Day 10 of 3rd attempt

It’s probably been a few years since I went this long without ejaculating, and the first time able to have MMO sessions I’ve not ejaculated this long (was re wired about 1.5 years ago).

Noticed yesterday that I generally just felt like I was in a better mood, and a little bit more energetic during the day. I didn’t feel especially horny or frustrated during the day, but also felt like I could turn myself on easily with thoughts or light touch. I had sex with my partner for about 90 minutes, initially when we started I didn’t get an erection right away, but then after a few minutes I was really hard and really turned on. I was having good orgasms from him stroking me and oral sex, but they seemed like it maybe took a little bit more pleasure to “get there” to an orgasm. I actually thought that was a good thing, because when the orgasm did happen it felt a little stronger (like more pressure had built up and was being released). I also didn’t have a toy in – often I do because 1 – it just feels good and makes orgasms easier to have and 2 – I thought the pressure against my prostate during an orgasm made it harder to ejaculate so felt safer.
Anyways, I was feeling in control and far enough away from the ejaculation reflex that I decided to go A-less for the whole time. We fucked for about 45-60 minutes, and I didn’t have any close calls. Had some really good orgasms though, one that lasted about 2 minutes which was amazing. I felt pretty happy being at that 80-90% level and not too afraid of going to far to like 99% where I could easily trigger the ejaculation reflex. I was really horny, really hard, but after he ejaculated I just pulled out and we stopped. The energy and horniness declined pretty easily – within about 5-10 min i was soft and not feeling frustrated like I missed out on something. Read more »

Can using a dildo after the Aneros ruin the rewriting process?

I was using my Aneros last night. Used it for an hour. As per usual, I didn’t get any where. It was my 5th time I think. I’ll get some pleasure every now and then but not often. This is really frustrating. I’m usually relaxed when using the Aneros, but even then it just seems like I can’t take those couple of seconds of pleasure anywhere.

I removed the Aneros after and hour and I was just really frustrated. I felt that I still very lubed up when I removed it. I still had an hour left before my parents got home so I said what the heck, I’m going to use my dildo. And god damn, did it feel amazing. When I use the Aneros, I try my best to feel every single detail of the toy in my anus. So I guess my anus has become a little more sensitive is some way. So having a dildo in my felt so much better than before. Before I got my Aneros, I used to use this dildo while masturbating. It has vibrating option as well. But back then it would only feel good when I masturbating the regular. I would never get anywhere by just simply thrusting the dildo in me. Read more »

Day 9 of 3rd attempt

Today is Day 9, so beat my previous best attempt of 8 days.

I haven’t really had any big spikes in sexual energy or frustration the last two days. On Saturday (Day 7) I had three sessions (had a few small breaks) and was edging and orgasming for several hours. Was very tempted to ejaculate during the session, but had good discipline and control and didn’t. I felt very frustrated at times during my sessions. On Saturday night I tried to have another session, but it was a dud. I had been stroking my cock a lot earlier that day, and it almost felt numb, didn’t feel much pleasure at all stroking it and couldn’t really get hard. I w as surprised, because I was so turned on and wanting to cum so bad earlier that day – even when I ended things to get on with the day, I was so turned on and hard. I was surprised later that day I didn’t get back to that feeling.

Sunday (Day 8) I was busy and just distracted with other things. So nothing to really report there.

Today (Day 9) I’m noticing that I feel pretty energetic and awake, maybe a bit more than normal. But not really hornier than normal. If anything, a little less sexually frustrated, just more energetic. And noticing that if I touch areas of my body (eg. my face) or if someone else touches me (eg. my partner touches my arm) it feels really good and i get slightly aroused. If more cuddling and touching for a longer period of time, I think I’d get turned on really fast.

Rewiring update? What happened to me?

2 days ago, i had a 1,5h session with the Progasm Ice and although i didn’t get strong sensations from my prostate… i think i somehow awakened my spine, or my Kundalini, or my Chakras or whatever those things are called.

During every involuntary contraction, i was feeling a pleasurable sensation… like an electric current running from my anus, to my tailbone and lower back… and at the same time i was feeling an intense warm sensation below my chest. It built up slowly (like i was getting fucked sensually), and it resulted in a full-body orgasm which lasted for 3-5 minutes.

When it ended, i wasn’t drained. It felt like i was floating peacefully.

2 days later, my spine is still tingling when i’m sitting down or lying down. It’s not distracting, neither i’m freaked out. On the contrary, i like exploring new things and new sensations, but this one i can’t quite understand it.

Milestones, progress and a question.

So, I haven’t had a chance to use my Helix Syn for about a month or so. Married with two young children so quality alone time is not in abundance.

