Important question

I’ve been using the program and syn consistently for 6 months while I’ve been single. I recently got a girlfriend and have had problems maintaining an erection. In past relationships before I used the massagers I never had this problem. Is this a direct correlation or might it be something else?

“Male Chastity: Is A Wet Dream Coming?”

I knew something was coming. Last night, before bedtime, and out of nowhere, I started getting fairly extreme Aless. I didn’t even plan it. Why? For some reason, my prostate started to spasm and it felt good. Now fast-forward to this morning……I am in bed in my chastity cup and like usual, I have a strong erection and am squirming around, mostly on my stomach. I feel every twitch from the head of my cock. Anyway, I am only in Day 4 of SR but I swear it feels like Day 40! As I continue squirming, I distinctly feel like I am going to ejaculate. Then, it happened! I felt like I was peeing! I couldn’t stop it. Now I had just gone to the bathroom not long ago, so it couldn’t have been pee? But something was coming out! When I got out of bed about 15 minutes later, I removed the cup and was surprised to see that my cock’s head was covered in something clear! I touched it and it was clear but only partially sticky! OMG! What was this? The start of a wet dream? (or more technically an auto-ejaculation?) Or was it a wet orgasm (without ejaculation)? Now as a side note, I have been having regular lucid dreams but they are of a non-sexual nature. Perhaps if I continue on this pathway and think about something sexy before falling asleep, I may be able to trigger that involuntary wet dream! I can’t wait! Read more »

Let me give you a short look at my last Aless day.

Waking up I was all horny and some involuntaries started. After my morning wash I did my Qi Gong exercises, naked in front of the open window, with a cool breeze on my skin.

Then I lay down again with a safety towel folded around my half erect member. Giving in to Aless I had some wonderful dryOs along with p-waves and involuntaries as well as heckling interrupted by little shrieks of pleasure. Finally wild spasms began, throwing myself around, climaxing in a wonderful superO.

Afterwards I managed to rub out five big drops of clear precum and another two little drops after each of three times of edging up to PONR. It felt quite like ejaculating the precum.

Driving by car I pictured someones words about “caressing my ballsack for about at least three minutes”. I didn’t touch it but nevertheless I felt the fingers, only visualizing them! DryOs, p-waves, involuntaries lifting my ass from the car seat, heckling and shrieks of pleasure again. This time I shouted out at maximum level. Who cares on the highway? Diamond hard I sometimes thought a handsfree ejaculation could just happen.

At the office I answered a private message about sexual fantasies while I tried to keep my chairgasms as quiet as possible. Driving home I could let go again on the highway with same experiences as above. Read more »

“Male Chastity: Locked and Cocked”

Having gone “in-and-out” of male chastity lately, and after a 19-day run of semen retention (SR), I was amazed how quickly and easily I went-off. It was actually too easy! And that got me thinking: is male chastity really the “cure” for erectile dysfunction? Now I have had delayed ejaculation (DE) for quite a while. But since I have been in chastity, I now seem to have more sexual confidence to be able to perform “whenever, wherever”. It is as if my locked-up cock is truly “cocked” and ready to go-off at a moment’s notice. In fact, my wife is complaining that I am too sexed-up and horny (like a lot of young guys). What is wrong with that? That is why, it seems, when I am locked-up in chastity, I just have this incredible “male energy” or more specifically, a male “sexual potency” that is undeniable. It is a blessing to have this amazing feeling at my age (soon to be 66)! And I will maintain this feeling as long as I am able!

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Using the aneros to train yourself for multiple male orgasms

So, I’ve had success recently with the Aneros. I get some pretty amazing feelings. I’m not certain that what I’m feeling is a super O. In some ways it doesn’t matter because it feels great, but in other ways it dosen’t necessarily feel better than a traditional orgasm, so it makes me second guess myself.

Anyway, what I’ve noticed, is that at the end of an aneros session and I try to a traditional O I get what the aneros forums call a super-T (regular orgasm but much more powerful than usual). It’s different because I feel the orgasm for a good 5 seconds before the ejaculation. That’s never happened before. Usually the ejaculation and the orgasm occur simultaneously. And the orgasm I feel for 5 seconds before the ejaculation is AMAZING. I keep thinking, if I could separate these further, or prolong this orgasm feeling that would be a literally world changing.

Has anyone else experienced this? Has anyone else been able to separate the orgasm from the ejaculation further and further until you are able to have that orgasm without the ejaculation?

I realized thats sort of what the aneros is supposed to do for you, but I’ve found my aneros orgasms feel very different (and much less powerful) than the 5 second orgasm I feel before ejaculation.

Would love to hear if anyone else has experienced this.

Tips for relaxation?

I’ve been struggling to relax during my sessions for the past month or so. What do you guys do to relax?

Which one?

I’ve read all the threads I can find about which is the best model and the best one seems to be the progasm, but I understand everyone is different. I’m not super inexperienced, I have the nexus g-play large which I’ve used a bit.

I’m not willing to purchase two of these things at the moment so I want the best model I can get. Even if the progasm is too big, is it something you can learn to use? I’d rather not go with the jr if the original is ultimately better once you’re used to it.

“No Exceptions, No Release: An Intense Male Chastity Fantasy”

Wow! This fantasy started-out in a most mundane way. It was about 2:30 AM and I am in Day 18 of SR. I thought I should do a milking. So I proceeded with a 45-minute session. But it wasn’t all that arousing. Perhaps I am milking too frequently? But these milking sessions do help me avoid blue-balls. Anyway, when this session was over, I got an immediate sense to return to my male chastity cup…NO EXCEPTIONS! I proceeded and then went to lie-down and select an appropriate musical track.

What came next was completely unexpected and yes, somewhat scary. Little did I know then that this fantasy has already begun. Let me explain…..

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I selected a track on YouTube which seemed appropriate: “2 Hours The Hottes Erotic Vocal Lounge – SPICY LOVE Relaxing Romantic Sensual Music” and it was without doubt the most fitting track for a fantasy ever! In a nutshell, I am transported to another place, another time. I believe that English is not even the language spoken. I am still in chastity but this time, there is a big difference: there will be NO RELEASE for me! That means that I am in male chastity 100% of the time, forever. I will never be allowed to cum again! This feeling was very pervasive and was very real. It completely caught me by surprise; I never expected it. But as I continued to listen, I feel a sense of inevitability that this was the ultimate male chastity fantasy and I am now a part of it. Read more »

Worried that constant “buzzing” is noticeable to other people seated beside me when at class.

Hi all, I used the aneros on and off for about a year and had some pretty great results. But when the “butt buzz” starts up (especially when seated for hours at a time), I can’t make it stop, even if I want to – I’m worried that people sitting next to me will feel the vibration. Can people next to you notice the “butt buzz”? What about if you are in a house – can people in other rooms feel the vibration?

Thanks