Best-Laid Plans / Got to be Flexible

In my first post I said that I would not ejaculate for at least 3 weeks. Ha! That brilliant plan was nixed on Day 9 by blue balls.

I had an intensely pleasurable session last night with even more and stronger p-waves than my Friday session. The pleasure would grow and then subside, over and over. After a couple of hours, I was really tired and starting to doze off, so I removed the Helix Syn and was about to go to bed when I was struck by a dull aching sensation. I know what blue balls feels like even though it has been years since I last experienced it. So, I relubed and reinserted the Helix and proceeded to relieve the symptoms. The orgasm was doubly intense because of 9 days of abstinence and also the relief of the blue balls feeling. The drawback is that my arousal level is now reset. The truth is it had built up to a point where it was starting to annoy me. I was sitting at my desk at work yesterday doing fidgety nervous activities like shaking a leg or tapping a pencil against the desk, which is very unlike me normally. And I attribute this nervous energy to a protracted period of being at a high level of arousal. Read more »

Session 3, New Sensations.

Started off really nice, tried the “do nothing” thing again, and got some really nice p-waves. Although they were more immediate, maybe 2 or three minutes after inserting, and were way more intense than the last time. Also tried holding a contraction for as long as possible, this seemed to do the job for me. Definitely felt a full body wave of pleasure, made me feel like I was just starting to float out of my body, and felt something building in my ass, right at the tip of where i imagine my helix sits, it definitely felt like the beginning of an orgasm… And then my family came home and fucked it. Just my luck. Rode for about an hour after that and never quite got back into the swing of it but i did move to lay on my side, and my helix started rubbing against the side of my rectum and for a second that was this EXPLOSION of pleasure, but it fizzled out. Wanked off. I await the possibility of the same “buzzing” in my prostate that may start up later.

Athletic cup & SR challenge! Session for Tuesday March 13 (day 9), etc.

Hi guys,

I have kept faithfully the athletic/”chastity” cup challenge. I am now in day nine. This morning I had a great Aneros session with MGX, Helix Classic, and Maximus in order while wearing my BIKE CUP supporter unit no. 85. Wearing an athletic cup and accompanying jockstrap magnifies very much the sensations of an Aneros session. A athletic cup supporter unit is also great for post-session in Aless for hours afterwards.

The BIKE CUP no. 85 is a contoured banana cup which came out in 1985/86 has about the same dimensions of the Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon Flex cup which @goldenboy uses as a male “chastity” cup in most of his sessions and even for everyday wear as well as in bed at night. Both cups have thick gaskets or perimeters which add to their comfort and prevent chafing in both sports and everyday wear.

Update at @11:30 a.m. My session concluded five hours ago this morning. Right now, I have very strong Aless. The very low end of BIKE CUP is pointed somewhat. This athletic cup contains my genitals very comfortable where the pointed end covers my perineum. Aless seems to massage my perineum when I am in Aless and certainly when I Kegel. However, this athletic cup seems to be riding me right now, which is totally awesome! Read more »

Athletic cup & SR challenge! Session for Wednesday March 21 (day 17) : Aneros session during a snowstorm!

Hi guys,

I had a fairly long and leisurely session early morning just after sunrise when our snowstorm was beginning. Winter seems to be holding on, but this now event will be the only one of the year. Points northeastern, Philadelphia, New York City, and Boston are getting major snowfalls today. It is our fourth nor’easter of this winter!

Last night I wore my BIKE CUP Supporter unit no. 85 underneath a pair of Munsingwear Kangaroo Pouch boxer briefs and slept blissfully like baby. When I awoke about 6:15 a.m. this morning, I was rearing to go for a session. First I dressed in my winter clothing and got coffee and a brookie from our 7 Eleven. The coffee and rich chocolate brookie added fuel to what became of my best Aneros sessions in many weeks.

I used the following Aneros tools in order: MGX, Helix Classic, Maximus, and Tempo. I have been on my Aneros journey nearly six years now. I have learned since 2014/15 to let my body relax, and also to use Kegels and rhythmic breathing to activate my Aneros models. They in their stead work me over. I cannot say how much wearing an athletic cup, such as BIKE, and a jockstrap magnify the sensations I feel many fold.

At this writing it is 11:30 a.m. and getting close to the noon hour. My apartment building is so now. I am sure not if apartment staff and workmen doing the renovations came to work today. Take care!

A Meditation: “Thin Veils To Male Orgasmic Bliss”

While relaxing this morning and listening to a nice, soothing track on YouTube: “Chill Out Sensual Nights / The Best Of Lounge & Chill Out Music by Johnny M In The Mix”, I began to meditate on how our male sexuality often is “hidden” only behind “thin veils” (real or otherwise) and it started to became very clear to me. Let me explain…..

