Don’t Get Discouraged

It is easy to get discouraged. Initially, I tried to make the Aneros products work. Proactive breathing and the like weren’t particularly effective. Soon anal entry was no problem. The sphincter muscles and G-spot were sort of in training mode, but it all didn’t seem worth the bother. That’s changed!

After a few years away, I am using a Progasm and the softer deVice. Following insertion and laying down, it takes less than 15 seconds for my feet to begin twitching spontaneously. Within another minute, my legs are moving. Soon I can feel either device making delicate movements and feel P-tab contact. Within a few minutes, my abdomen is thrusting. All of this driven by the sphincters.

I often add a music component, but that is unnecessary. I like to close my eyes and allow my mind to see whatever visions arise. Unlike some, I do not get hard or much beyond a very slight fluid release. I occasionally vocalize, but that is not always involved. The spontaneous full-body experience is well worth waiting for the sphincter muscles to learn the optimal pathway.

Anniversary synopsis

On January 18 (today), it has been exactly two years since I first inserted my Aneros Helix Syn. At the time, my back door experience was limited to a few weeks of finger exploring with minimal results. I had been reading the Aneros forum for some time and so I knew there was a chance I was going to discover a new world of pleasures and possibly improve my health in the process.

At 61 years of age, my sex life was abysmal, enduring a very low libido and hardly able to have an erection. On occasions, I felt pressure in my lower abdomen and irritating sensations while urinating: possibly a touch of BPH or prostatitis as so many males experience at that stage of life. Porn was plentiful but had become ineffective and boring. I was also getting up countless times to urinate at night (3 sometimes 4).

I was feeling my age, I had become an old man with a lazy prostate and almost on the edge of depression.

I cannot remember exactly how I came across the topic of Aneros but somehow my curiosity and interest in seeking more info on prostate health must have lead me here. As mentioned above, I started exploring the dark hole with my index and found the intrusion interesting. The more I read the Aneros forum, the more intrigued I became. I simply had to get one! Read more »

Aneros “Chastity”

I will be out of town tomorrow and have been “preparing” for the trip by abstaining from Aneros sessions for a few days. I will be outdoors and don’t need any ‘surprises’ from my lube! Let me tell you….it isn’t as easy as it sounds. Let me explain further…..

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I began having a nice, fairly strong “Aless” feeling yesterday when I did some light kegels. I know my body (and my prostate) would like to have a session. But I have to abstain until at least tomorrow night when I return. You would think that the wait is no big deal. But, unlike “male chastity” (the no ejaculation drill) which I practice all the time, Aneros “chastity” involves no stimulation of the prostate (which, in turn, stimulates the penis). So my whole sexual “system” is being revved-up by the absense. My prostate is looking for some action! Even though I will only be in Day 4 of SR, it doesn’t matter too much. What I am feeling now is a great deal of “prostate horniness” which I usually relieve through an Aneros session. But I can’t! Bummer!

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Out-take: When combined with male chastity, abstinence from Aneros implies a total withdrawal or ‘retreat’ from sex which for a male is enough to drive him up-a-wall! Yes, I feel that way now too! Have mercy!

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Progasm Modification

Does anyone know if it’s possible to make the head of my Aneros Progasm curve more so that it provides a firmer push against my prostate? I’m thinking of heating it with a cooking torch and trying to bent it forwards. I figured I’d ask before I attempt it and possibly end up destroying the toy. Thanks in advance!

just got my Helix, well, it works :) HFWO

After a long embarrassing delay with 2 amazon sellers. I had one of the Lovehoney vibrating ones before and it was too big, this fits very nicely and I am not completely immobilized while wearing it. I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to take it in but it went right in and felt good.

After about a half hour of wearing it, I did some contraction work, tried the cyclic rotation through anal and PC and I think I almost have it, but nothing was really happening. It was a nice warm full feeling, and I did like how the toy felt like it had a mind of its own and it was taking me on vs. me having to manipulate it.

I tried the contractions and put just a small amount of pressure on the handle pushing away from my body so that when contractions stopped it moved out more. That seemed to feel really good. After about 5-10 minutes of that I could feel a warmth and giddy feeling building. This itself was excellent, I look forward to feeling this more. Then, while contracting hard a wave came over me. I will say it was strong. I had tears in my eyes and I was laughing like a nut through it. It didn’t last very long, I think I got scared but I had a wet O experience. It was definitely stronger than my normal penis centric orgasms. Read more »

My Recent “Blue-Balls” Experience & The Shower Solution

Why write about this? I know (and you probably do too) that the “common wisdom” solution for “blue-balls” is just to masturbate and ejaculate. I do it all the time. But I want to relate a recent experience I had….A little humorous, perhaps, but not at the time…..

