PC muscles question

Hi, so I can consistently super O within 30 minutes of inserting. And can super O on and off for the next 2 hours, with my PC muscles contracting on their own.

For those of you that can also do this, have you seen any long term benefits with your erections and orgasms without butt play?

“Chastity’s Middle Name: Frustration!”

Introduction
I got up to go to the bathroom with a semi-hard erection. I was only wearing my regular PJs. When I went back to bed, I became very aware of the sensitivity of my cock and scrotum, so I did what any horny guy would do. I started to fondle and play with them. Of course, I have no intention to want to ejaculate yet (I am in Day7 of semen retention) but it feels so good to get some external pleasure this way.

But just as quickly as I discovered this pleasure, an inner voice told me: “NO! You are supposed to be in male chastity and you need to block access to your package now!” So I quickly listened to that voice and put-on my Mueller “chastity cup” with a covering of loose nylon shorts. Then I went back to bed…

Relief and Frustration
A brief digression…..MLB players, catchers and pitchers in particular, wear almost without exception hard cups to protect their male privates. Why they do this should be quite obvious. They cannot react fast enough to get out of the way of a hard ball coming at them at 100+ mph! A direct shot to the groin of either player could send either one to the emergency room. Yes, some players complain that the jockstrap/cup combo is uncomfortable, but many of the newer cups are actually quite comfortable. If I were a MLB player, I would wear one all the time.

Some questions after the first session

Yesterday i had my first ever session with my new Helix Trident. I liked my session but i have some questions.

1. When my toy was in i noticed that it slipped down a bit. It wasn’t fully in. Is that normal?
2. How often should i concentrate my PC muscle? should i just pop it in and let its do its own thing or should i concentrate the muscle a couple of times?
3. Should you be erected while the toy is in? I rubbed my nipples in order to stay erected, but i think that this distracts me of the feelings of my prostate.
4. Can i masturbate “normally” after a session without my toy in?

“Meditation: Frustration and Satisfaction”

Background and Session
I had a nice session with Eupho early this morning, lasting about 30 minutes. I did not sleep in a chastity cup overnight and so I decided on wearing one this morning while I chilled to some relaxing, erotic tracks. I didn’t select my usual XO or Mueller cups which are comfortable and non-restrictive. Instead, I chose my SD Ultra Pro Carbon Cup which is restrictive and very supportive. Of all the cups I have, this one frustrates me in the way it stimulates my entire package. It can accommodate my erect cock as well. I can’t cheat at all while wearing it.

Meditation
While relaxing to some musical tracks (still wearing my cup) I began to meditate on the recent disappointment of some Aneros guys (in the Forum) with their lack of arousal and/or prostate stimulation. And it dawned on me: satisfaction with Aneros is not a guarantee! There will always be a give-and-take, ebb-and-flow of prostate sensations, including orgasms with our sessions. Thus, a prostate orgasm is not a “given” in any Aneros session. Rather, “satisfaction” should arise from other areas of our lives, our prostates are but one small facet of them. Yes, we magnify them because we want the great satisfaction of reporting about our Super-O’s or MMO’s in the Forum. But satisfaction with Aneros should be much deeper than just a fleeting experience during a session. When taken in the context of the “whole male experience” our Aneros sessions, however satisfying or not, become an integral part of us as males. And we should take great satisfaction in that!

New Things

Still getting Mr P woke up.
Every session seems to be more active.
I seem to have more activity if I inadvertently fall asleep with the helix in. Not sure if it’s a time thing or relaxation or what.
I tried the frozen coconut bullet last night. I will explore this more. I’m using the chapstick tube as a mold.
Also got some binaural apps to try. No opinion one way or another there.
I remain.

Morning after the night befOre

So yesterday was a cool day. I posted in a state of frustration about a lack of progress and received some encouragement and advice. Fast forward a couple hours and I finally cracked it, and had a number of super-O’s. Fucking incredible!!!

