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How long do your sessions go before you feel anything? How long do the sessions last?
I usually leave it in for like an hour doing contractions before I start to feel that pleasure feeling when you’re about to cum but just like a minor version of that then it goes away and I feel nothing else. I mostly end my sessions after that but I’ve been thinking about leaving it in longer and I just want to make sure I’m don’t leave it in too long that I end up hurting something.
Introduction
I slept in my XO “chastity cup” and felt very unfulfilled sexually overnight. I am thinking about an ejaculation again. A night-time erection woke me up quite early. I realized that I am now approaching Day 7 of SR and that will mean a peak in my testosterone level. I looked online for some benefits of this testosterone “boost” and came up with a significant list. Here are some examples of the benefits of increased testosterone….
Testosterone Boost
“Testosterone maintains male fertility, libido, mental and physical energy levels, muscle strength, general well being and prevents depression and fatigue.”
It seems to me that all of these things are desirable. I achieve all of these by regularly practicing semen retention (SR) and it is notable that testosterone level “peaks” to about 45% above “normal” at SR Day 7! (This has been verified by a scientific Chinese study).
Attention from Females
It is also said that men practicing semen retention will have more attraction from females. But I never understood why. I think I know now. A quick online search revealed the following….
“Women at their peak fertility prefer the smell of men oozing with testosterone, a new study finds.”
Wow! Now I know the reason that when I practice SR, I seem to get more “attention” from some women!
Increase in Male Libido
On top of all of the benefits of semen retention, there is one that stands-out above all the others: increase in male libido. I looked-up the definition of “libido”:
Im turning 30 in four months an I so intubed with my sexual apetite that the simplest thing can get me going an I can ride it til the sun comes up. I feel like my prostate has grown the size of a watermellon. A simple tap with a toy sends me into a shaking blissful orgasmic ride that I never want yo get off.
My prostate, my heart an my brain are so intuned that even my a-less sessions arr mind blowing. I now have distance my self from porn jump starting my sessions an now I read erotic stories online or listen to very scriptive audio of men gooing an orgasming off of there own penises. The grunt of a man tugging at his own meat while his hole is plugged is so hot to hear. I now wear my toys majority of the day. They gove me suprise joits of pleasure that keep me smiling thru out the evening. My prostate is so trained now from all of the countless sessions I end each one with just pouring out cum with out even touching my dick. It some mtimes oozes an then other times it gets on my chest an even in my beard.
I love my toys an I appreciate my prostate for all the pleasure they both have brought me. So glade I found this site an found my sexual liberation.
Background
Yesterday, while walking through a parking lot to my car, it suddenly struck me how “cars” are a lot like Aneros prostate massagers! Sounds foolish? Well, hear me out. A car is designed to take one from Point “A” to Point “B” . It could be a jalopy or a sleek convertible. But it will take you where you want to go. It has a motor, four wheels and a steering wheel. Well, isn’t this the same basic principle as with Aneros prostate massagers? We can choose the most “fancy” massager or one that is most “plain”. But in either case, we are still getting to Point “B”! So it makes sense to me that regardless of whether I choose the lowly HIH 950 or the sleek, sophisticated Helix-Trident, I will be massaging my prostate. After all, they are both designed for the male anatomy. And the same is true for all the other Aneros models.
Session
Last night, I slept in my very comfortable SafeTGard “chastity cup” with Cage Cup. The Cage is shorter than all other cups I have and it will not accommodate my erect penis. But that is okay, since when erect, the frenulum protrudes beyond the top edge of the cup and provides some very stimulating feedback. I am currently in Day 6 of SR (how I wish it could be Day 16!) and as I described in a previous blog, I have been having sessions now to relieve BPH symptoms. It is working well!
Got up early last Wednesday morning to go to the gym. It opens at 5:30 am and is close to home so i can ride my mobility scooter there. It is still dark at that time so dressing scantily is not an issue. I wear these oversized cottony boxer shorts and white sleeveless teeshirt which both help to increase my state of arousal. Also popping one little blue pill ensures that when the time is right, my penis will respond to a call for action.
