“A New Tease-and-Denial Fantasy”

Background
While in semen retention, there comes a time when an ejaculation is necessary. In Day 7 of SR this morning, I thought that time was here. I was wrong! Let me explain…..

I decided to sleep in my SD Ultra Pro Carbon Cup overnight; it is quite supportive and arousing yet restrictive. I awoke about 4 AM with a PONR-feeling caused by the slight rubbing of my frenulum against the inside of the cup. This is a wonderfully-erotic feeling and I believe it went on for perhaps 25 minutes or so. I was not in the mood for an Aneros session so instead I opted to listen to some nice, relaxing tracks. I expected to edge and ejaculate. What came next completely blew me away!

Fantasy
I settled-in on my comfortable couch with headphones on and began to listen. At some point, I fell-into a fantasy. I am laying with my chastity “keyholder” and she “allows” me to remove my nylon shorts and chastity cup. She proceeds to lightly caress and stroke my balls, perineum and cock. I feel relief that I will now be allowed to cum. But something is missing! She deliberately and deftly avoids touching my frenulum! I know that light touch on this part of the male anatomy can induce an ejaculation. I don’t yet feel that unmistakable “almost-there” feeling of being near the PONR and an ejaculation. All of that is now missing! Read more »

“A Dose Of Chastity”

Background
Have a headache? Take an aspirin!
Have acid reflux? Take an antacid!
Have constipation? Take a laxative!
Have an aching, ready-to-go-off erection? Take some chastity!

Analysis
Now, why do I draw this comparison? I am a regular proponent of wearing “chastity cups”*. They aid me in my regular Aneros sessions. They also feel good to wear and they help me when I want to avoid an ejaculation. With my regular practice of semen retention (SR), I am used to the testosterone build-up caused by this activity, typically at Day 7. As I get closer to an eventual ejaculation (either through the manifestation of “blue-balls” (to which I unfortunately am subject) through a wet dream or through a deliberate, “wet” edging session) it seems that my full attention is on the discharge of my semen. And my erections seem especially arousing at that time. I suppose that is the way nature intended it to be.

Technique
I find lately that rather than going to bed wearing a cup, I retire for the night just wearing regular pajamas (short or long) and expect to wake-up with a stiff one. Due to the NPTs (nocturnal penile tumescence erections) I can be guaranteed of at least one stimulating erection. I am circumcised and I believe that my frenulum was “spared”—there is a lot of sensation there; too much stimulation can trigger an ejaculation. The “chastity cup” prevents some (but not all) of this stimulation and so helps to quench that “ready-to-cum” feeling near the PONR. Read more »

Session 6

I had another session. It wasn’t so much a session as a marathon, or maybe two sessions on either end of “retaining.” I dunno, define it how you like.

I got my Progasm Red Ice and Eupho Trident in the mail. I tried both, as well as using the Helix Trident, during this session. I like all three! I’m still very inexperienced, but they are all very different.

I started Thursday evening with the Eupho Trident. I figured I’d go small to large. I lubed up and inserted it and laid on a towel on the floor. I was on the floor this time instead of the bed because someone I chatted with recommended it. Being on a firm surface gives more control. I am not certain I noticed a difference, but I’m not sure I didn’t either, and I agree with the theory.

The Eupho went in nice and easy, of course. It’s quite narrow. I have fingers fatter than that thing. I laid on my back and relaxed and tried to focus on what I was feeling. I mostly just breathed deeply and concentrated, but I also played with flexing different muscles in different ways to see how it moved. It’s a very agile little device. I think I’m going to very much enjoy learning how to make the most of it. As for this first session, I had low expectations because nearly everyone I have talked to has said it’s a device for experienced users, but I still managed to feel some pleasurable sensations with it. I am getting a little better and feeling where the device is and what it’s doing. Read more »

Second Time

Hey guys
I just purchased a Helix Syn and already had two sessions. I have not reached the super o but am starting to get some p waves and have powerful ejaculations at the end of my sessions. I usually lay on my back and wear boxers during the session since I like the tightness around my balls. I was just wondering if I should go naked and what to try so I can get that mindblowing super o.

“Edging Every Night?”