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I had only been in semen retention (SR) about 5 days. I had been doing regular (daily) Aneros sessions since I started this run. Around Day 5, however, I began to develop the usual “blue-balls” ache deep in my groin. I have felt it many times before, but usually by Day 10 or so. Since I was only in Day 5, I really felt no need to ejaculate. But this time, it felt different. I thought I had a problem with my prostate, or my bladder or my colon. I noticed too that my balls were starting to ache (especially my left one). Definitely not a good sign.

I swim almost every day and wear a jockstrap to keep my package in check through my suit. Before I started, I more or less decided that when I returned home, I was going to masturbate, ejaculate and “solve” this current bout of “blue-balls”. No big deal! But, hold-on, that is not the way it happened! Let me explain…..

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A Rather Unusual “Waking” Fantasy

[Readers take note: This erotic fantasy is quite graphic; discretion advised]

I wanted to share this “fantasy” I experienced a couple of nights ago. It is not related to an Aneros session but nevertheless it is quite erotic. It just came “out of nowhere” but felt so “real”. Here goes….

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I am alone in a room, lying down in bed. I think I am naked. I believe there is a naked woman lying in bed with me. But nothing else. An interesting scene! Anyway, I am being encouraged to “relieve” my horniness with her. I am practicing semen retention and each day that goes by without an ejaculation just increases my horniness. This fantasy encompassed all forms of ED: premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, anejaculation. It didn’t matter if I had one or more of these ED types. Or none of them. I will succeed with this.

I am encouraged to let nature take its own course. The room is dark and I really can’t see a thing. But I can feel everything. And here’s the rub: there are no towels, no tissues, nothing else in the room or in bed besides me and her! That implies that to relieve my horniness I need to discharge my semen completely into her and nowhere else! I have nothing with which to clean myself up! (If I completely discharge there will be very little to clean-up.) If I masturbate, I will make a mess! Read more »

How do you use the njoy pure wand without getting tired?

Sorry this isn’t technically an aneros question, but hopefully I can get some advice here.

I’ve been getting so close to a prostate orgasm. I can feel it, teetering right on the verge but never quite getting there.

My tool of choice has been the njoy pure wand and the problem I’ve been running into is that I need a lot of upward pressure. So I have to use two hands. One to hold in in place, and the other as a fulcrum point to lever it up into my prostate. Fantastic results, but I can’t hold that position for more than a couple minutes. I’ve tried flipping it over so that it’s pushing from behind (the curve of the wand following my butt). I’ve heard people have had good results from that. I get the intense pressure, but not the pinpoint accuracy that I get the other way.

Anyone have any tips on how best to use this piece without having your arms, and hands get all worn out?

Tempo, my spark plug to great sessions : MLK day session, Monday January 15

Hi guys.

We here in Washington, DC are enduring another stretch of bitterly cold weather. This morning we had a low of 18 F with strong winds from the north. It was bitterly cold. Fortunately there were no apartment staff around on this federal holiday paying homage to Martin King Luther Jr. I waited to the noon hour to have a session which I so craved.

I began the session once again with Tempo. Using gentle, yet strong Kegels and also the Aneros Tug-of-War Technique with Tempo for probably twenty minutes, I proceeded to use Eupho Classic, MGX, Progasm Classic, one-by-one in tandem. Tempo has become a spark plug for providing impetus for great sessions. The heft of its stainless steel design magnifies and amplifies the power of my sessions. I do very little,
but actually I sit back and let the models work on me. Gentle rhythmic breathing adds fuel to my sessions. I have sweet, powerful Aless which lasts for the rest of the day and beyond!

This past Friday, we had rainy, but also springlike weather temperatures in the 50’s, 60’s, and even the 70’s. I just loved how both Helix Classic and Maximus, along with progasm classic. I let Helix Classic just its job on me. He went on and on. I could have let him go freely so much I would have gotten a Super-O! Read more »

Returning with My Story

Having achieved the ability to have prostate orgasms on demand, I felt I should to return to the Aneros world to continue to support my fellow Anerosians!

In my mind, I feel like I never left! In reality I’ve been away from here for at least three years!

I sought out the wisest and most agressive knowledge seekers in the Aneros world when I started! I aggressively pursued the idea that I could re-learn how to achieve an orgasm using only my mind and the Aneros, because of the number of others who had told their stories of how amazing their journey had become!

I far and away exceeded any expectations I could have imagined as I progressed through the milestones outlined in the wiki pages.

I became more than just a man! I became a living, breathing, walking prostate master!

More to come…