“A New Cup, A New Technique”

“A New Cup”
I bought a new chastity cup and just tried it out: a Bike adult baseball jockstrap with a traditional Bike cup. At first, I thought it was a little too tight and restrictive, but after a while, it is a good feeling. This jockstrap cannot be worn without the cup……it is just too small and restrictive otherwise. But when paired with the cup, the sensation is wild! I have not slept in it yet for chastity, but feel that it is only a matter of time to get it into the “rotation”. BTW, this came in a 2-pack: two jocks and one cup. I ordered adult large size (I am a 36 waist).

PS I am into day 9 of SR and getting really horny. I need to stay in chastity as long as possible. Otherwise, I find myself playing with my package too much and may regret the stimulation! Oh, how I crave an edging session! But I’m not ready to cum yet; I don’t have any blue-balls feeling.

PS I have three cups now and each one has its own unique “signature” feeling. The jockstraps (I have four) also have their own characteristics. Usually, I pair them up as originally bought. But sometimes, I mix them up for a “different” sensation.

“A New Technique”
During this morning’s session, I “discovered” a new Aneros session technique. I’ll call it “Ignore-It!” and here is how it works…. Read more »

Overview of My First Progasm Experience: Meh

My first experience with prostate play was a bit of a letdown but finished with some pleasure.

To start, I showered, cleaned out my rectum (which was a bit involved, not sure I will bother next time), another light shower, and then found some nice audio porn. I lubed up the Aneros Progasm and laid on my side, pulling one leg up and keeping one straight as I inserted it. The Progasm went in fairly easily and comfortably. I found the perineum stimulating ball a bit distracting at first.

I laid on my back, breathed slowly and deeply and listened to some nice audio porn. I have to say, I wasn’t feeling anything. I tried a series of different positions: laying on my stomach, sitting up, doggie style, on my side, on my back – the sensations were all the same – lame. The whole while I was trying positions I did some flexing of my PC muscle, played with my perineum a bit, and was able to get my anal muscles to do some rapid movements (volunatrily), but no intense pleasureful feelings.

I started to wonder if I had inserted the Progasm upside down, thinking that that maybe it wasn’t rubbing against my prostate. I pretty easily turned the Progasm around while inside me and it felt better, somewhat pleasurable, but it was a fleeting feeling. I then tried rocking it around a little by thrusting my hips and then tugging slightly on it with my hand – still didn’t feel much. Read more »