And so I set out on my journey and arrive about thirty minutes later. The pill has done its magic by this time and my erection has slipped out of my loose shorts so I have to cover my lap with a large towel. I drive through the door stopping at the desk to check in and then on to the men’s locker room. All the while the towel covering my increasingly growing hard on, on one hand fearing exposure but the other delighting with the thought of the towel slipping and being exposed!
Upon entering the mens locker room i immediately go to the shower remove my clothes exposing my erect cock and shower. When i am finished I take out my helix, lube it up and insert it in my anus! Then I hop on my cart and drive to the sauna in the next room. No one is there so I go into the sauna with my large towel in tow ready in case I need to cover up.
Sitting there I begin to sweat and start to move my hips naturally as my helix relentlessly hits my prostate. After a while i can feel precum oozing out. Just as I start to reach a heightened state of arousal, I hear the door to the room the sauna is in open up and I have to cover up. Then the door of the sauna opens up and in steps a young guy in his twenties. So now what do I do?
The young man strikes up a conversation with me. He seems very friendly and we talk with each other easily! As we talk about insignificant things I find it increasingly difficult to focus because my helix keeps pushing against my prostate causing me to become increasingly aroused. He looks at me and says, are you ok, you look as if you are about to explode. I told him I was fine, knowing that I wasn’t! I wanted to rip off the towel and orgasm right in front of him!
What happened next I could not have predicted, but it did! He said, are you sure you are ok? I said to him I am great but I cannot hold off anymore! I confessed to him that I had a prostate simulator inserted in my anus and it was causing me extreme pleasure and that I was at the point of exploding. Without saying another word he reached over to me and pulled off my towel exposing my sweaty, aroused, nude body, and my extremely hard erect cock bulging at the seems.
He said to me to go ahead and orgasm and that he would listen and watch and stand guard for me while I did. I didn’t need for him to ask again and so with his blessing I hopped up on the top bench seat, lay down and began to squeeze my butt cheeks together my body contorting as i tried to orgasm.
I could feel precum flowing as I slowly drifted into a complete state of helplessness virtually placing myself in his hands! My connection to reality was gone by now. I felt his hand on my forehead and heard him whisper to me cum. Shaking uncontrollably now I thrust my pelvic area upwards as my erect cock squirted my cum over and over again towards the ceiling and all over my belly!
I heard him say wow many times as I tried to calm down and regain my composure. After about ten minutes he helped me down and I got up and managed to walk to the shower. I showered for what seemed forever in cool water. When i was done I slowly walked back to the shower to thank him but he was gone!
I have been enduring a forced break from any Aneros or associated activity for a couple of weeks now. Some house renovations have been ongoing, none of it smoothly. I don’t get too stressed but find I have been just too preoccupied and distracted to contemplate any sessions. On top of this, I caught some kind of a flu bug that took me down for a few days. All of this has just kind of completely blocked any sensations of arousal or withdrawal I would normally expect after almost two weeks of SR and no sessions. It works but I can’t recommend it. However, I feel a reawakening! I am now bug free and hopefully the work is back on track. I am beginning to savour the thought of a well deserved and long overdue session. Just the thought of which model to choose has got me quite hard and horny. Maybe my Eupho Trident with its sleek lines and nimble ways or, my Progasm Jr that is none of that and quite frankly just f****s me from the word go. So, come Friday, or should that be cum Friday, I shall have to wait and see which one gets the nod.
Background
I could not have seen this night coming! It was full of surprises. Let me explain…..
I am now in Day 5 of SR and feel my T building-up. I went to sleep wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” and a short pair of PJs. I had not yet fallen asleep yet; it was only about 10:30 PM. Although not aroused in the least, I got an urge to have a session. I am now doing more frequent sessions to relieve BPH symptoms and they appear to be working. I selected the SGX (which I had not ridden in a while), lubed it up and it felt so good upon insertion. I could not have predicted the outcome of this session.
