Help me find the aneros toy that will finally let me orgasm!!

Hi, so I’ve been interested in prostate play for a while but haven’t quite finessed it. I have only bought cheap vibrating toys online, that haven’t hit the spot.

I’m now looking to get into the Aneros brand (my budget is still pretty low – sub £50). My question is, which of the Helix Syn, Trident Maximus, or Prograsm Ice should I buy?

I play quite regularly with a regular toy that measures around 3.25″ in circumference and 4.5″ in length. That’s a nice fit for me. I worry a little that the Helix Syn is too thin at 3″ to give a satisifying feeling, while at the same time the Prograsm Ice measures at 3.75″, which could be too thick (one of the previous toys I used was 4.25″ thick, which was painful to insert and take out).

Basically my priority here is achieving a prostate orgasm with one of these toys – I have never had this before but have played quite a bit with my ass with small-modest sized toys.

Which will give me the best chance of achieving this?

“Don’t Be So Eager To Ejaculate!”

Background
Now in Day 9 of SR; wore my Mueller cup overnight. Early morning, decided to take-off the cup and replace it with a pair a silky boxers with a contour pouch. Went back to bed but couldn’t sleep; decided to lie-down on my comfortable sofa and settle-back with some relaxing massage meditation tracks. Also decided not to have a session this morning.

Meditation
While listening, I honestly felt like I would edge, then ejaculate. But what developed was a very gentle scrotal/perineum massage that completely avoided my penis. I received all the erotic sensation of this “massage” without the expectation of an ejaculation. That was not to say that I didn’t want it. I did. But without the presence of “blue-balls”, there was no reason in the world that I should ejaculate!

Outcome
I now have a semi-firm erection and my balls feel very solid. I am leaking precum too. I should ejaculate. But instead, I will let this erection settle-down until I go flaccid again, then (hopefully) I will make it through the day without the ache in my groin, signalizing to me that it is indeed time for a release! But I really want to progress to Day 10 and beyond in this “run” of semen retention! What a feeling to be at max-T! Read more »

Choosing the right Aneros (not the ‘Helix Syn’)

For just under a year, I’ve (40 straight [M]) had the Aneros ‘Helix Syn’ with little/no success.

After using different strategies, I’ve come to the realization that the angle and/or length/width of the ‘helix syn’ isn’t hitting the spot for me.
Whether it’s too short or long I’m not sure of, but I think the angle of the head is somewhat ‘off’. I believe it needs to be applying somewhat more pressure than I’m able to do simply by contracting different muscle groups.

The only time I feel something that resembles pleasure, is when I slightly pull the rear tab. Because of this, I’m thinking that I might want to try another Aneros model. I’ve read many different threads discussing different techniques, mindsets etc; but I believe that the issue is the angle of the device (I’ve been at it quite frequently, up to hours at the time).

So my question is: which one to choose? It’s hard to tell from the pictures online, therefore I hope that someone might be able to give their opinion.

Alternatively, I’ve looked into the njoy pure wand, but to be honest it’s 1) pricy and 2) pretty intimidating.

Anyways, thank you for reading!

Do you watch/listen to porn during prostate play?

As I mentioned in a previous post, I’m relatively new to this. I have an Aneros Helix Syn and will be using it for the second time ever tonight.

When you engage in prostate play, do you watch or listen to porn, or do you just turn everything off and try to focus on the moment? I’m interested to learn new techniques.

Thanks in advance!

“SR Day 8 —– Oh My, What A Feeling!”

Background
Now in Day 8 of SR with my testosterone boost in overdrive. I wore my SafeTGard cup overnight and awoke about 3 AM with a hard, throbbing erection. Wanted a session so I selected my HIH 950. Now it doesn’t look like much but let me assure you, it does the job!

Session
I started the session somewhat flaccid but quickly developed another erection. I continued to wear the cup during the session since it takes my hands off my cock where they don’t belong. I immediately began to feel the p-waves and some auto-contractions which resulted in some precum. Honestly felt like heading for a HFWO. I am moving around in bed, lightly moaning throughout. Surprised that 30 minutes had already passed while in this feeling of ecstasy.

After-Session
Went to listen to some nice, erotic tracks for about an hour, then went back to bed still wearing my SafeTGard cup. I somewhat remember a lucid dream that was of a sexual nature. I remember “thrusting” in bed but not much more. Perhaps I am closer to a wet dream than I realize? Interesting, but I have absolutely no blue-balls feeling during this current “run” of semen retention. I hope I can keep it that way! If I may be honest, I am feeling like an ejaculation* but don’t really want one just yet. (Thank goodness for the chastity cups that help me!) I like the “High-T” feeling too much! It puts a “male” spin on everything I see and do! Read more »

“Relax, It’s Only Chastity!”

Introduction
No session last night. But I awoke around 12:30 AM with a stiff one. I decided to wear my XO “chastity cup” —- and that got me thinking…..

Instruction
The “chastity cups” I wear could be interpreted as a piece of erotic fetishism. Yes, they cradle and caress my manly “package” with authority: they could be considered to be ultra-sexy. However, in reality, in my case, they are nothing more than a means to an end. That is, they prevent me from enjoying the pleasures of male masturbation. Do I need this? I believe I do. Without it, I am prone to my wandering hands’ eagerness for pleasure and gratification. And an erection within the cup only adds to the temptation.

