Aneros users blogs and guides
You may have noticed recently that I “cleaned-out” a lot of my old blog posts. I just felt the time was right to do this and move-on. Of course, there are still plenty of topics (some new and some old) which can be presented, perhaps in a new way.
I’ve done this for two reasons: First, it will help me to get re-established in the Aneros blogs. Second, it may encourage others to “pick up the baton” and post some blogs of their own. I enjoy writing (and reading) the Aneros blogs!
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Hi guys,
Getting my very first BIKE CUP Supporter unit, no. 85 at that sporting goods store on Thursday April 10, 1986 was an event that changed my life. I believe that it was one of the best products that the BIKE Athletic Company manufactured for support, protection, and comfort for athletes competing in contact sports, such as baseball. I ordered actually a lot more of this protect for my burgeoning jock and cup collection for the two or three years it was manufactured.
I wore this jock and cup last night. We have a long stretch of rainy weather the last few days. A couple hours of thunderstorms are scheduled for this afternoon which will usher in a drier stretch of weather. Anyway BIKE CUP Supporter Unit feels like a sock. It is perfect for Kegeling in. I slept like a baby in the early hours before sunrise this morning while it rained cats and dogs outside.
Actually I discovered that I could wear this cup and jock comfortably to bed the very night in 1986 after purchasing it. The elongated, contoured and banana shape of this athletic cup not only scooped my genitalia, but I fell in love who the bottom edge of this cup covered my perineum and even massaged it. It is interesting that I discovered unconsciously that night the Kegel Exercises.
Background
Many of the posts on Aneros Forums allude to the inability to let-go during prostate massage sessions. I have found that the following “imagery” helps me to let go of that control.
Technique
I visualize myself getting ready to cross a bridge over a moat and into a castle. I am told that I cannot bring anything into the castle except a prostate massager and some lube. Everything else must stay outside of the castle. I must clear my mind of any “clutter”. When I feel “ready”, I insert the massager and cross-over the bridge. I am in Aneros Castle!
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Results
Therefore, when I cross-over the moat, I am well-prepared for any feelings that may occur during the upcoming session. I am encouraged to fantasize and to visualize what I am feeling. In my opinion, it is important to select a fantasy which “matches” the feeling. For example, in this morning’s session, I once again am in my urologist’s office and being prepared for a prostate exam. I must “retain” the massager for a minimum of 30 minutes. I basically attempted the “do-nothing” technique but with the involuntary contractions developing, that was very hard to do. I attempted, unsuccessfully, to re-position myself but the contractions just followed my current position. All-in-all, a very good session!
Background
I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 2 AM quite aroused. I wanted a session and I had to decide between the HIH 950 and the MGX Classic. I selected the MGX. Now, although this session was good and I expelled some prostate fluid (not precum), in hindsight, my rectum was not as empty as it should have been. Hence, this session was less than refreshing and ultimately, disappointing. Fast-forward about an hour. I decided to “retire” the hard chastity cup for a while and replace it with a regular jockstrap. I selected my Omtex swim supporter and defly placed it beneath my long PJs. Well, before too long (as I have said many times before) I can’t keep my hands off my male package when it is so accessible (not in a hard chastity cup). But this time was different. Let me explain…..
A New “Edging” Technique
Instead of “stroking” and “kneading” my package through the soft knit pouch, I began to “press” and “hold” my finger(s) against my frenulum. Then I did the same thing to my scrotum. And then down to my perineum. And something amazing happened…..I slowed things down to the point of “do-nothing” edging! And as I began to feel an incredible power building-up, I sort-of fell into a meditation as well. Here is the essence of it, to the best I can remember.
Now, I’m not complaining, but I seem to be having intense ejaculatory feelings while in semen retention Day 4. I slept in my XO “chastity cup” for the entire night and got up once or twice with an incredibly strong arousal feeling, like I wanted/needed to ejaculate. Feeling almost like a wet dream was coming. I don’t know what’s prompting this response, but I suspect the fact that I have had almost daily Aneros sessions for the past 4 days could be a factor. Coincidentally, that is the length of time I am now in semen retention. These sessions have been very good and productive. Lots of precum and lots of prostate fluids.
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Is my body prompting me to ejaculate more frequently? Will I experience a wet dream soon? I don’t know the answers now, but I feel like I am living in the male world “between arousal and ejaculation”! It is a great place to be, but it takes perseverance not to cum. There are so many “triggers”, so much stimulation. The practice of male chastity does indeed ramp-up this response; otherwise, I would be edging and masturbating at will. Wearing regular athletic supporters (jockstraps) is a great turn-on for me; I can’t keep my probing hands off my sensitive male package. The scrotum, perineum and frenulum all work together to get me aroused almost to the point of ejaculation. I have to let things “cool-off” before I cross the edge (the PONR). And wearing a jockstrap without a “cup” sometimes it just too tempting; it will take a “steely” determination to avoid masturbating to an ejaculation!
