“I Couldn’t Stop This Session From Happening”

Background
I am currently in Day 6 of SR; wore my XO “chastity cup” since about 3 AM this morning. As soon as I put it on, I felt a strong sensation down in my prostate. I have been having daily Aneros sessions now for the past 2 days, today was no exception. After listening to some tracks (which didn’t last too long), I had an insanely overpowering sensation to have yet another session. This time I selected the ever-reliable HIH 950. I lubed-up with SSG and began.

Session
Right from the start, I knew that this session would be a good one. I developed some fairly intense, auto anal contractions almost immediately and the 950 seemed to be pulled-in more deeply. I felt it hit my prostate’s “sweet spot” and starting to induce an ejaculation. What a feeling! I tried re-positioning myself on the bed but to no avail. After a while, I had the urge to remove my XO ProCup and was not too surprised to see a full-blown erection with oozing precum (it was definitely sticky). It was a pleasure to see my erect cock, ready for action! I could easily have had an ejaculation (a Super-T!) but had the fortitude to say “no! ” It is Day 6 of SR and I know, I feel my T-level is building up to the maximum tomorrow. My prostate is aching, begging me for an ejaculation but as usual, I am resisting for as long as I am able to endure it. I have no sign of blue-balls yet. Read more »

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“Most Of My Sessions Now Have This In Common”

Background
I went to bed not wearing a “chastity cup”. Now in Day 5 of SR and starting to feel my T-level rising, I awoke about 4 AM with a strong erection. I knew I had to at least put on a cup, so I selected the SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup. I immediately felt great relief and at the same time, frustrating pleasure!

Of course, I wanted a session only a day after a somewhat disappointing one with the HIH 950. I was not aroused for that one, and my expectations were low. This one would be different, I hoped. But I know better than get my expectations too high. I was not disappointed.

Session
I selected the Eupho Classic because it seemed to be out of “rotation” lately and because I wanted this long, slender “tool” to massage my prostate. This 30-minute session shared a common trait with many other sessions lately: that is, it seemed to hit my prostate’s “sweet spot”! This session was no different. The Eupho is nice because it can move a little bit or a lot, depending on PC/anal contractions. The choice is all mine.

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Helix Trident worth the surcharge over Helix Classic?

As some might now, a few days ago I made a post in regards of deciding which model to go for (Classic, Syn, Trident) and I decided to go for the Trident just because of the more round tabs.

So I was just looking for prices and I could get the Classic for 35€ on Amazon Marketplace while the cheapest price there for the Trident is 45€. Budget-wise that’s quite a difference (for me at least) and I’m wondering: Is the Trident really worth that surcharge?

And I’m also kinda wondering how big the chances are to get a Chinese knock-off product instead. Are there known cases where people got copies instead of the real thing? I would hate having the “handle” break off and not getting it out anymore without help.

Any opinions are welcome!

Something I Learned Recently for Sessions

Early morning session with the HIH 950. Not especially aroused but wanted a session anyway. Started it and was getting some nice p-waves. Now, something I have not ‘felt’ before in a session—–what if this session were not constrained by time? What if it could go on for an hour, two hours, three hours or more? That is the mindset that I developed in this session, and I believe it made for a better session. Not because I was getting some Dry-Os (I did not) or even some auto-contractions (I didn’t get these either). But the feeling of “timelessness” for this session really helped me to relax and decrease my session expectations to zero! And when I did that, I did start to feel a very slight “quivering” feeling in my prostate. I just felt like a casual “observer” in this session—–not an active participant! Maybe that is the way I should approach all my sessions!

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Looking at first toy. Some questions

Hey guys, I’m looking at aneros for my first toy and I have a couple questions.

1) Difference between helix classic, syn, and trident?
I know the syn is a different material, but any other differences?

2) is coconut oil safe to use with these? I saw a post from a while ago where it showed a moldy syn and the person admitted to using coconut oil. Would I be safe using it? I would clean it with soap and water each use.

3) Best place to order? I’ve been looking on shevibe mostly.

Thank you guys for the help!

“This MGX Session Hit A Different Sweet Spot”

I am in Day 6 of SR and woke up about 3:30 AM not wearing a “chastity cup”. Of course, I had a nice erection and decided to have a session. I originally wanted to go with the SGX but something told me to go with something “deeper” so I selected the MGX. It was a wise choice. As soon as I started the ride, I felt the MGX start to tickle my prostate in a new “sweet spot”. Previously, the HIH 950 was able to hit that spot that was located lower in my rectum. But this time, the MGX obviously was further in but nevertheless, was able to find a new “sweet spot” on or near my prostate. I began moaning almost right from the start and basically continued moaning for the rest of the time. I felt like I was experiencing many MMOs during this session.

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The interesting thing about this session was that I was hard virtually the entire time. I wanted/needed to ejaculate; I was very much near the PONR and felt that an ejaculation was imminent. I removed the XO “chastity cup” (which I put-on for this session) toward the end and saw that I was still hard. I had prostate fluid leaking out of my erect cock and onto the cup pouch (it was not precum for it was not slippery nor sticky). Oh how I wanted to ejaculate! I contemplated a super-O or just sliding around on the bed until I came but decided against it. I wanted to remain in chastity. Read more »

Orgasmic feelings without prostate focus?

I had a new sensation yesterday that’s continued into my anerosless today.

Last night I was having a first aneros session after traveling and otherwise holding off for a while. Not a strict hands-free session as I was stroking myself, using the aneros and looking at some exciting images. Usually my prostate starts throbbing, feeling heavy, getting bigger and generally getting more noticeable throughout the session, but yesterday it felt unusually quiet. Towards the end of the session, I stopped stroking and focused on my prostate area with no contractions. I couldn’t feel any prostate-centered physical sensation, but suddenly I came so hard I shot over my head. I was totally surprised that the orgasm snuck up on me without any prostate-based physical signs.

Fast-forward today and it feels oddly similar. My prostate doesn’t have the usual heavy tingling / butt buzz that comes the next day after a session. However, when I focus on the prostate area and relax, I feel orgasmic shudders/waves rolling down my body starting from the top and back of my head. Eventually with a mini orgasm my anal and PC muscles start getting tight and contracting on their own, but still there’s no usual heavy-prostate centered feeling. Mentally when I turn my focus and receptiveness to the prostate, it still feels nothing but the waves start tingling down from my head again.

My prostate suddenly went silent but is still doing great work. Has anyone else had an experience like this?

Helix: Sin? Classic? Trident? – I’m confused

An old friend of mine recently told me about a toy an ex-lover of her enjoyed using since it always made him cum quite hard and quickly. Being very open minded myself and knowing that I can enjoy certain stimulation (though I hardly have any experiences in these regards) and also due to the fact that it always takes me (much too) long to finish, I got curious what toy this might have been. Together we found out, that it must have been a Aneros product.

To get to the point of this post, I’m interested in buying one for myself (for using it by myself). Seems like the Helix is the way to go (at least that’s seems to be the one suggested the most – or should I pick another one?) but I’m confused about which version of it I should get. So I’m wondering, what the latest and greatest?

If I’m not completely off then the classic seems to be the oldest one, then the Sin and the “Trident” seems to be the newest iteration. (Feel free to correct me if I’m wrong.) Does this mean though that the Helix Trident is the best of the three? Or doesn’t it really matter? What’s the pros/cons of the three?

Also, I’m… well, lets just say I’m a big guy. But because of that, I’m also not the most flexible person and have my limitations in reach. Will I run into problems when it comes to inserting/removing it myself? I got no issues wiping myself – but that’s different from using such a toy… I guess? Read more »