“Guys, What’s Your SR Number?”

Many Aneros guys are practicing semen retention (SR) these days. I have been too for probably longer than a year now. I keep track of my SR “days” on a calendar; that way, I can determine how long it’s been since I last ejaculated and when I may be due for one.

I was looking for some “reference ” info. on SR this morning online and came across this interesting “article”. I didn’t see an author, so I’ll present it as it was written. I found it to be informative and very pertinent even to my practice of SR. Here it is….

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“Cold Turkey?”

“The last point I’d like to make is to think about how to approach semen retention. I know many men that, when they first learn about this and are convinced of its importance, decide to never cum ever again, from there on. 99% of them make it for one week or one month, and then through a moment of weakness or mistakenly getting to close to the point, ejaculate.

This fills them with shame, remorse, and a determination to do better next time, which starts a cycle of self-flagellation continues until the eventual mastery or completely abandoning the practice out of a sense of defeat. I know this by my own experience in fact.

Newbie question

I have used my Helix a few times now, I do enjoy it. The other night during training/play I got a little more adventurous. After awhile I noticed that when it would almost slide out that I would feel more “excited” feeling. I would then tilt the Helix forward and manually then flex muscles, or pump it in and out. This did feel very good and more training is required.

Now to my question. Would a different Aneros product be better for me or a completely different make and model (must be high quality) be better? If the above is the way it is going to be for me, is a butt plug a better option?

Thanks all of your help and suggestions.

Helix Trident Review

I thought about making a blog post about my last session with my Helix Trident however that does not do justice for how amazing this toy is. Its really more of a pleasure tool than a toy to me at this point. I purchased my Trident 4 months ago and really my other toys have been collecting dust since then. I have all 3 helix models. The classic was my favorite, but the handle made it rub the back of my ass raw. The syn was nice, it dried out if I didn’t pre-lube. Movement on both of these models was so so, they engaged my sweet spot on my perineum and engaged my prostate. Both supplied hands free and super o’s when asked. I really didn’t think it could get any better unit I tried the trident version.

Here is what makes this toy so much better. Straight from Aneros site “new series features our Multi-Axial Motion Architecture™ which allows greater range of movement of the head, creating a larger variety of sensations for the quickest path to the orgasmic bliss yet. New tabs and arms stimulate Perineum and Kundalini acupressure spots with a unique rocking and cradling effect, producing simultaneous stimulation with increased stability”

Pole For Next Aneros to Review

I am going to keep putting together reviews of Aneros products to help others decide on purchases and to share my experience with various models. I just did a review on the Helix Trident. I would like to know what my fellow Aneros users would like to see next in the trident line. Put your votes in the comments! I will review the top 2.

4 Days of constant pleasure!

It has been over three months since my last blog post. I have not had any news to write about until recently. I work a weekday job with a long commute. I typically work out after work and by the time I get home, eat dinner and take care of things around the house I did not really have the time or energy for a productive aneros session. If I did try a session, I would just get really relaxed and fall asleep. So, lately I have been doing one session per week on the weekend. I have been thinking that that may not be often enough to see much progress. My weekend sessions have been pleasant. I always enjoy the sensations, and usually have some nice p-waves but nothing orgasmic. I would typically insert the Helix, relax and breathe deeply for a few minutes and then do some contractions. I have a vibrator that I have used with my lady-friend a few times and one afternoon about an hour into a session I got the idea to get the vibrator out and touch it to the p-tab and handle of the Helix. I found this to be quite pleasant and stimulating.
This came to be my routine. The first hour of a session would be deep breathing and contractions, and then another hour using the vibrator in conjunction with the Helix. Each time I did this, I would get more sensation and pleasure than the time before. I have been abstaining from regular masturbation in order to increase arousal during aneros session, and I would typically finish a session with a traditional orgasm including the Helix with the vibrator buzzing it. The Super-Ts when I do this are easily twice as intense and twice as long in duration as a typical orgasm. I certainly had no complaints about that.
The weekend before last – Sunday June 17, I was having the most numerous and pronounced p-waves yet, and the Super-T was extra Super as well. The middle of the next week – Wed June 20 I was thinking about my previous session and anticipating my next session and I decided to skip my workout and just go straight home and have a session. Whenever I would think about this I would get a partial erection in anticipation. My Wednesday evening session was every bit as good as the last one had been, and I decided not to finish off with a traditional orgasm Super-T to save my arousal for the weekend.
Friday afternoon I was aroused thinking about the weekend. I came up with the idea to put the vibrator inside the round part of the Helix handle and duct tape it in place rather than touch it to the p-tab. In order to keep the vibrator in place I had to lay on my stomach with my penis between two pillows. This proved to be the best idea I have had yet. I spent the better part of an hour in p-wave heaven and had at least 3 or 4 mini orgasms.
Saturday morning I woke up and went to use the bathroom and after I finished peeing I could feel a p-wave start to build and I had a mini orgasm standing in front of the toilet, with precum covering my penis glans. Amazed, I went back to bed smiling, and immediately felt a warm glow radiating from my pelvis. A few minutes later I had another orgasm, this one stronger than the one at the toilet.
All weekend I was experiencing mild to moderate pleasure in my groin. I had another session Sunday with even better results, just basking in pleasure waves from the Helix and vibrator. I have had pleasurable sensation radiating from my prostate ever since Friday – 4 days in a row now. I would dare say my purchase of the Helix may be the best 60 dollars I ever spent 
I know that some have said that vibrators do not work for them because they numb the prostate. For me there is some truth to this if the vibration is a constant static buzz, but any alternating pattern I have found to be fantastic. So overall I will say that I am very pleased (ecstatic in fact) with my experience with aneros, but my progress has certainly not been linear. It has taken me 4 ½ months to reach this point, and I have felt some mild frustration at times. But I just wanted to tell my story and offer encouragement to others. If you aren’t where you want to be, don’t give up. Keep reading the blogs and forum and try different things, and you may very well find the key to a new kind of pleasure.

