Am I doing it right?

I’ve purchased a couple of different Aneros toys (helix syn and helix trident) which I’ve used several times with the same results each time. I’ve done it hands free every time, doing the pulsating/hold to breath counts, and I do ejaculate every time but I’m usually spent after it. Am I stopping short of the elusive “super O” or is this it? From what I’ve read from every one else, the prostate orgasm is dry so I’m thinking I’m in the right direction but not quite there yet.

I do notice the slight twitches when I’m either clenching or releasing the toy, which I’m still working on keeping that rhythm.

Aneros virgin: 1st time use

Hi All,
I am so excited (dick in hand-excited) to have just ordered the Syn variety. It should be coming in the mail soon.

I’m a 53 yrs old man who had tons of sex as a 20/30 something, job married and fell into a routine. Then about two years ago I suddenly became dick and bulge obsessed, which lead to Taoism. It’s been about a week since I shot my load, but that was only because I was having sex with my partner… who really wanted my cum that morning. Oh well. Before that, I had retained semen for approx four months. I really like the Taoist philosophy of being hard as often as possible and for as long as possible, just don’t ejaculate (so you can do it again in a couple hours.)

Blue balls resulting from the mandatory half-hour minimum daily edging sessions (though some days, if it’s slow, I’ll squeeze in four such sessions–pretty cool, and could never have had that much sex without Tao). Anyway, the blue-balls are both a problem and a great thing. On the plus side, the bluer they are the better it feels to massage them (and get hard again). On the down side, it’s not always 100% convenient to just jack off. I those cases the blue balls are annoying. Regardless, I’m feeling a bit plugged up down below. Read more »

“Re-Affirming My Maleless”

Background
I had a nice late-night session (although too brief) with my HIH 950. It auto-f****d me for about 15 minutes. I moaned the entire time. I was only wearing my Duke swimmer’s jock. When the session was over, I took off the jock and just put-on my nylon shorts. Then I went back to sleep. Or so I thought!

Meditation/Fantasy
During the time that I went back to bed, since I was not wearing a cup, I began to “feel” for my package. Nothing unusual about that. But I began to dwell on something that developed into a fantasy of-sorts, perhaps more of a meditation. Here it is….

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[Warning: This description includes sexually suggestive and explicit language. Reader be aware. This is what I remember. I won’t hold back on the descriptions.]
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As males, we must acknowledge our main purpose: We have a “duty” to make and deposit our semen.

We are designed to “leak”—that leaking of alkaline fluid paves the way for an ejaculation.

We must have erections—they are as necessary as our cocks. If they occur at an inopportune time, no problem! Let them happen! Don’t squelch them! Our cocks are designed for penetration into the female vagina. Don’t hold back, let it happen!

Are you in chastity? F**k it! Take-off that binding sheath and expose the male appendage with its raw power! Read more »

A bit of a slow recovery

It’s been around five days since I ended my last run of SR. It seems to have taken rather longer than usual for me to recover, I tried a session a couple of nights ago with nothing to show for it. I have also experienced very few erections or horniness whatsoever during this period. I took it as a sign that maybe I was needing a bit of a rest. Today I am happy to report that I can definitely feel some stirrings and stiffness. Just considering a session has left me very aroused and moist in anticipation. This is much more like it!

Aneros vs Manual Stimulation

I’ve noticed that when I am using my Pure Wand I know when I am about to have a prostate orgasm when the strokes of my toy make me feel a rather strong sensation of having to pee. The lead up to an orgasm with the Aneros doesn’t feel that way at all to me. Is it like this for you guys too?

“I Wanted the SGX, But Reached for the MGX!”

Well, I made it to Day 7 of SR! Still no signs of blue-balls but man am I horny! I wore only my nylon shorts to bed last night and awoke about 5 AM with a very stiff morning erection. I decided to put-on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon Cup and soon after, decided on a session. I was thinking about the SGX which I have not ridden in a while. But when I went to get it, I reached instead for the MGX! Perhaps I wanted something a little larger and the MGX fit the bill!

After lubing-up and inserting, I began to experience what felt like a pre-ejaculatory feeling. Sure enough, my prostate was being “milked”. I felt the strong erection beneath the cup and so I decided to remove it. And when I did, I was amazed at the fluid that had already be pumped-out! A nice wet spot on the inside of the pouch and even more oozing out of my erect cock! Easily 4-5 drops’ worth. At that time, I honestly thought about finishing the job with a nice ejaculation! But I decided to remain in chastity for one more day (at least!) I like this High-T feeling that comes with SR Day 7!!

PS This was a relatively short session (about 20 minutes). But it seemed enough in that I expelled more fluid than I thought I would. I feel nicely “milked”! Read more »

“Yet Another Mindset For Chastity”

Background
I made it to Day 6 of SR but I’m really “itching” for an ejaculation! It isn’t easy! I know I must endure a couple more days. In the meantime, I wore my XO cup overnight. This morning, I contemplated another session, perhaps with the SGX. But instead, I opted to remain in chastity. I wanted to ejaculate so badly, but decided against it.

