Well after 2 hours and thinking anal play was overrated I am to the point where I have an entore numbing sensation all throughout my body. No orgasm or twitching or anything earth shattering but Im now in a position where i can thrust and feel my prostates good vibes. I think Im going to enjoy learning this.
Blog Premiere & Session @ New Place
Hey! I want to make a blog, and so I am making one! Before I even knew about this blog function, I kind of blogged about my progress in here:
https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/148944-beginner-looking-for-help-and-the-real-user-guide
If you really want to go back, I’d recommend peeking in that thread. Either way, here is a shortcut introduction:
So I’ve been doing stuff anally for quite some years, and somehow got a little addicted to it even though I never really had any sort of orgasm with it. I found out about the wonder of prostate massage, and so I bought the Helix Syn this past December. I saw a review when I bought that said: “I walk around with this thing in my ass, and I had to stop because I was about to come.” That sounded amazing to me, so I got it.
I tried using the thing and it was underwhelming to say the least. First couple sessions I used it together with traditional, penile masturbation.I also tried putting it inside and going for a walk, of course, which was pointless. I had so much to learn. I never knew about this rewiring process.
I pretty quickly started using the thing the way you’re supposed to: doing belly breathing, laying in a specific way, doing contractions, not touching your penis and what-not. But still, it was quickly very apparent to me that I was really bad at this. Any thread I checked, people had gotten dry or wet orgasms from this thing or other similar euphoric experiences, even though it was their first time trying it. I named this blog “The Incompetent One” because I really felt like I was alone in not getting the sensations everyone else were. All I could achieve was very minor tingling and once I did anal contraptions it all just went away.
Somewhere around 2 months ago, I was able to still get the tingling sensations (or the “second heartbeat” as I like to call it) even though I did really strong contraptions. This is because I got better at building them up slowly.
“A New Mindset, A New Attitude”
I began this “dual” session with a new mindset, a new attitude. Let me explain….
I wanted to do a therapeutic session with the HIH 950. (I am now in Day 6 of SR and wearing my Mueller “chastity cup”). As I started the session, I did something different…I began to “personalize” this session by telling my prostate: “Now don’t be afraid of the 950” and visualized the 950 nuzzling against it. I immediately began to relax, much more so than ever. And, even though I was aroused (but not greatly), I began to feel a gentle “tickle” and eventually a “worm-like” movement of the 950 against my prostate. I had not felt this in a long time. I just continued to relax into the session and began to quiver, letting the 950 take my prostate to where it wanted to go. About 30 relaxing minutes later, this (part of the) session was over!
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I have had some trepidations about using the Helix Trident since my last “intense” session. But guess what? I took the same attitude towards the HT and again I “told” my prostate: “Please don’t be afraid of the HT”! And guess what? I had a nice, relaxing second-part of this session! I was able to relax; the HT continued its gentle massage on my prostate and the combination of P- and K-tabs insured that the HT did not stray too far from its intended “target”: my prostate! This 30-minute session was not intense at all; quite the contrary, the HT produced some soothing sensations that I had not felt before while using it.
First time recommendations?
Back to Aneros
Hi everyone,
I am going to record what happened on my Aneros session on March 25,2018 since this is the first time I have used my ET in several months.
Hopefully by documenting what I do will help me reach the Super 0.
I was really excited about using my ET so I started by giving my self a water enema, which I like to do. Then I got into a hot bubble bath and soaked for 30 minutes. Next I went to the bedroom and got the ET and lub and layed them on the towel beside the pillow that I put under the small of my back. Next I inject my prelub ( 5ml of KY liquid ) into my anus and stayed on all 4s for a couple of minutes so the liquid will coat my prostate. Next I turn on Youtube and find “Button Pushing Prostate Training” video/audio and climb on the bed. Putting the pillow in the small of my back I lay back relax, put lub jelly on the ET and slowoly insert it, feels good.
I listen to the “Button Pushing”, relax, start breathing and start playing with my nipples. Playing with my nipples always sends shivers down to my penis. After a while I start conducting anal contractions. At this point my legs are bent and my feel on flat on the bed. Suddenly my legs start shaking as I conduct the anal contractions. I try to play with the contractions and the shaking gets more severe. For some reason I feel the need to grab my penis and balls and pull them. Next my breathing gets shallower and I am moaning and panting. It does not feel like an orgasm just shacking of my body. This goes on for 2 minutes as I continue extreme anal contractions, note I have not had any precum or leaking. This by far is the best session I have had since I started using the Aneros. I am going to have 3 sessions this week so hopefully the others will be just as good.