Introduction
I decided to have a ‘quick’ session with the Helix Trident. I had not ridden it in a while. I am only in Day 3 of SR so my expectations were not too high. As soon as I started, I began to feel the nice P-waves and an almost immediate erection. I was wearing my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the XO ProCup (instead of the Cage Cup). I did not feel any Dry-Os this time around but that was okay. I still expelled some prostate fluid (not precum because it was not slippery and sticky). The Helix Trident (due to the combination of P-tab and K-tab) allows for a nice, easy and quick “in-out” motion caused by the two tabs. It doesn’t take too much anal or PC contractions (kegels) to get the flow going.
An “Experiment” In Male Chastity
I don’t know what prompted this but as soon as this session was over, I decided to replace the “chastity cup” (which I wore during the session) with a traditional jockstrap (athletic supporter) for the rest of the night and see what develops. I didn’t want to ejaculate so in my mind, this substitution was okay. I couldn’t predict the outcome. I selected a Bike swim/run jock (which is not too restrictive and has a nice soft knit pouch), put it on under my PJs and went back to bed.
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An hour or two later, I awoke with a NPT (night-time erection) that belied my Day 3 SR condition. I could not believe the stimulation now acting on my penis and especially the frenulum. Saying that I felt close to the PONR was a gross understatement. What I felt was a combination of a near-wet dream feeling and literally being in a (female) penetrative state of sex. Literally! In other words, f*****g awesome! No exaggeration here; I was completely paralyzed in the feeling of sexual intercourse and felt that with only a few more “strokes” I would be ejaculating! But it’s only Day 3! So much for this “altered” male chastity state!
Been using the progasm and vice (without the vibe) for going on three years. I think i’ve explored a huge range of ‘orgasms’ and still discovering new things. There’s something really compelling to me about a session that ends in ejaclation, and I’ve managed to achieve it completely hands free, but it’s still really inconsistent.
Doing a bit of reading, lots of things seem to contribute to the experience.. not coming for a while, light stimulation, drugs, etc. Personally around day 3 or 4 the urge or feeling of ‘almost there’ to ejaculate starts to ramp up, but i’ve been able to hands-free ejaculate as short as two days from my last ejaculate. Another post mentions cupping the balls at the base of the penis has led to ejaculation, and I’ve experienced this too.
I find porn and a bit of weed to help immensely, but I’m wondering what other techniques or drugs might help. Another post mentions a ‘pre-workout’ pill leading to some amazing super-o (no ejaculation). I’m guessing this has a bunch of caffeine and maybe some pseudo-ephedrine like stimulant. This kinda lit an idea in my head, as i’ve been able to ejaculate more frequently in the mornings, which correlates to having had a few cups of coffee.
So.. all you ejaculators out there? What’s your recipe?
Background
I am wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and am only at a new Day 2 of SR. No need for a session, right? Should I or shouldn’t I? Well, the time seemed right. I do remember at least 2 NPTs (night erections) within the cup. I hadn’t ridden the Eupho in a while and so I thought, what could be the best that could happen? Maybe some P-waves and nothing more. Well! I got much more than I bargained for. Let me explain…..
Session
After reading @Harper’s recent blog, I would concur that the Eupho just was “swallowed” up rather quickly; it seemed to know exactly where it was going and what it was going to do. And almost right from the start, I began to develop an erection. This was strange; usually it takes a while for me to get one during a session. But the Eupho seemed to hit the right spot and the erections developed quickly. OMG! The Eupho is acting like it wants me to ejaculate! It is edging me ever-onward. It didn’t seem to care that I was only in SR Day 2 and really had no desire or intention to ejaculate. But that didn’t matter to the Eupho.
