A bit frustrated: Can’t get beyond the “tingling stage”

I’ve been using a Progasm Jr and recently a Helix Syn for approx. 2 years now. Nothing much happened until some months ago where I started to get P-waves and tingles pretty much every time I use the toy. There where several instances where I got intense shivers, heart racing and the feeling of an immense pleasure incoming, so intense it made me even afraid. When it happened for the first time, my prostate tingled for two days which made me pretty anxious.

Also, I’m so far that I can basically alway cause P-Waves/tingles just with thinking about it, like a mental switch, and it’s almost as strong as with the toy in.

But that’s it – I never feel I can get beyond this stage. Is it the toy? I feel that they Syn works better for me than the Progasm Jr, so I thought about maybe getting another model, but there seems to be no consensus on which one.

Something I have also tried is stimulating the toy from the outside with a Magic Wand. It feels amazing and very tingly, but it’s just “constant pleasure”, but not like it would lead to climax. I can control both muscles independently, but “do nothing” worked best for me so far.

The “dry” feeling from a wet orgasm

Just had a rather weird wet orgasm. I was giving my self some edging after my last session (it failed, not leading to a dry orgasm as usual). During edging (with the massager still in) I constantly feel those pleasure waves you will normally get right before you’re about to cum. And suddenly it comes to me that maybe these waves and P-waves are the same thing or at least share some similar natures. So I tried to create these waves as much as possible. I paused stroking whenever I felt the waves occurring rather than pausing at the edge of cumming (as the word “edging” suggests). After several rounds of it, I decided to cum, and I did.

However, the orgasm I had is rather strange: my legs were shaking to the point where they almost became numb. I didn’t have that post-nut clarity filling my mind with emptiness, instead I just have the feeling of wanting more. My brain feels wonky and I even had trouble walking as if I were drunk. I’ve never have these feelings before in my wet orgasms.

My two questions are first, is that pleasure coming edging the same as a P-wave or at least sharing some similarities with it? Second, can those weird feelings I just got considered somewhat “dry-ish” or having some “dry notes” although the orgasm I had was definitely not a dry one?

Some advice for someone new to prostate player (me)

I am a newcomer to prostate stimulation and have been exploring this area through the use of a dildo and a prostate massager ([Link](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/lovehoney-high-roller-remote-control-rotating-prostate-massager/a42638g76716.html)). However, I do have a few questions and would welcome any recommendations.

Firstly, despite my best efforts, I am unable to locate my prostate using my fingers alone, although I can locate it when using the massager and dildo. Is this a common experience? Secondly, I have noticed that the sensations I experience during sessions tend to start off quite intense but gradually fade away. I am unsure if this is due to a lack of technique or simply a matter of not having trained my mind enough. I also observe that the intensity of the experience varies from one day to the next, without any clear explanation. While I am aware that achieving a super O or a wet orgasm from prostate stimulation is a challenging process, I would welcome any recommendations for further experimentation.

Furthermore, I plan on purchasing an Aneros tonight, but I am undecided on which model to choose. I used the Aneros tool, which recommended the Helix Syn V. Can you provide any feedback on its efficacy?

Thank you in advance for any insights or suggestions you may have.”

I can’t separate sphincter and PC muscles…

I know which one is which but for me they both activate at the same time. If I imagine trying to stop my urine stream I automatically clench my sphincter. What’s the best way to go about this?

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Prostate Orgasm

Hello, So I have been trying to get an orgasm from prostate but no success so far the closest I have ever been was getting a little tickling sensation. I usually use a dildo and have tried several positions like riding it using my hands to gelp navigate it. Sticking it on wall and humping it but no success so far. I am thinking to try again today but need to know what I should be doing and looking for.

Please share your experience how you achieved it and how it feels and how ik that I am doing right

Thanks

Why do kegels help if I should be relaxed and let my muscles flutter?

The title. I feel like starting kegels would go a long way but can’t help but feel it seems counterintuitive – if I’m not going to be using a muscle, why does it need to be stronger? Isn’t the point of involuntaries the fact that the muscles get tired and start to flutter? Won’t making them stronger make that harder to happen?

Busting a nut

I’ve not had a wank in over a week now which is a great accomplishment in itself,what happens if I have a wet orgasm hands free during a p play,is that game over for that session

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Will ending a session with a traditional orgasm affect my rewiring?

I’ve only been experimenting with prostate play for a couple months now but have made some great progress. I now experience intense pleasure from any toy I use and look forward to sessions. That being said, I believe I am still rewiring and have only had “HFWO” after edging myself the traditional way.

I’ve been ending essentially every session with a traditional penile orgasm while the aneros is in; by then I am usually low on time and extremely horny. It’s a satisfying way to end a session. The best orgasms I’ve had have been when I’ve waited until my prostate is building up pleasure and finished the traditional way, seemingly cumming from my prostate and penis at the same time. I also find that as soon as I start touching my penis, my prostate becomes significantly more sensitive and pleasurable.

My question is, do you think that ending sessions this way is hindering my rewiring? Ultimately, I would like to have more truly HFOs and experience many of the things I’ve read on here. I still feel like I have been making progress, and this enjoyable end to a session is part of what keeps me coming back for more. Thanks in advance for the advice.

Help needed for choice in size

Hello, I started using the Helix Syn a while ago but didn’t get a lot of stimulation and started enjoying dildos instead.

Now I’m trying to get back to the aneros but I still get the impression its not providing a lot of stimulation, I almost don’t feel it inside me. Is this normal for a beginner? should I try getting one of the larger models like the progasms or the Vice?