First impressions on the MGX Trident
I received my new package at the beginning of the week and it included; MGX Trident, Helix Trident, Marksman Capsules and Sessions Lube. I’ll start of by saying that I think I prefer the helix shape over the MGX, but that being said, the k tab exclusive to the trident series, made it feel more agile and anchored. There was some slight discomfort in the beginning of the session but there were a lot of variables in this session so the discomfort I experienced in the beginning could be any number of things; I started my aneros journey about a month ago with a helix syn, and I usually ride with that model, using a marksman capsule to internally lubricate and I usually put a pre lubed condom on the device before insertion. With this session I did not use a pre lubed condom, plus I used the sessions lube for the first time. So it could be the new material of the device, it could be the new ribbed area on the MGX, it could be the lube, it could be the lack of condom. So I’m not gonna claim that this was a definite no on the MGX Trident, as it did feel very nice after the initial discomfort settled, even picked up some nice feelings dare I say quicker than my helix syn, but not quite as intense as with the helix syn. I think as a control test I’m going to try it with all of those variables before I make my conclusion. I dont think it really hits the “spot” for me though, at least not as much as the helix, so my next ride will likely be with the Helix Trident. I will follow up in a couple days with that endevour.
Beginning Anew – Day 4: Progress
So I’m now on day 4, and I will say that things are progressing well. It’s sort of like re-wiring what’s already been re-wired. I had learned quite a lot over the past 4 years, but there was still that connection to traditional orgasm with my sessions. And while even with my session today there is still that mental connection, I can tell it is becoming more faint. Today I experienced a sequence of deep, sustained pleasure that I have never achieved before. Now I’ve had instances where the “intensity” and “location” of this pleasure has been had, but it would usually subside rather quickly. This today lasted for what had to have been an 8-10 min period of time. Definitely not on the level of a Super-O, but amazing none the less. There were however 3 or 4 (I cannot remember) mini-o’s over this period of time. They only lasted a few seconds each, but instead of ending and then needing to “rebuild” to the level of pleasure that directly preceded it, I was able to maintain that high level of pleasure between mini-o’s.
Utilizing a “chastity cup” is definitely assisting with remaining focused on my prostate during my sessions. And it has also helped during the day with my “wandering hands” issue while at home. Is a “chastity cup” the key to my discoveries so far? I would say it’s less a key, and more along the lines of a training aid. The key for me, like most things in life, is mentality and mental discipline.
My “Therapeutic” Prostate Massage Sessions
My sessions during the last two days have been especially enjoyable for me. Two nights ago, I used the HIH 950 for a “regular” therapeutic massage. I lubed-up with Boy Butter. One thing I noticed about this session was that the 950 was pulled-in very deeply, thus stimulating my prostate as much as it was able. And did it stimulate me! I had a fairly long session, about 45 minutes. Not surprisingly, when I went to clean-up, I discovered a large amount of “wetness” on the inside of the “chastity cup” pouch! This was definitely not precum; it was not sticky. The session felt like a manual prostate massage; I had an almost continual “tickling” sensation and it felt absolutely relaxing and stimulating at the same time.
This morning, I decided on another “therapeutic” session with my Eupho Classic. I pre-lubed with some Boy Butter then lubed the Eupho with Slippery Stuff Gel (a nice combination!) This session lasted about 40 minutes and it was wonderfully relaxing. I am beginning to develop PC muscle control to make the Eupho “dance-around” my prostate and could feel the orgasms as they developed. At the peak, I experienced an almost convulsive-like twitch throughout my entire body. Subtlety is definitely the order of the day with these “therapeutic” prostate massage sessions. They seem to get the job done without being extremely arousing.
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I just used a Lelo toy for the [F]irst time.
So I’m 25yrs old and female. I have been single for a year and a half now and my old toys were, well, getting a little old and boring. So I decided to purchase a [Lelo toy](http://t.wowtrk.com/aff_c?offer_id=9501&aff_id=48839) i read a while ago about other users experiences with them on here, and I could hear you all cheering me on as I purchased it. In the end I bought the Ina wave.
I used it for the first time last night, I was in a bit of a rush, and not really ready to play, but I couldn’t wait any longer. It took a while to get used to the controls and which way around they were, and all the different settings (all ten of them!).
But from the brief encounter I can tell this is going to take a while to figure out how to get the most out of it, but it will DEFINITELY be worth it. The vibrations were intense and not loud, the wave motion was really different but in a good way.
When all things were going (both the inside and clit part vibrating and the wave motion going) it was magical. The wave motion made the clit vibe move up and down exciting my clit to the max.
With the wave motion going, but the vibes on different settings (increasing/decreasing, quick on/off/on/off etc) this was the ultimate tease. My clit got just enough to almost send me over the edge, but then it would stop.
Possible first timer
Never done any prostate massage or anything like that ( I did play around in my bum once though).
Anyway, I am considering getting an aneros or similar device for some solo play.
Sooo, any advice about what particular device would be good for a first timer? What kind of lube would be good to use (water based or silicone based or whatever. Is it even safe? I don’t want to risk any incontinence or something like that in the future.
Any other advice that I didn’t think to ask for is welcome 🙂