Today I’ve been off-the-chain horny. Crazy horny compared to normal. Woke up at 6am and had to jerk a little to settle back to sleep; I edged 3 times this morning/early afternoon, which I thought had calmed me down, but an hour or two later and I’m back to square one. A fantastic outcome, don’t get me wrong, but is this normal? Either generally, or at least early on?

Was planning to rest today and try again tomorrow, per suggestions online, but at this rate I don’t see me resisting tonight…

Low Testosterone Again and Considering Circumcision

My aneros sessions keep being bad.
I got my aneros sessions keep being bad.
I got my new blood checks and again my testosterone is below what is normal for men above 60+, and I’m 31.
Prolactine is also above limit and FSH is a bit below the normal level.
With this it is probably not surprising that I keep having no sexual desire and I think this is one of the reasons my aneros sessions are always devoid of fun. In the past they were a bit better, the good ones were rare but they happened.
Last time I went to the endocrinologist my second hormone check was good so they sent me away with no treatment or something.
This time I hope they give me something, it’s 2-1 now in favour of low testosterone.

Another thing is about my premature ejaculation.
As you know this is the major factor in my depression and it just poisons everything in me.
I can’t bear with it, it’s a constant pain and frustration.
So I’ve been considering if I should do a circumcision.
I know it’s not the usual PE treatment but I am in despair and honestly I have nothing to lose as right now I can’t have a satisfying sexual life.y new blood checks and again my testosterone is below what is normal for men above 60+, and I’m 31.
Prolactine is also above limit and FSH is a bit below the normal level.
With this it is probably not surprising that I keep having no sexual desire and I think this is one of the reasons my aneros sessions are always devoid of fun. In the past they were a bit better, the good ones were rare but they happened.
Last time I went to the endocrinologist my second hormone check was good so they sent me away with no treatment or something.
This time I hope they give me something, it’s 2-1 now in favour of low testosterone.

Getting frustrated

I’ve had my Helix Syn for about 2 months now, and whilst I’ve not hat anything mindblowing yet, my early sessions seemed quite promising. Definitely experienced P-waves, and a few times caused some trembling sensations in my extremities (mostly arms/hands).

But it seemed to regress after the first couple weeks. I think a lot of it is mental – I feel like if nothing significant (I.e. Light P-wave) happens in the first 20-30 mins, I get frustrated and *that* seems to be the nail in the coffin. And no amount of relaxation beforehand seems to get around this. I’m a little annoyed in all honesty that I am not moving forwards at all, but the feeing of stepping backwards is such a mood killer.

Have people experienced this kind of stall, and what did you do to navigate it. I know that it will take time and there’s no magic solution, but tips for managing expectations would be really appreciated. It’s clear I’m getting in my own way, but I don’t know how to effectively combat that.

Also, when learning the technique, I’m a little lost on how active I should be. On the one hand I’ve been told to relax completely, let the toy drive. On the other, people say tensing the prostate is key. One thing that has gone right is that I feel a lot more able to work my prostrate when I have nothing inserted – kegals were never something I really got in to before, but I really have gotten good at them I think – but not so much with the Helix inserted. It’s like I can isolate the prostate without it in, but when it’s inserted it’s much much harder to isolate the prostate. I end up clenching my butt/sphincter too, which seems to kill any growing P-waves. What are you doing?

“Your Cock Is Not Detachable!”

Background and Session
Now in Day 5 of SR. Slept just in my PJs. Expected to be awakened by an NPT: I was! Decided on a session with HIH 950. For this session, I took-off everything! An “Aneros-only” session (just my body and my prostate massager). This was a short session (perhaps 15 minutes) but it felt good and produced some precum.