The motel Super O

Checked into a motel this past weekend to stay the night after a business meeting. The motel was very nice and had two rows of rooms separated by an interior hall. The front row of rooms faced the parking lot however the back row faced a grass covered hill. The motel had two floors and at the top of the hill was another hotel whose rooms looked down directly onto our rooms. I was in an end room that had a huge window at the back of the room so the stage was set for a very erotic adventure.
After spending the evening at the spa, the one I have written about before, in the hot tub and steam room I returned to the motel. I like to keep my private area shaved so I hopped in the shower and proceeded to touch up by shaving my cock, balls and stomach area. After showering I poured a glass of wine to help relax me and took a viagra
pill just to insure I would have a rock hard erection for the nights aneros session. While I was in the bathroom I gave myself several enemas to really clean me out so that my aneros toy could easily do its thing once inserted.
I signed onto a porn site and for the next 2 hours watched and listened to some really good porn which really turned me on. The viagra had started working after about 30 minutes so by now I had a very strong erection and was oozing precum even without my aneros toy inserted. It was about 1 am now and I was ready and anxious to enter aneros heaven, orgasm and shoot my load. I set up a soft cushioned chair in front of the window with its back leaning up against the bed.
I take testosterone shots and the one I had had two days ago had made me really horny so I was so ready to go. I went into the restroom and mixed up my lube. I used a water based lube, warming liquid and toothache drops to help ease the pain of inserting my aneros progasm which is large for my small anus. The warming liquid gives a great warming feeling inside my rectum. I used a bulb syringe and filled up my rectum with a good amount of lube. I then lubed up my toy and inserted it slowly until my anus quivered and sucked it in. It was a great feeling being filled up by my toy.
I wrapped a sheet around me for effect, turned off all the lights and walked across the room to the chair. But before I sat down and started, I opened up the curtain exposing the entire dark room to public scrutiny!
I sat down in the chair in front of the uncurtained window, put on my headphones, turned on my player and began listening to a fantastic narrated aneros journey by a very sexy lady Rummela!
The wine, the smoke, the viagra, her sexy almost mystical voice and my aneros all added to the fantastic orgasm I was about to have. I slowly allowed the draped sheet to fall from my body and to the floor exposing my very nude hairless body and a very hard erect cock. As I listened to Rummela and followed her sexy voice encouraging me to squeeze my buttocks and hold it until I was told to release the squeeze I began to slip into blissed ecstasy. I was encouraged to hold the squeeze longer and longer each time. Each time my progasm hit my prostate and forced it to ooze out more precum until it began to almost continually flow.
By now I was experiencing one mini orgasm after the next each time shaking uncontrollably until I was told to release. By now it was getting harder and harder with each squeeze and release to stop and avoid orgasm. I was so aroused I felt as I was going to just lose it any minute.
Finally Rumella said that this would be the final squeeze and I knew I was on my way to ecstasy. I squeezed and held it and then started to shake uncontrollably as my progasm hit my prostate with a vengeance. I couldn’t release the squeeze as I felt paralyzed to do so because of the intense pleasure I was experiencing. Then it happened, a wave of indescribable pleasure came upon me and as I slipped into what seemed unconsciousness, still shaking, I let out a huge, loud moan and orgasmed ejaculating my load violently. It took me about 30 minutes to finally calm down.
Later on as I cleaned up I realized the extent of my orgasm when I went to close the curtain and saw my cum splattered on the window! It was by far the most cum I have ever shot and probably the furthest distance I ever shot!
I know now that I definitely achieved a Super O!

My advice to newbies (xposted from r/sextoys)

Having a prostate experience is something that comes easily to very few people. It takes consistent training and focus to make work. It’s spoken of it as a sort of “rewiring.” It’s letting your body acclimate to a foreign sensation and eventually learn to bring great pleasure from it, and it takes time and effort, often great deals of both. I would start by having regular sessions with your toy of choice (I was always interested in the revo, but it’s too expensive for my tastes). I would also say that at least until you get accustomed to what sensations from your prostate feel like, to keep the power off. Adding vibration and rotation may add to the sensation later, but finding them in the first place is like learning the notes on a musical octave, it’s a lot easier to pick each note out when they’re played alone rather than with the accompaniment of an orchestra. Read more »

Questions on arousal and how to think during a session

So I’ve got a few questions about arousal and thought process during a session. I know the aneros does really do anything by itself, and you need to be around using it. I’m trying to determine what arousal really means. For example I can feel horny or think something is hot, but I don’t think that really elicits a physical response. If there’s porn on, it doesn’t really do anything except give me the urge to touch myself. If I’m touching myself I get a physical arousal response of an erection. The same if I’m trying to have a fantasy in my mind, it doesn’t really do much. However if I’m touching myself and fantasizing, I get a physical response and I can “engage” more with the fantasy. Should I be causing physical arousal response aka an erection before inserting? After inserting? How does arousal play into the use of aneros?

Following up on starting arousal, how should I be thinking of maintaining it throughout the session. Should I be fantasizing, listen to erotic audio with a story, try to keep my mind blank? I think some of the larger issue is I put the aneros in and have a now what response. It doesn’t feel wildly good just sitting there, practicing contraction is kind of meh, trying to just relax and feel things practically puts me to sleep. I’d like some thoughts on how to think/what to think during a session. I know everyone is different and there’s no right way, but currently using the aneros is about an hour of trying various things and then finishing myself off with my hand.

“What Happens When I Attempt To Stop Male Chastity?”