Session with SGX
Within the first 20 seconds of insertion, although I was completely flaccid going in to the session, I developed a hard erection beneath the chastity cup and it stayed hard for the rest of the session. And almost from the start, I began to softly moan. Not because I wanted to, but almost as if I had to. This moaning was quite unusual for me; I felt something in my anus that was caused by the ribbed stem of the SGX. I concentrated on my anal canal, not concentrating on anything that could be happening with my prostate. And the moans just kept going unabated. The moans actually lasted the entire 35-minute session! When the session ended and I went to remove the SGX, I noticed that I was still erect beneath my Mueller cup.
Background
While relaxing and chilling this morning with some nice tracks, I had the opportunity to fantasize and reflect on my fascination with male “chastity cups”. (I had an inquiry from an Aneros member recently who wondered whether I am still practicing semen retention and male chastity. The answer is a resounding yes!) Let me explain…
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What is a male “chastity cup”?
What it is basically is a male athletic supporter with a hard cup. Nothing more, nothing less! There are many brands available and I have several. Among my favorites: XO ProCup, Shock Doctor Ultra Pro Carbon Cup, Mueller Sports Medicine cup, SafeTGard with Cage Cup.
What is is used for?
There are myriad uses for these cups. First, in sporting events such as baseball and hockey, the cups are used to protect the vital male genitalia from injury. Ever been accidentally kicked in the balls? Not too pleasant? Well, the cups prevent the most serious injuries from occurring.
As I use them for male chastity, these cups serve another purpose entirely. They prevent me from touching, caressing and stimulating my male “package” so that I cannot masturbate while wearing one. So simple but yet so effective! I can stroke and rub the hard cup all I want and I may develop an erection but suffice it to say that there will be no ejaculation while I am wearing one. This is especially true at night while I am in bed (before I have selected and put-on a cup); invariably I will begin to play with my package almost automatically. I have to catch myself before I get too aroused with an erection. It is too easy to reach the PONR and an undesired ejaculation. It is then that I select a cup and put it on.
I have been overdue for a session, getting frustrated as well. I think I was in an Aneros “lull” and I think I know why. I have been getting away from the “original” purpose of Aneros (and High Island Health) and that is for BPH relief. This is the reason I “discovered” Aneros in the first place almost 2-1/2 years ago. So I decided to return to my “roots”—–and guess-what? I had a very good session. Let me explain……
I slept in my XO “chastity cup” and am currently in Day 4 of SR. When I awoke, I was not especially aroused. But that didn’t stop me from lubing-up the Eupho-C and getting some BPH relief. I have noticed recently a trend towards more frequent trips to the lavatory at night and double and triple “voiding” afterwards. The prostate massages work very well in this regard and I am disappointed in myself for not taking advantage of it.
What I probably should do is put myself back on a “BPH-relief” schedule every couple of days and determine how my BPH symptoms are (hopefully) diminishing. After all, it is less than 2 months away from my annual urological exam and I don’t want any surprises!
Still haven’t achieved full prostate orgasm. But now in many many many situations, I start getting ‘blue-ball’ in my prostate. Kind of a burning itch/desire that can’t be relieved, any stimulation makes it worse, but you never quite reach prostate orgasm either.
This is really bad when driving, sitting through meetings, trying to get work done at work, wanting to do things like jostle my leg but can’t because that just makes it worse. Etc. Caffeine now always makes my prostate feel like it’s swelling with salt water in a good-but-can’t-get-off way. Vibrations while driving on the freeway are the same deal.
Out of ideas for actually reaching full prostate orgasm. Butt plug + perineum massage cradle with vibrators + semi-full bladder and belt pressing that down. Nope. Several different models of vibrating prostate massager + perineum massager. Nope. Hitachi wand to find my prostate. Nope.
Fucking christ I just want to get off. I can’t get off.
It’s now to where the major nerve going down my leg is slightly pleasurable to flex in a certain way, but not enough that you could ever get off on it. Super distracting.