Let me preface by first saying this is by no means meant to discriminate or make anyone feel bad.
It’s just I’m a younger guy (20), and the vast majority of guys in videos or who write about their experiences seem to be a generation above me.
I mean, logically this makes sense as you’ve had more time to figure out your bodies and everything, but I always feel a little weird directly messaging.
So my question is are there any younger guys, like later teens/twenties with any experiences or up for chatting?
Again, I really hope I’m not being insulting, I just want to talk to someone I might be able to relate with a bit more, especially with how they deal with school and work and finding time for experimenting.
Thanks a bunch, friends!
where to begin
so I have experimented off and on as well as included my girlfriend but lately find myself doing more on my own. I have been interested and curious in an Aneros product but am unsure which to get and where to start. I was very interested in the tempo but after finding this sub I am curious about the helix. Any advice or suggestions?
“Male Chastity: Prostate And Anal Play”
I had been relaxing in the early AM wearing my “pseudo chastity cup” (my Shock Doctor Pro Ultra Carbon Cup) when it dawned on me: just because I am unable to touch or play with my cock doesn’t mean that I can’t play with my anus and my prostate. So, thanks to the observations of @Fred27 and @Orgasmic19 in some recent Forum posts, I reached down-below and began doing an external prostate massage by massaging my perineum close to the cup. And something amazing happened! I began to get hard almost immediately and felt my prostate swelling. When it did, it seemed to provide some “feedback” through the narrow portion of the cup near that area. Thus began a feedback-loop (similar to Aneros) where I felt an intensity of prostate pleasure building up. I just laid there and began thrusting into the sofa with each pulse of my erect cock.
A little while later, I did a similar probing around and slightly into my anus (through clothing of course) and I could feel another intense wave of pleasure from my prostate. I kept this up for a while and then it dawned on me…….
Guys like me that are in male chastity aren’t really deprived of sexual arousal. Yes, we can’t have normal erections but as far as the prostate goes, all of us chaste guys have one and it is capable of providing intense pleasure if we know how to stimulate it. I learned that this morning. Another “fringe benefit” of chastity and penile abstinence is that I can be more focused and listen for the “whispers” coming from my prostate. They are definitely there! Sometimes the whispers are so soft, they can be overlooked. But if I stay focused and listen, I can “hear” them!
Reaching a Super O with ADD/ADHD
Hello there guys I have a question for you.
As the title suggest I was wondering if there is anyone out there who has experienced a Super O before with ADD/ADHD.
I myself have ADD and I know it is extremely difficult for me to completely release my mind of any other thoughts while trying to relax. As I read before relaxation is one of the most important parts of reaching a Super O. What some people with ADD/ADHD have though is a hyper focus mode, where they can focus on one specific thing if they are really into it. I think I am able to do that during regular masturbation. I am considering buying a prostate massager and I would like to reach a Super O with it. Maybe this is a silly question but before I would buy one I was just curious if anyone has any experience with trying to reach a Super O with the complications of ADD/ADHD.
I came so hard that I cried
I had my first super-o last night. It turns out that I have been confusing p-waves for super-os. I’ve abstained from ejaculation for the past week and I’ve had 3 sessions. Last night I got home from a great workout and that’s when my pre-workout decided to kick in for some reason. I think it’s because I had a big meal before I drank it. It has a lot of caffeine and the buzzing I felt in my head seemed to help along the p-waves which seemed to last most of the session. This was my first time using the regular Helix. I have the Syn, but it doesn’t work as well as hard plastic.
During some strong p-waves I suddenly began to super-o and I have to say it was the most incredible thing I’ve ever felt! I’m not sure if it lasted 30 seconds or 3 minutes but it seemed to go on for awhile. I would say it felt as strong or stronger than a penile orgasm but I could feel it all over my body. Part way through I started to cry and it seemed like each sob made the pleasure stronger. I was blissing out hard.
I had some other interesting new experiences last session. Normally my p-waves are preceded by getting a tingling sensation in my groin area that makes me rock hard. This time, however, the p-waves started out low-key and got better and better. I also did not leak nearly as much precum as I normally do. I wasn’t hard nearly as much either. Another thing was that I felt a new kind of p-wave that feels like shivers. I could trigger them by touching my skin gently.
