small touch on your asshole, like using the residue on your fingers after rubbing it into your nipples, brings on some interesting sensations. I wouldn’t go much heavier than finger residue.
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PS-New
Regardless of what model I use I get to the BIG SO faster lying on my stomach. Lying on my back gets me there but slower and with less intensity.