Now I’m not complaining, far from it. Don’t get me wrong, enjoying almost constant sexual energy and rampant levels of arousal are just the ticket and I can’t believe my luck. But I do find it just ever so slightly distracting. I am carrying out my daily routine of prescribed exercise for an annoying sciatic problem and find myself unable to continue when a series of mini O’s launch themselves upon me until I end up laughing at the absurdity of it. I am seated at the dining table having lunch or suchlike, the chairs are quite hard I admit, sudden waves of pleasure surge through my nether regions, my facial expression must surely betray me. Nobody notices. I find myself watching the weather girls on tv, I have no idea at all what the forecast is. All I know is, they look pretty hot to me, and from a certain angle I am sure I can glimpse a nipple. I limp out of the room, surely the bulge in my shorts must betray me. Nobody notices. I made a decision to give myself a “cooling down” period and take a weeks break from all Aneros activity which usually consists of three sessions per week. From there I was going to try a weekly Aneros session and ejaculate as and when necessary. A week of chastity was not difficult for me, I have twice completed the 21 day challenge and made it beyond that one time. But how might I cope with no Aneros sessions and semen retention, I was already at day 5 when I began? After about 3 days things were ok, no strong Aless to distract me and I felt a bit more grounded. By day 5 I found I was yearning for the end of the week to come, 10 days of SR and no Aneros for days were beginning to tell. Although my horniness was ramping up by the day I found it was not quite as all consuming. Day 7 duly arrived, I was definitely needing my fix and I couldn’t wait to get started. For the session I chose my Eupho Trident, it performs wonderfully and has never disappointed me so far. The Eupho wasn’t so much inserted, more like swallowed hungrily. Within a few minutes I was in rapture, it felt ever so good to be back. The Eupho is the only model I own that seems to invite penis to the party, and on this occasion penis was only too happy to accept the invitation. Well he had been in solitary confinement for 10 days! Some wonderful dry O’s ensued while my cock was pulsing and throbbing in accompaniment. It was too much to bear and I couldn’t resist stroking and rubbing my engorged member, usually I forgo stimulation during a session, but this time it felt just right. I would stroke for a while and then stop and concentrate on the waves of pleasure from my prostate, then back on the cock for a while and so on. Inevitably I felt an ejaculation building and stopped short a few times but was edging ever closer. Then I knew I had gone too far and readied myself for the impending ejaculation. But it didn’t quite go as I expected. I knew I was going to cum, I could feel it making its way but, instead of spurting out, and apologies if this is just too much information, I witnessed the largest amount of semen I have produced in years simply flow out like it would never stop. What a sight. But still no orgasm, gently I teased my glans until I felt my prostate thumping and I had the most wonderful penile orgasm with more cum. Having barely gotten over that my Eupho seemed determined to have the final word as a wave of pleasure surged outward from my prostate. I felt well and truly drained, literally. Such a session I have never experienced. I think the reason for such a successful session might just have been that all of the pieces were there to enable it and they just fell into place on the night. Mainly though, I was well and truly ready for my Aneros session and seemed to build up the anticipation as I counted down the days, it felt the same as attempting SR. Interesting, I’m going to try it again.
Background
I am in Day 9 of SR with no ejaculation for 9 days. It seems my brain is “teasing” me with various opportunities for an ejaculation. But I am resisting. This morning, I had several “prime” opportunities for a welcomed ejaculation. But I rejected every one. Let me explain…..
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Opportunity #1
I slept in my SafeTGard “chastity cup” which is not too restrictive at all. I was “allowed” to remove it for a while and replace it with a very restrictive “Bike” cup for about 10 minutes. Then I was allowed to change into a pair of swimming jammers with a front liner. The idea was to get me to embrace the idea of coming out of chastity and allow my genitalia to express their desire for their intended purpose. I can feel my package through the silky material and can easily make-out my swollen balls and growing cock. It would feel so good taking this to the limit and experiencing a great orgasm and ejaculation. But for some “strange” reason, I rejected this opportunity for an EJ.
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Opportunity #2 (Fantasy)
Still wearing my swim jammers, I am “escorted” by a friend of mine (who is also a physician) into a “gentlemen’s club” where the “clients” come to masturbate and EJ. This is done very discretely, in private rooms. They use binaural beats to induce ejaculations in their clients. I am given a pair of nice headphones and start listening to some soothing but enticing tracks. Before long, I have an erection and feel my prostate starting to pulse, in anticipation of an ejaculation. But I am holding back once again, and rejected this prime opportunity to achieve an ejaculation.
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Opportunity #3
Back in my bedroom, I am placed in my restrictive SD “chastity cup” over which was placed my swim jammers and then my PJs. This was a very straightforward “EJ challenge”: I will be given a 5-minute “window of opportunity” wherein my male package would be exposed and I can take advantage of the situation, but only for 5 minutes. I can do anything to help myself ejaculate during that time. But after the 5-minutes, the “window” will close and I will be denied any opportunity for an ejaculation. Would I accept the challenge? It got close to the 5-minute “starting time”. When the clock hit 5:15 AM, I was allowed to remove everything and started fondling my scrotum and perineum, which felt so good. I developed a hard erection too but refrained from stimulating my cock too much. I knew that this opportunity was quickly slipping away. When 5:20 AM came up on the clock, up went the SD cup and I am left with the feeling that perhaps I made the wrong decision. I had been given three opportunities to ejaculate and I rejected all three.