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In spite of our “macho” appearance and persona, the key to male orgasmic pleasure often is hidden only behind a thin “veil”. Some examples will make this comparison more clear:

 My use of “chastity cups” or “cock cages” relies only on thin pieces of plastic that separates my hands from my male package, thus inhibiting me from masturbation and orgasmic release.

 Using a condom: It is only a thin piece of rubber, but my use of one during sex makes a world of difference. No matter how thin it is, there is always a loss of feeling. Us guys know that there is not supposed to be anything between our erect cocks and ultimate orgasmic pleasure during intercourse.

 When receiving a HJ from my wife: sometimes only the slightest “hint” of an erotic massage on my package can send me into a far-off orgasmic “orbit”.

 When performing an edging or “surfing” session, I want it to take a long time and use only the slightest pressure on my package.. Why? Because the arousal feelings seem to be magnified. Even slight “tapping” of my erect cock sometimes is too much to bear. The orgasmic ejaculation is intense. Read more »

Should I have gotten the syn model?

Just received the helix classic, enjoyed a couple sessions with it, and then later wanted to just sit with it and spend some more time with it my prostate felt too sensitive, that I couldn’t comfortably keep it in.

How much more comfortable is the syn model? are we talking like a significant difference?

“Exploring The Two “Male Chastities”

Bacground: I am awakened in the middle of the night, wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I am currently in Day 9 of semen retention and feeling extremely horny. My cock is throbbing rhythmically and I honestly feel that I am on my way towards a wet dream or an auto-ejaculation. I feel my prostate throbbing with every pulse. Now, normally, I would “decide” on an Aneros session right there, right then. But following a brief respite listening to some nice tracks this morning, I headed back to bed. And it suddenly dawned on me…..

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Aren’t there actually TWO male “chastities”? A strange concept you may ask. Not really. Let me explain…..

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The “first chastity”—-“normal” or “regular” male chastity—- is well-known; I have been practicing it for a while now. I usually wear a “chastity cup” to bed and that prevents me from masturbating and ejaculating. It works very well and is very sexually stimulating. Of course, this is all self-imposed—-I can stop the play and masturbate/ejaculate whenever I want. But it is mind-blowing to continue playing. There are all sorts of pleasures to be had—wet dreams, for one. Spontaneous erections and arousals that rock me to my sexual core. Sometimes it is too much to bear. Read more »

could prostate massage make sex worse?

Im 16 Years old,straight and a virgin. Im interested in trying prostate massage, so i thought about buying a prostate massenger from aneros. I heard about a men who became addicted to the aneros because of the resulting orgasms. He couldnt even masturbate “normally” with his penis because he didnt get any pleasure from it. The thing im concerned about is that the same thing could happen to me. Since im a virgin i never experienced sex and i dont wanna “destroy” my first time, just because prostate massaging can be so pleasurable. Am i just making my mind up or is this a real thing? If so, how to encounter this?

Rising Pleasure

Tenhorn
Hello Aneros Bloggers. I am a divorced middle aged guy who acquired a Helix Syn about 5 weeks ago. I am certainly a newbie but am not completely devoid of previous experience with anal play. Even before I was married I had read that stimulation of the prostate could increase the intensity of a regular penile orgasm and had used a finger on my prostate a few times when I was particularly horny.

After I became separated and then divorced about 10 years ago , with newly acquired freedom ( and privacy) I purchased a little flexible anal vibrator at a sex shop that was about 5 inches long and the diameter of my index finger which I used maybe 5 or 6 times. I threw it out before I picked my daughters up for a visit because I didn’t want them to accidentally find it. I had found my youngest rummaging through drawers looking for a marker and it occurred to me that one of them might come across my little toy and prompt a very embarrassing conversation I didn’t want to have with them. That was several years ago.

I have had the Helix Syn since about Feb 10th and have used it approximately a dozen times. I wanted to share my experiences in hopes of possibly helping other newbies. I read the Aneros Wiki and quite a bit of the writings on the Forum and the blog and have found much of the information to be helpful. I want to thank especially Brian Mayfield, Rumel, Darwin, and Goldenboy, for sharing your experience and knowledge. Read more »

Where to begin?

Here’s the thing, where should one start with a blog? At the beginning would seem the obvious place. But now, 4 months into my Aneros journey I have already discovered and learned of things previously unimaginable to me. So I feel that now might be as good a time as any to give it a go. These 4 months have been a revelation and I can not imagine where things might go from here on in. Most of the things we are experiencing are very difficult to translate into words, so I might not always be able to convey my thoughts as I might hope. I can only try and contribute as best I can.