Sensibility
Just relaxing into the satisfying feeling of chastity is rewarding enough for me. If I can keep my head where it belongs, I can endure the reality of night-time erections (NPTs). But the added pressure of a testosterone boost (I am now again in Day 7 of SR) does take my “chastity game” to a new dimension! It’s like trying to ignore an itch—-it needs to be scratched! The same way with a sexual urge. It can be ignored, but only up to a point. Eventually, that itch just has to be scratched! What is my sexual “strength” to ignore the itch? I am tested almost daily!

Reality Check
The subconscious mind stores everything you ever did in life. Here is a definition: Read more »

“Sorry, Guy, Your Cock Is Off-Limits But Your Prostate Is Not!”

Introduction
I had my annual urological checkup yesterday. Having had a PSA blood test 2-weeks ago, I always am a little apprehensive until I hear the number. Well, I’m happy to report that my PSA was again quite low (1.7)! My urologist also performed a thorough DRE and said my prostate is in fine shape! What a relief! I celebrated with a nice dinner out with my wife!

Session
I had a nice session early this morning. I thought I would select the HIH 950 but instead went with the SGX. It was a good choice: right from the start, I began to experience anal contractions (almost like an anal orgasm). I am again wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” — I had a brief respite this week due to some groin irritation caused by a flare-up of a skin tag. That seems to have cleared-up and I am again placing my cock “off-limits” but not my prostate! And while relaxing this morning, just chilling, I began to dwell more on this topic…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on the fact the quite a few of us Aneros men have issues with sex in the usual sense. I am no exception. But that does not mean that we guys cannot obtain sexual pleasure and relief. It’s just that we do it another way. Let me explain….. Read more »

Interesting night

Had an ok session last night. Was getting small shots of bliss, no orgasm, maybe a couple small small ones.
On my side at one point and I had a few involuntary PC contractions, I assume, which were very powerful and involved my abs as well. That was new. Felt like my heartbeat kicked them.
I pulled the plug and went to sleep only to be awoken three times to very hard erections with major contractions. I can almost tell time by my boners during the night.
Last one was about 4:00 AM. I started wanking and it felt like a whopper brewing, but lost my fire and no TO. which is ok because I was not disposed to dealing with what was building up to be a firehose of an ejaculation.
Going to have to leave off for the weekend, I think. Short trip to take care of some business.
Definite progress though.

Ciao

New to prostate massage/Helix Syn

I’ve been interested in the idea of prostate play/massage for a while, but have never tried it. I’m 39 and married, but my wife is extremely conservative in the bedroom – unfortunately.

So, wanting to try it, since I have to go it alone, I bought the Helix Syn. I read a lot of comments and suggestions on here about what to do before I started. I had to wait until I knew I had the house to myself for a while since I can’t do it with my wife home.

I got naked in our bedroom, put on some porn, laid down on the bed and started. I lubed my finger and started to massage in and around my anus. Then I lubed up the Syn and slowly inserted it. My penis was flaccid at this point, but I didn’t touch it. I just tried to relax.

I started tightening and relaxing my muscles, trying to feel some sort of pleasure. I did this for close to an hour. My penis barely got hard, and I finally caved and masturbated to finish. Every once in awhile, it would feel like the Syn was sliding out, but it wasn’t.

I guess what I’m asking is what should I be feeling? Am I doing something wrong? I was hoping for this incredible experience – physically and emotionally. Should I lower my expectations? Should I look for other toys? Thanks for reading. Any help you can give a first-timer would be great.

Eupho use during sex!

Since Aneros claims that the eupho is perfect for use during sex I figured it would be my duty to give it a try. My wife had been asking about sex with the aneros in for a while. So with the addition of the eupho to my collection the time was fitting. Monday night knowing we would be I left the eupho laying on her night stand with a note that said “you can use this on me”. Fast forward to our time in bed together during for play she lubed it up and slipped it inside of me. I immediately got those wonderful pleasure sensations of my aroused and swollen prostate being lightly brushed by the toy. My wife had left my man parts alone during foreplay, she kissed and touched her way down from my neck to my lowers, stopping to kiss and touch around near my penis and balls. Ending up at my ass with her hand, she gently touched my ass hole with her finger, more of a teasing, and teasing my perineum as well. I was well aroused when she put the aneros in. Once it was in she rolled over onto her back legs spread, and that was my hint. Once in her, with some light slow thrusting I could feel the eupho dancing lightly touching my prostate. The pleasure was amazing, not to much but almost to much. The sensation of my penis in the soft, warm and wet environment combined with the leaking sensation the movement of the eupho was giving was amazing. After a few minutes she wanted to take a ride on top. I wasnt going to stop her. While readjusting I gave a couple light contractions and was oozing. My wife and I like to sometimes sit still with me inside and use kegals on eachother. My wife bearing down on my felt great as always, with her bearing down I threw in a kegal, the sensation was too much. We both released she went to the top of my penis, clamped down, told me to clench and hold. Half way on her decent down I was in trouble, there was no abort action, delay or anyway to get my self from exploding. I could feel the eupho dancing rapidly and my ejaculation reflexes were going. Kissing my prostate with every move of the massager I orgasm-ed. Full bodied, toes curled, eyes closed, I could feel the cum rising up out of me. My wife just kept on going, riding to her own moaning orgasms seconds later. This is defiantly going to become something we throw in from now on.