I’ve been trying to keep at it though, using what little privacy I get to clench and release, using basically the same technique I’d use if the Aneros was inserted. I’ve gotten pretty good at it too. I can achieve some pretty powerful p-waves and the precum flows like crazy. A few times I’ve gotten to the point where I think “oh my god it’s happening” but never seem to cross the threshold. Since I started using the Aneros my nipples have become hugely sensitive and I truly can feel my prostate grow larger when I rub them, a testament I had read from other users but always found hard to believe.

So yesterday I finally had an hour on my own and the only things I could think of was getting my Aneros and have a session. Within minutes of inserting I felt my prostate tingle and what followed was my best session so far. I didn’t have the super o but for the first time I couldn’t control myself and was moaning/grunting like never before. It was truly amazing. I like to think it was a mini o but whatever it was, I liked it a lot. Read more »

Newbie here, some questions

Hi to you all guys, i am a newbie with aneros and with anal play in general. I would like to ask you some questions.
I have been trough 4-5 sessions so far, and what i had some pleasurable feelings but nothing really amazing. I know about the patience thing, not forcing it etc but i was wondering if i ve been things wrong. I read lots of differents approach, but here what am i doing right now:
– insertion (even tough i haven’t been in anal play before, i really got used to it very quickly and also i find the insertion part really enjoyable)
-then i lie on my bed, usually on a side
-wait some minutes
-start doing contractions (almost at random, let’s say i try to start with haflway contractions)
-from time to time i try to hold contractions

my results so far:
-some pleasure build up, nothing really amazing yet pleasurable, in both the contractions and holding phases.
-twitching? maybe, i sometimes felt like my rectum tried to push out the toy while holding the contraction, and sometimes i felt something like subtle contractions like deep inside my pelvis, but i can’t really tell if they were completely involontary.
-anyway all of my reasults are very subtle and i can manage to keep them far a very little time. Read more »

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Day 7 of 3rd attempt

The biggest change I’m noticing today is I can go from uninterested in sex to completely turned on and rock hard to uninterested and soft in like 2 minutes. I’ve had 4 different sessions today and it’s only 2:30pm. I’m gonna go on to other things now, but I feel so much energy in my groin area right now, and fullness. Even though I’m soft and now not aroused. But I get myself aroused and hard very very quickly if I want.

Likely to have sex later today, so will have to try to do as good a job with all the control I did this morning and make sure I make it to tomorrow, which will tie my previous best of 8 days.

[Life Hack] I’ve been at this for 6 years, let me share a secret with you.

Let me preface this by stating I haven’t yet achieved the legendary hand-free Super-O, but I’ve been trying for a while now so I’ve gotten extremely efficient at trying. But this hack has kicked things into overdrive for me and I figured I’d share.

Now, everyone will tell you this is all about correct muscle movement, relaxation, and focus on subtle feelings from within a part of your body you’re not used to focusing on, and they’re not wrong, but there’s something extra you can do to help.

First: Figure out where inside your body you prostate is, use your finger to find the depth of your prostate (it’ll feel like you have to pee when you’ve found it, but you knew that). Compare your finger depth to the length of your aneros. You might find that the point at the end is further from your prostate is than you thought. I found that the Helix I had was too long and ended up missing my prostate by a half inch or so. Admittedly this took me years to discover and cost me hundreds of dollars in other toys.

The Hack: So, if you’re like me, the Helix is missing the right spot by a small amount but holding it in the right place by hand is either difficult or uncomfortable for long periods of time. My solution? **A loop of string.** Read more »

Day 6 of 3rd attempt

Made it through Day 5! I ended up having a long session last night – started with about 90 min of sex, then about 60 min solo session just stroking myself.

I felt like I was “pretty close” almost the whole time during intercourse, which lasted about 45-60 min. Had to go slow a lot, and for some minutes just stayed completely still – even that was enough to have me orgasm a lot. I did get a little closer than I wanted – I found that if I thought I was close, it was better just to stay with the orgasm, thrusting in rhythm and die down with the orgasm. A sudden stop, or sudden contraction was way worse than just relaxing and making slight adjustments to rhythm. So that was good. I lost my erection maybe 2-3 times during the course of the 90 min of sex, so thats not bad – it came back within 2-3 min most of the time.

I was still horny after sex, so stroked my cock slowly for 60 min after and didn’t have any close calls there either, just lots of nice orgasms.

Really good Day 5. Today is Day 6. I still got sex on my mind quite a bit. The videos at 21daychallenge.com calls these few days like around 3-6 hell days because dopamine levels are still really low or something like that. But I feel good, so not sure.

Buying a Toy

I have interest of buying a massager, but I do not know know which one to get. Aneros recommends the Helix Syn. Is this a good one, or is there another one that is better? Keep in mind that this will be the first time for me doing this. Also, I checked out the site slick deals, they have a 20% discount on products. I would like to know if this is a legitimate site. Thank you.