Background
I raised a question on the forum recently. It had to do with “edging” frequency and duration. I generally do not edge all that often since this action usually precipitates in me the dreaded “blue-balls”. However, it seems clear to me now that in fact I do “edge” and often—almost every night! Astounding? How you may ask. Let me explain……

Night-time Edging
Usually, I retire for the night wearing only pajamas. Nothing unusual there. But it is what happens in the middle of the night that needs an explanation. I practice semen retention (SR) all the time now. In fact, I am currently in Day 4. I know that SR helps to boost my testosterone level and I can feel it. It also aids me in my Aneros sessions.

Every healthy guy gets night-time erections*—-they come like clockwork to help keep his penis healthy. They are good and beneficial. But in my case, some of these (particularly the last one) are so strong and so arousing that they wake me up. This morning, I awoke (or rather was awakened) by a rock-hard erection and a close to PONR feeling that lasted I believe at least 15 minutes while I was awake (unknown time while I was asleep). If you’ve ever experienced this, you know the feeling. Every little movement, every little “twitch” seems to propel me ever so closer to that PONR and an ejaculation! I can feel pressure building-up in my perineum and my prostate. It feels like an automatic “edging” session. What to do? Is there any solution? Read more »

Session 5

I just realized that my last blog post never went through. Usually I write my posts in some other editor because sometimes web forms screw up. Like this time…. when I chose not to take precautions…. Go figure.

So I’ll be brief and try to recapture most of what I tried to say before but much less verbosely than usual because I’m tired and don’t remember everything I said anyway.

So…. Session 5, two days ago, Monday morning. Not a great one. I thought it could be, but it fizzled. I started out pretty aroused, but stress I’ve been experiencing crept in and spoiled it. So I didn’t get much out of the session sensation-wise. But I still learned things and it was relaxing until the end, when I blew it. More on that shortly.

Lesson #1 from this session: having a routine/ritual is helpful. This is something I had read in the wiki and/or forum posts, but someone in the chat reminded me of it by sharing their routine with me. I took a leaf out of his book and imitated some aspects of it. I took a long hot shower. I warmed up with kegels. I did some stretching. All through this I kept my mind on what I was about to do, trying to generate and maintain an erotic mood. And it worked. I will try to keep that up, create a routine that works for me to get me ready for a session. Read more »

Nips A’hoy!

There they sat for so long, two little bumps in their round hairy brown patches. Seemingly a mere and strange reminder of a gender that might have been.

Perhaps there is a distant memory of adolescent arousal, when they responded to self-stimulation and were cause for guilty fantasies of mechanical or human attention.

But all that was lost in decades of penile arousal and orgasm. Every lube was explored, from mud to mayonaise, abolene to vaseline. Home devices were created from foam and plaster-cast positives. How many hours of endless edging. Just a few fingers entered the forbidden hole, with it seeming to ask for more.

Then the Internet introduced e-stim, bringing edging to an entirely new planet. A cock wired for stereo, listening to Claude feels like a alien hand or mouth stroking, like a slave animal sucking. Inevitably, the ass wanted in. So a trode was fashioned, to enter in. Now, two audio players in combinations of stereo cock and mono ass allowed the sphincter to play along.

Enter Aneros.

What seemed impossible in these blogs has come to be. Each model it’s own delight. Waves of pleasure lasting much of a day. A mind able to raise spasms of ecstacy while a-less, no aneros at all.

After an hour or two of letting an aneros run free, I wait until every muscle is allowed to move with the ass. The back spasms, rippling up and down. The face and jaw tingle. The toes , calves and thighs pulse as if directed. I stare into the black abyss ahead. And then. Read more »

Did I milk myself by accident?

So, I was about 10 minutes into a session, which is pretty soon for me for anything to start happening. I started getting very breathless, shaking a lot more the whole shebang. I thought “Finally, prostate orgasm” and I’ve been on this “jounrey” for about two years now with nothing much to show for it.

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However, it’s nothing like any description of a prostate orgasm I’ve ever heard. All the pressure and pleasure was in the penis and nothing was going on in the prostate; at least nothing that I could feel with everything going on in the front. Tt essentially felt like a traditional masturbation orgasm except it lasted a little bit longer (the feeling lasted for about 15-20 seconds, whereas a normal orgasm by hand would only have the pleasureable feeling there for about 5-10) and it was a lot wetter then usual.

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So my question is, did I somehow skip the prostate orgasm stage and go straight into milking territory? If so, how do I go back a step. If it wasn’t me accidentally milking myself… what was it? Because it certianly wasn’t a prostate orgasm. As I said, everything was focuses on the junk in the front.