waking the sleeping giant
With out getting into much detail, due to a family medical issue i had to relocate for a couple of months and did not and could not use my aneros. It has been over 3 months since my last session. since i got back there is always someone home at my house at all times and I have no privacy or time to have a session. I could not take it any longer today. There was someone in the house but i went up to get a shower and get dressed. The aneros was calling me from the closet where they have been put away for the last three months. i grabbed my coconut oil, my gel lube and my ps-new and closed the bathroom door. i lubed up my ass and the toy like there was no tomorrow i was not worrying about staining the sheets or making a mess on a towel. i put one foot up on the counter and reached around and inserted the toy. It felt amazing going in and almost like one of the first times. i stood in front of the mirror and had a little trouble keeping it in at first, gravity and excess lube wanted it to slip out. I never really tried it standing up before. I pushed it back in and gave a good contraction to set it in place. Then the body took over and new what to do. It slowly pulled itself in and relaxed in place. wow it felt good so there i was naked in front of the mirror aneros in place now what? I started some nipple stimulation and things started heating up. I could really feel the p tab applying pressure standing up and the aneros felt larger than normal and like it was in farther than normal. I tied to relax and breath slowly i could feel it slightly move in and out with my breathing. Then the warm full feelings started in my prostate area as i looked at myself in the mirror and played with my nipples. I felt like Iwas going to start getting a erection but i did not. Standing up was a little bit of a distraction but things where moving in the right direction. I tried to relax more and let go but knowing someone was just in the other room and standing up i could tell I was going to have to end the session. lube was running down my legs, i would grab some and use it on my nipples, I was heating up and if i could have moved to the bed I think Iwould have been in for a suprise. Now I have created a monster, my prostate wants more and so do I. My desire had slacked off with the long layoff but it did not take long to re wire. I will need to get creative with my sessions and hopefully will get some alone time soon. so looking forward to the next time. Sorry not alot of good details about my session but the groundwork is set for the next one.
The Journey Begins!
So my first aneros was supposed to come in the mail Wednesday. All day at university I was impatient, because I had abstained from getting off (just a day, but it was one of those days when temptation was really distracting). I was done with classes relatively early in the afternoon, and was excited because I knew I would have the apartment to myself all evening.
Silly me for thinking anything from USPS ever arrived on the tracking date in this damned town.
When it became clear the package wasn’t coming, I went ahead and got off the old primitive way.
The next day, about an hour before I had to leave for school, and while my roommate was in the shower, I got a text notification saying the package had arrived, and so I stealthily went to our mailboxes and picked it up. Back inside, I opened it as quickly and quietly as I could, and my roommate came out asking where I had gone, since he heard me going in and out.
I, the worst liar ever, looked suspicious and said: “I NEEDED SOMETHING FROM MY CAR.” I had hidden the package before he walked in the room and so I don’t know what exactly I would have said I needed if he had asked. But he didn’t press me.
Day 12 of 3rd attempt
No significant changes to the way I feel over the last couple days, so just some observations of things I notice.
Still have a really hard time getting sex off my mind, been like that a few days. When I start fantasizing about something in my head, I get really excited and get almost like a slight anxious feeling or jittery.
Noticed during some sexual contact with partner (just playing with my cock a bit while we were cuddling on sofa) that my physical response to arousal was a bit different. I had a really strong erection at first, but it went down more quickly than usual and I was soft the rest of the time (usually I stay hard). Still felt good though, and didn’t have any orgasmic contractions, but had lots of orgasmic sensations and feelings. Thought I’d have strong orgasms and stronger erections that lasted longer the more I got into the semen retention. I noticed last night, and a solo session day before, that my cock wasn’t as hard as normal and had more periods of just being soft (but still aroused).
Sometimes when I pee, I notice there is some semen at the tip of my urethra after I pee… if I touch it, it’s clearly more thick and stringy than just pee. So leaking a bit I guess.
I have I stronger desire for other parts of my body to be touched, not just my cock.
Today’s session involved somewhat involuntary contractions, but only for a couple seconds.
Update on me.
Today was my 6th session. I decided to do something different instead though. Instead of doing full on contractions like I’ve been doing, I decided to do light contractions. At first, it wasn’t doing much for me, but kept doing them anyway. But eventually, I started realizing that the contractions were starting to get a little harder to stop. I then started to twitch a bit around my anus. It only lasted a couple seconds. And damn it felt pretty good. My rectum felt so warm and the fact that the Aneros was moving a bit inside me turned me on. My penis started getting erect and felt warm as well.
But sadly it lasted a bit, so I didn’t get anywhere. I then started doing the same light contractions for the next 30 minutes, but I couldn’t do the twitching again. I’m really hoping this wasn’t a fluke. Those seconds were so great.
Day 11 of 3rd attempt
Woke up this morning and feel pretty confident, bit more energetic. Easily turned on, was hard to ignore my morning erection – but I did and got myself to the gym and work.
Last night was having a session with Aneros Eupho, Pro Jr, and Pro Ice (in that order). I think I was just a bit tired. After being horny all day and having sex on my mind almost constantly yesterday, I thought I’d have an amazing session with amazing orgasms. I had some good orgasms, but wasn’t feeling orgasmic for more than about 20-30 min at a time (and did that twice, with about a two hour break in between those two sessions). Stroking my cock really helped with arousal when nothing was happening and was able to enjoy some really long orgasms (longer than normal in duration, but not as intense as I usually get). It was really nice though. Felt very much in control. Able to stroke my cock and orgasm without feeling like I was too close to PONR and didn’t have any close calls.
Today I feel horny again and sex on my mind. But I also feel in control. If I actually try to focus on something else – I can. It’s just hard to because I like thinking about sex 🙂