I have attempted this several times recently. In a nutshell, if I don’t sleep wearing a “chastity cup” I invariably wake-up with an erection and find myself touching and coddling my “package”. I can’t seem to stop it. I have even gone so far as to perform an edging session (yes–3 days in a row), sometimes with an ejaculation but mostly without. One recent edging session was with lube (something generally new to me) and it was mind-blowing. I almost felt like I had PE. The male urge for release is very strong, particularly when practicing semen retention. I find myself often within that 7-day peak testosterone period and that means that I can get greatly aroused at any time. So it is important for me to remain in chastity. I don’t rely on my CB-6000S recently; I’m taking a little break from chastity during the day.

The other thing that happens is that with a strong ejaculation, I will feel the after-effects of the “refractory period” which is almost the opposite of sexual arousal. It is a generally “down” period sexually where I have practically no interest in sex. But if I continue SR aiming for 10-12 days, I may suffer the effects of “blue-balls”. Bummer!

I am still swimming and find that I am wearing a swimmer’s jock almost all the time now. Even with a relatively tight suit, I find that the additional support it offers and the way it feels agrees with me. It is also arousing and that doesn’t hurt! So I’ll keep it up. Read more »

This shouldn’t feel so good…

I’ve always been curious about back door play, though never in a homosexual way. I’m not sure how I accidentally discovered the back door but I liked it. I had an ex gf who would be willing to run around it, even went for the prostate a time or two. Felt soooo good.

My wife has no interest now, and has no idea about my toy. Every time I bring it up she says she wouldn’t be comfortable with that play.

The first time I tried this I was kind of disappointed. I enjoyed the full feeling but never felt like it hit the prostate just right. Today during a session I rolled over on my side. Oh wow.

So here’s the thing, I’ve tried contractions, and hip movements but ultimately the best thing I’ve found is to reach behind my back, grab the finger ring and give it some flicks, forcing the toy to rock in that come hither motion.

Oh wow… as soon as the nub passes over my prostate. I get all flush and hot. I get a urinating type sensation at the tip of my cock and I watch clear precum leak out. The longer I keep going the the more intense the sensation but my body never relaxes and releases. Today I had two towels around my waist and told myself, no matter what don’t try and stop in fear of pissing on the towels… still, nothing but an incredible build up and then plateau. Read more »

Big/ Tall guy recommendations?

So I have experimented with anal play with fingers for awhile. Would find that perfect angle/pressure, and would get crazy orgasms. I bought a Helix Syn thinking it would be easier then getting contorted to get my finger into position, but…. meh? It feels ok but…meh. Orgasms are definite quicker and stronger with the Syn, but noting like when I hit the REAL spot with my finger. I am wondering if I should get one of the bigger ones. Are they ‘deeper’ or just more girth? I am 6’6″ so I am bigger guy wondering if I need more to get the full effect.

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all movement no feeling?

so I just got the aneros ice prograsm and I’m not sure how I feel about it. I’ve only had it for 2 days. I know I’m still very new to the path to a super-o, but my experience is kind of weird

I’ve watched videos of people having a super-o and stuff. my hips and body movements are similar. I’m having the involuntary hip stirring and shaking. all that fun stuff. except… i dont FEEL anything. I do feel relaxed and warm, and obviously my body is responding but I’m not feeling anything. during my last session I did get a liiiiiittle something… I think??? but mostly I don’t feel much

seems like I’m on the right path but other than warm/tingling how is this supposed to feel? this is nothing like an orgasm. I kinda like doing it but I’m getting no sexual pleasure out of it.

thoughts?

The hyperventilation technique

Just… hyperventilate.

That’s it. With the massager in your butt. Maybe wait a bit after inserting it to start hyperventilate.

Start breathing like a woman in labour (sorry ladies but can’t find another to describe it). For a long time. Keep going and keep going. Focus on your breathing. Quick and fast. Keep going. Keep going. Then when you start feeling sweet things happening, keep going. And if you start to moan/scream a bit, do it. But keep going.

Soon the breathing becomes moaning that also becomes screaming then you have no idea what’s happening and just ride the waves.