“Don’t Be Embarrassed!……”

I don’t think I purposely suppress erections during the day, but…..

Today, my mind seems to be accepting the fact that I could have an erection during the day. I had one in the pool this morning; I had one while working around the house this afternoon (wearing my Bike hard cup for protection); I had one (actually combined with a chairgasm and substantial Aless) while on my PC this evening. What is going on here?

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Is there something in my subconscious mind that is accepting or denying these erections? I always have them at night because they almost always wake me up (while wearing a “chastity cup”). But erections during the day for me are not too common.

Should I continue to “accept” them, without embarrassment? I know that the answer should be “yes!” This will require a change on my part to “allow” these erections during the day, instead of only at night, when they may occur together with an Aneros session.

PS By the same reasoning, sex during the day could also be possible (with sufficient arousal)?

Intriguing…….

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“Imagine This!”

Background
I am in Day 4 of SR and in need of a session. I selected my HIH 950 because it always gives me a good ride. This morning’s session was no different. An explanation…..

Session
I am wearing my SafeTGard supporter with a Mueller FlexShield cup (instead of the CageCup). Before I start this session, I have fallen-into a fantasy, of sorts. I have developed a sense of amnesia and really don’t know what my cock is used for! (I don’t know the details of my sexual self). I don’t even know that I have a prostate! But I am told that it should feel very nice and so I allow the stimulator entry.

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It wasn’t too long that I am now feeling a nice “tickle” down-there and that feeling only got better and better. I squirm around on the bed, moan a little and feel something liquid coming out of my cock. It feels so good!

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After about 30 minutes, I am told that this stimulation session had ended and that the massager would be removed.

Outcome
This was a good session because it cleared my mind of everything! No expectations, no disappointments, nothing! My prostate was a “blank page” upon which could be written anything. This seems to be a good technique to use when wanting to remove all expectations from an Aneros session! It worked for me! It may work for you!

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“Male Chastity Explained: Absence of Touch”

Background
This blog was almost a “no-brainer”. But as I dwelt on it, it became more in focus and I continued the meditation. Here is where it led me…..

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I am only in Day 3 of SR (again) and decided to sleep in my silky boxers with contour pouch (also known as a codpiece). I began to think: why do I need to wear a “chastity cup” at all? I only have to make sure that I don’t start to play with my package through the silk. However, in my case, that was easier said than done, especially when a little bit of play resulted in an erection.

What did I do then? I decided to put-on my XO “chastity cup” on TOP of the silky boxers! This combination felt good but it also prevented me from fondling my male package. This meditation then continued to develop quite vividly….

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Meditation
Why does a male chastity device work? Why would a male want to wear one? Why would he allow another person (keyholder) to allow or deny him access?

What do a chastity cage and chastity “cup” have in common? The answer is quite simple! They both prevent a male from touching his cock!

Trying it tonight ! (Helix Syn)

Thank you to everyone on this subreddit for all the reviews and recommendations, i finally got an aneros and am planning on using it tonight.

I have light experience with anal play with fingering but nothing that felt like woah good.
I’m planning on smoking a lil weed, using a lot of lube and haven’t cum in about ten days.

Was wondering if you guys had any more tips tricks or advice for the best session possible ! Thanks again!