Erotic Hypnosis
Decided to put-on my Bike “chastity cup” which I have not worn in a while. This jock/cup combo is very secure and nicely stimulates my package. I then went to lie-down and listen to an erotic hypnosis track as recently suggested by @SOwithoutAneros. Not thinking I could be hypnotized, I started listening for about 5 minutes…..the next thing I realize is that Shibby is waking me back up, after about an hour! I took a peek inside the cup: I had leaked some precum! What happened during the interim? Did I get an erection? Did I have an orgasm? What did I actually experience? Should I remember anything? Is it all buried deep within my subconscious mind?

Cock Pleasure
Anyway, getting back to the title, it seems to me that every little touch of my semi-erect cock now sends a nice jolt of pleasure directly to my prostate, letting me know what its purpose is. No, I don’t have to ejaculate but the soft, gentle touches on my cock (especially the glans) keep me focused on being a potent male (always with the potential for ejaculation). I can’t just “detach” my cock from my body and put it back-on when I want to or need to. So this erotic feeling goes everywhere I go, and I wouldn’t want it any other way! I can’t help but think now: could this feeling somehow be related to the hypnosis track? Intriguing….

What A Blissful Morning

This morning I awoke by myself around 8 o’clock. Having gone to bed around 1 a.m. I had set my alarm clock at 9 a.m., but already felt well rested. I stretched out a little and lay myself on my right side. Without any obvious reason sudden involuntaries shook my whole body. My inner gland voice told me to lay down on my back and let go. I obeyed. My involuntaries started over and soon I got quite aroused. I felt that well known dumb ache in my prostate area and knew it fully had taken command over me. With my penis fully erect my pelvis was already thrusting upwards. From time to time I was squirming and writhing in lust, then again I lay there fully silently without any motion. Nevertheless my arousal didn’t stop to build up and up and up. My nipples and my chest felt so sensitive, even the contact to my t-shirt felt like pure lust. My whole being felt like it wanted to explode from all that sexual energy. All this went on for what must have been around half an hour with several dry orgasms, as far as squirting precum doesn’t count and at least two memorable superOs making my whole body trembling and shaking like an electric eel. After some more great and powerful dry orgasms feeling most similar to traditional orgasms only without cum, I called it a session, but only to start another one. I took out my tablet and chose “Steps to damnation” to let a succubus into my mind. If I had thought I would have already been played out, I learned that I wasn’t at all. I went into a blissful fantasy and surrendered to that wonderful woman, to her first gentle kiss, pleaded for all she suggested to do to me until she wanted my soul for mounting me. That made me ban her and take out my earphones despite of another week of semen retention she in that case had put as a hex on me. Still in my underwear I headed for the kitchen to have some breakfeast. Standing at the kitchen unit eating my sandwiches I again pulled my penis out of the extra pouch opening of my awesome Separatec boxers and then draw back my foreskin to free my sensitive glans. I remembered the succubus’ words that I wouldn’t be allowed to cum for another week regardless how much I would edge. That meant after all I was allowed to edge! Soon I stood in the bathroom at the sink, applied a lot of lube to my glans and began to wildly rub my glans, getting a hard-on again in no time. I gave my glans a hard rubbing up to the very edge for three times. When I felt like nearly unable to hold back I counted down from twenty to zero before I continued the rubbing. I focused on firmly palming the upper side of my glans and fondling my frenulum. From time to time I formed a “V” with thumb and forefinger pressing them under the ridge of my glans and rubbing back and forward. When the waterbased lube began to run dumb I added only some drops of cold water and started over. Finally I took a lot of cold water to wash away the lube not without rubbing across my glans as before. The cold water helped me to keep me from the edge. One of these edging sessions every hour makes a lustful day schedule! 🙂
I nearly forgot to tell another little detail about my morning session. At some point I so eagerly wanted to cum handsfree this morning, I finally thought I could get there by nipple nibbling. But my t-shirt was a bit hindering. Surrendering to my lust my dirty little mind told me to spit some saliva on my fingers and get my t-shirt wet. I must say, that felt awesome naughty and it was the best idea to stimulate my nipples thoroughly, at least for some more drygasms. Good vibes! Mart