What should I be doing when I get that tingling feeling in my pevic area that preceeds a super o? Usually I’ll get that close 3 times a session or so, but most of the time I don’t cross over to orgasm. If I can figure that part out I should be able to have a super o almost every session.
Fred27
Just keeps getting better and.better! Once have learned to totally relax and use different muscles to move my ice anything is possible! Pure pleasure in different moments! Once lubed and inserted I start out on my stomach and control breathing once ice is in as far as it will go! Get the most pleasurable sensations by letting it go in and hold while exercising the inner muscle in short bursts! Then roll over on my back while supported with pillows and arch my back with quick hold and relax with limp penis flopping – the feeling is out of this world as the ice moves within! Pure ecstasy!
Day 5 of 3rd attempt
Was feeling pretty average last night, not a depleted feeling of sexual energy, but not reved up either. I was walking home from gym in evening and thought about having sex later that evening, but couldn’t decide if i was really in the mood for it. Also, I didn’t really want to risk cumming and thought I’d just be safer if I was by myself. Decided to wait till weekend to have sex and did a solo session instead.
Started with Maximus and got pretty aroused pretty fast. I w as hard most of the session. I used that for about an hour and had a great session with that, pretty strong orgasms. Was also using my hand a little to really slowly stroke my cock. I really paid attention to how slow strokes and relaxing into the orgasm work really well. If I started stroking hard/fast, I could really feel how the ejaculation reflex can come out of nowhere and get close really fast without realizing. It’s like the stroking really fast was causing me to tense up around my groin area and I didn’t have enough time to just relax into the rhythm of an orgasm. I think that is an important lesson I need to remember going forward.
I’ve use the Aneros about 4-5 times, and I’ve gotten nowhere?
I just finished my 4th and 5th and as usual I feel like I haven’t progressed nowhere. I only feel feel small waves of pleasure every now and then. But not too often. Sometimes I feel like I’m building up to an orgasm but then it goes nowhere. I haven’t had any precum neither. What am I do wrong? Haven’t had any involuntary contractions either.
A “Virtual” Aneros Session….Amazing!
An amazing session! Here is the background……
I was in Day 6 of SR and chastity. My wife was feeling better after a week with a stomach bug. Anyway, we lay down in bed just relaxing and watching TV when I reached out to her to cuddle. I began to get an erection, but this one wouldn’t go down. It remained hard and just got harder. I began to get aroused and she felt it. She began a most-erotic, gentle tease of my cock and after about 25 minutes, I was thoroughly wet. I knew I would have to go-off or suffer the consequence of blue-balls. I didn’t have a towel handy so I went to get one and returned. I got it into position and my wife took over from there (knowing I am in chastity, she gave the green-light). She proceeded to finish me off with some mind-blowing ball massage and cock-work. I didn’t last long, I ejaculated with an incredible amount of cum! My pelvis was tingling for several minutes afterwards.
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Fast-forward to this morning; I am “locked” in my pseudo-chastity-cup and found an interesting track on YouTube: “Tantric Deep Lounge” by G.I. Joe. I started listening and could feel my cock twitching beneath my cup. I started performing some kegels but not knowing where this was going. After a while (I lost track of time) I began to feel an unmistakable clenching in my prostate and it was a prostate orgasm! Now realize I have stopped my “formal” Aneros sessions months ago. But this “session” felt like I never stopped! Things settled down for a short while, but started-up all over again! OMG! A MMO! During this session, I had the usual moans, deep-breathing, shaking and euphoria. I guess you could say that the Aneros re-wiring is indeed permanent! I probably could have lasted longer, but, alas, it was time to get-up.
The Plateau again – how to kickstart something else?
Yesterday I had another session, a long one, and this time I tried to use Mgx.
It resulted in the same pattern I have when I can feel something else than “blackground pleasure”.
And what it is? The plateau.
For 2 hours or so I was in a state of relaxed pleasure, more than background pleasure, but not having amazing pleasure.
What’s frustrating is that when I get to that state I feel that I’m close to something great, but never get there.
My prostate barely moves, and I think my body needs somehow how to spark the prostate into having involuntary contractions in this stage.
I prefer to do nothing and wait – nipples don’t lead to the right place, and I want to be “surprised” by pleasure, I want it to come to me.
During this time sometimes I feel a little more pleasure and my penis can go semi-hard or hard. Sometimes I can feel a faint pleasure pulse in the prostate, but it fades and goes nowhere.
It’s frustrating because I “know” if the prostate starts spasming by itself at this stage it will be wonderful. It’s the feeling of being so close but unable to reach it.
How can I, doing nothing, teach my prostate to have involuntary movements and trigger “real” sexual pleasure?
Day 4 of 3rd attempt
I’m still surprised at the drop in libido since starting SR. When I was ejaculating every 2 or 3 days, I almost always felt horny and ready to go within about 12-24 hours after I ejaculated (eg. with my 1st attempt, i was really horny by day 3 and thought it was torture… the 2nd and 3rd attempts have been easy to get to day 4 without the feeling it was torture).
I wonder if perhaps when my 1st attempt made it to day 8, after I ejaculated it was just me noticing more the drop in energy a lot more and it maybe was a bit depressing. When I was ejaculating every 2 or 3 days, perhaps I was always in a depleted state so the change after ejaculating wasn’t as big a shock to my body.
Had an Aneros session last night with Pro Jr. It was okay, had a few medium orgasms and then fell asleep with it in. When I woke up a few hours later I was rock hard and horny, nice feeling. Didn’t play though, just went back to sleep after removing the toy.
“Male Chastity Retrospective: It’s Not About Me Anymore”
I think it’s time for a retrospective look at my involvement with male chastity. I’ve been at this for probably 2 months or so and I find it to be a natural part of my life now. Not a day goes by when I don’t either wear my CB-6000S during the day (I can easily make it 8 hours) or my “pseudo chastity belt” at night (another 8 hours).
Of course, the semen retention part of male chastity I embrace now. Especially when I pass the Day 7 mark, I feel an increase in testosterone which makes me even more horny. Lately, I have been noticing more precum “dripping” making my undergarment wet. That is a normal occurrence and I need to provide some extra “padding” or something to contain it. I am feeling an automatic “pumping” of what feels like urine (but I know it is precum) periodically, particularly when aroused in my chastity “cup”.
The biggest change in my lifestyle is my absence of masturbation. With very rare exception, I do not masturbate “by myself” anymore. Not that I don’t want to. On the contrary, when I awaken with a morning boner, I am thankful that I am wearing my cup since I know I can’t pleasure myself. My wife has that pleasure just for me. But not always, and although very frustrating for me, that is part of the chastity play. I do find that I am more helpful around the house, cooking, cleaning, other chores seem easier to accomplish. I feel a renewed sense of “lust” for her. I can’t help but get aroused when she is also “in the mood”. Being in male chastity is almost like a continual state of foreplay/arousal. What could be better?
Fake Aneros?
Just received my Progasm in the mail. Considering Aneros products are usually packed in fancy boxes, this seemed a bit weird to me. Can anyone confirm Aneros actually packaging their products this way?
Aneros playlist?
I was able to have my first prostate orgasm through smoking weed and just laying in bed with my aneros listening to some erotic music, which came by sweet luck and as such prompted me go make an aneros spotify playlist for my sessions. I was wondering if people had good song suggestions to listen to during such sessions.