Crazy Heat Beat

Okay, so this just happened and I would really appreciate some advice. This past session was way different than all my other sessions up to this point. Maybe you guys can help me figure this out. I haven’t ejaculated in 9 days. I’m trying to see if I can make it to 21 days.

I decided to use the Eupho Classic today, because I felt like I was in the right mood for more subtle sensations than I get with the other models. My philosophy for today was to relax my butt muscles completely and let my body take me wherever it wanted. I told myself that as long as I relax, my body will take me where to orgasm all on its own.No need to strain, no need to give in to the aching urge to contract. My body will do whatever’s best. I felt the ebb and flow of pleasure; dry-os would build, take me to the edge of super orgasm and then fade. Build up again and fade. This happened several times. All that time I didn’t give in to contractions and I kept my butt totally relaxed. Throughout I felt extremely powerful p-waves. My whole body was very tingly and warm. It seemed like relaxing my butt helped me to relax my body and mind. Roughly 45 minutes in I began to feel my heart-beat all over my body. It started to beat harder. I swear I could almost hear it. It wasn’t beating particularly fast, but it felt like it was pumping very strongly. My heart rate got stronger and faster and my Eupho started to dance on its own which brought my to the edge of orgasm. Read more »

Can dildo use interfere with rewiring?

I’ve been fantasizing about using dildos lately, but I’m worried it could harm my aneros sessions. I’ve also been fantasizing about depth play. Wondering what you guys think.

Tips for how to best use our new Aneros?

My SO and I have been getting fairly kinky and he started to show interest in toys for his prostate. We looked around online, read reviews, etc. we ordered an Aneros Helix and used it last night.

He said it didn’t make him cum and harder, and it didn’t even feel that different, it just made him cum really fast. Like we got it in, I went down the on him for about a minute and he came. He can normally last an hour or more.

Any tips on how he can slow down the process and get that full-body orgasm we were hoping for? He seemed kind of disappointed.

A-Less After Session

Had a GREAT session this morning with at least six (lost count) dry orgasms. I feel like I’ve finally got my prostate dialed in I can can get to orgasms faster than before. I was reading afterward and could feel my prostate buzzing, so I started flexing as I would if I had my Helix in and almost immediately had another orgasm! Fantastic!!!!

A-Less After Session

Had a GREAT session this morning with at least six (lost count) dry orgasms. I feel like I’ve finally got my prostate dialed in I can can get to orgasms faster than before. I was reading afterward and could feel my prostate buzzing, so I started flexing as I would if I had my Helix in and almost immediately had another orgasm! Fantastic!!!!

Prostate Milking, a neglected process.

In the forum’s general discussion, there seems to be a lot written on the subject of prostate milking. I had been neglecting performing this practice thinking it provoked a refractory period.  I avoid ejaculation as much as possible for the same reasons but today, I decided the time had come to ‘clean the pipes’.
My wife took off to do errands so I took out my NJOY Pure Wand and decided to use it for the first time as a milking tool.  When I bought this device last Summer, I had tried the big knob side to see if I could generate some positive sensations but not much came out of it so it landed in my cupboard.

Today, my sole mission was to milk my prostate so I pulled it out, I lubed up and inserted the smaller knob end and performed a long but  delicate massage on the gland.  The process lasted approximately twenty minutes and generated a fair amount of prostatic fluids.

There is nothing spectacular about what I just wrote but following the milking, I felt great, relieved and full of energy. This great feeling could not go to waist and since my wife was still gone, I sat on the couch and engaged in an Aless. I must say this was one of the best I ever had!

I plan to use this NJOY tool more often

“The Chastity/Arousal Continuum”

I didn’t know what else to call this but let me try to explain it……

Since I sleep in a “chastity cup” almost every night now, I find that when I don’t, it can become very arousing and erotic. For example, I went to bed last night without my cup on and, sure enough, when I awoke (due to a night-time erection) I “caught” myself coddling my balls and stroking my cock. I seem to do this lately without much forethought.

Today, I was curled-up on a sofa watching a movie and (sure enough) I became aroused when again I started caressing my firm balls and shaft through my trousers. Almost like an automatic response. What is going on here?

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I started to think about it and it now it seems to me to make perfect sense. There is a connection, a link if you will, between male chastity and arousal; for want of a better term I’ll label it the “chastity/arousal continuum”. What do I mean by this?

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Let me look at the definitions of chastity and arousal; hence:

CHASTITY
The condition or quality of being chaste, especially the condition of not having had sexual intercourse or of abstaining from sexual relations.

SEXUAL AROUSAL
In sexual arousal the nerve impulse release sex hormones and dilate arteries in the genital areas.

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anyone having erection quality issues after using this?

I am having some erection problems which timing wise started around the same time of my use of the aneros. I am not blaming anyone/anything just trying to figure out what is happening. I used it and had two HFWO. I have had a hard time getting and staying hard. It may be unrelated but I wanted to see, trying to figure out what may be happening. Thanks

Near-Perfect Erotic Prostate “Finger Massage”

OMG! What a session! Here are the details…..

Background: I am only in Day 2 of SR and didn’t really expect anything from a session. I didn’t wear a “cup” to bed but awoke about 2 AM with an erection and found myself fondling my package. So I needed to get-into a “cup” ASAP! I selected my XO ProCup, put it on and went back to bed. Couldn’t sleep so after about 45 minutes or so, I decided to go to my comfortable couch and listen to some relaxing tracks (no binaural beats). I did so for about an hour and decided to go back to bed. I wasn’t feeling especially aroused but wanted to do a relaxing “do-nothing” session with the HIH 950 (my smallest massager). I could not possibly have predicted what would happen next…..

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Most intense session to date but not sure where to go now?

So I’ve been trying for 3 years very sporadically (less than once a month) but have really started making time a few times a week for sessions of increasing length and pleasure. Last night I had my best session. After at least an hour and a half my progasm felt almost like a vibrator and the involuntary contractions were insane and I began tensing up really hard. Then the progasm kind of “fell into place” and started hitting this spot that felt amazing but also almost painfully intense, something I’ve felt only once or twice before. The last time this happened I kind of shied away because it was so intense but this time I tried relaxing and letting it just do it’s thing and it went on feeling amazing but almost uncomfortably too intense for a while until it started to fade and I started getting a leg cramp because I was tensing my legs so hard. Anyways I’m wondering what to do next? I remember my first penile orgasm as a kid being almost similarly pleasurable but also almost painful because it was so intense and overwhelming? I had good results just relaxing so I’m hoping that’s the key.

Also anyone know how to deal with cramping / getting too tense? I’ve had all my best results on my slide and longer sessions this can become a problem. When I try to relax the tensing I’ve noticed I lose a lot of feeling and kind of have to start from square one