New Mindset
I don’t know where it came from but this mindset came over me like a fantasy…..My urologist recommended a treatment for me to help with my ED—–I am to wear a cup supporter with another “regular” jockstrap on top (to stabilize it). I was already wearing my XO cup, but it is rather loose-fitting. So I selected my Duke swimmer’s jockstrap with a nice, large pouch and put it on over the XO. When I did, it felt very secure; the cup could not move-around at all! I couldn’t cheat while wearing this combination! So I remained in chastity and at the same time, my ED is being treated! What an amazing feeling! Of course, I am still very horny and really want to ejaculate. But if I endure it and don’t develop the “blue-balls”, it should be an amazing day!

Afterthought
Continuing the “cycle” of abstinence followed by ejaculation, the ups-and-downs of testosterone level (verified by scientific proof) boosts my libido to the point where I can feel it. It may not be a “normal” occurrence for men but it is “normal” for me—-I like the side-effects of abstinence (chastity)*. I never feel any more “masculine” than when I continue to practice semen retention. Guys, if you’ve never tried it, you don’t’ know what you are missing! Read more »

“The Language Of The Soul?…..A Meditation”

[Disclaimer: This is my interpretation only. No connection whatsoever to others’ interpretations of the “language”, either by music, feelings or other means.]

Introduction
Perhaps a little bit off-topic, but it all started yesterday. I was brushing my teeth and looking in the mirror. And it suddenly dawned on me: I can only look at my face through the mirror! Think about it: “you” are never looking at “you” (like others see you) except through a mirror, another reflection, a photograph or a video monitor. That is because of the way things are.

We have a dog, and our dog never looks at himself in the mirror! Dogs are not vain that way! But he communicates just fine because our eyes meet and he understands what I am trying to tell him. Perhaps this is the way people communicate too?

Meditation
I wore my Mueller cup overnight and settled-down this morning (quite early and after a nice session with the HIH 950) to listen to some relaxing, soothing tracks. I continued this meditation…..

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It seems to me that the “best” way for people to communicate with each other is through person-to-person contact. When peoples’ eyes meet, there is a special connection there. If there is indeed a “sixth sense” I believe it is received and processed through this visual means of communication. Read more »

Incredible shared Aneros experience. (M/M)

Hey party people. I’ve never used the Aneros with another person, but I’m very good at using it by myself. I even wrote [a guide about how I do it!](https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/8v1ij0/heres_how_i_get_to_my_reliable_supero/)

Recently, I connected with another guy who enjoys solo time and had never experienced the Aneros. I decided I would gift him a thoroughly, throughly cleaned Aneros Helix (since I tend to play with the Eupho Trident) and we would play together. I offered to coach him using my fairly meditative method and he was on board.

Smash cut to the two of us lying naked in his bed, making eye contact with one another. I’ve never made direct human eye contact with another man while using the Aneros. It was one of the most intense sexual experiences of my life. As we locked eyes, I felt the initial twitch go to a more fluttery place than usual. Instant omen of an intense session. I warned him. Once it really got going, my legs started to shake a bit and I felt what could have been an earthquake originating from a tingly spot right behind my cock, deep inside of myself. I didn’t even realize that I had slowly clenched down on the toy; it felt like it had been slowly expanding inside of me.

Then the orgasm hit. Read more »

“Putting Out The Fire”

Introduction
I have been sleeping without wearing a cup. Just a nice pair of silky-nylon shorts. Feels great in the hot, humid weather. But one drawback (which affects all guys) is the NPTs* which I experience. Some of them wake me up, such as the one early this morning.

I awoke with a powerful NPT erection and found myself masturbating in bed. I am currently in Day 4 of SR and I guess my T-level is starting to rise. I felt myself getting too close to the PONR and I wanted relief any way I could find it.

Action
After using the lavatory, I still had this overpowering feeling that I needed to ejaculate. It was almost as if there was a (sexual) fire in my groin! Not literally, of course, but the imagery seemed very real. What did I do? Of course, I reached for an “extinguisher” — my XO “chastity cup” and put it on. And almost immediately—like water on a fire, the cup put-out the fire! My raging erection began to subside, and with it that overpowering desire for sexual release.

The fire is out for now; I can get back to sleep!

Analysis
This “sexual fire” imagery was very real. Of course, I utilize my “chastity cups” fairly often. But this is the first time I have “felt” and experienced this imagery of a fire. It seemed so real and in fact, as I was able to extinguish it, it was real! Once again, I have successfully utilized a common piece of male protective athletic equipment for another purpose! (If I were to remove the cup too soon, would an ember catch fire again? I better keep it on for a while!) Touche’. Read more »