exquisite aless

While I do enjoy sessions with either my MGX or Progasm fairly often, in between these sessions I enjoy aless sessions – so convenient. I suffer from allergies quite often, and thus need to take simple over the counter allergy medication quite often. You will note if you read the fine print, they caution about consulting a doctor if you have an enlarged prostate. Well, I noticed many years ago that these same medications have certain side-effects on me – primarily a degree of erectile dysfunction and sensitization of the prostate gland. When I do need to take this medication I have long ago learned – when life hands you lemons, make lemonade 🙂

Simply put, aless sessions come very easily when I’m on the medication and the sensations are exquisite. There is no prep or cleanup required, no post session soreness that might happen, and no embarrassing erection if I have to get up and answer the door or that type of thing.

As well, I never have to worry about accidently ejaculating. Just lots of dry orgasms with nothing more than moderate precum.

If I have not recently ejaculated, it is quite common for me to experience a wet dream – either that night or the next night, if I don’t stay on the medication.

Hours of pleasure to indulge in my homoerotic fantasies and enjoy wave after wave of orgasm.

Day 2 of 3rd attempt

2 days now since I ejaculated. The first time I tried semen retention (I guess 2 ish weeks ago now), I was really horny and thought it was a huge challenge even by day 2. The 2nd and 3rd attempts, at around the day 2 mark I’ve been much less aroused.

I had a session yesterday, but it didn’t last very long. Was hard for about 30 min or so before I got soft, and had a few orgasms, but nothing too strong. My sessions start to die after 2-3 hours usually, but this one was dead after 30 min. Had one close call (was using a new masturbator toy that literally is powered and jacks you off – so still getting the hang of it), but managed to stay away from ejaculating. But learned a bit of a lesson – I made it to 8 days on the first attempt because I wasn’t touching my cock very much. I keep having close calls lately because I am stimulating my cock. Especially starting a session, it’s easy to trigger the ejaculation reflex with cock stimulation when you aren’t having orgasms quite yet. The orgasms help move that energy away from your cock, so I think I should avoid touching my cock unless I’m well into strong multiple orgasms. Read more Â»

“Why Is The Do-Nothing Method So Effective? I Have An Idea”

I was up early this morning and just decided to chill-out on my favorite sofa. I found a nice track or two on YouTube and, with headphones on, began to relax. New for me this morning: I decided to see if I can COMPLETELY RELAX my PC muscles/anus and anything else within that could possibly be tensed-up. I started in earnest for about 10 or 15 minutes. But then, something strange happened……..I couldn’t hold this “do-nothing” any longer! I began to feel a strange, hard-to-describe “fatigued” feeling down-there that was unmistakable. And about the same time, I began to experience what I would call an Aless auto-fuck. That is the way it felt and I couldn’t stop it. Yes, I could temporarily “hold” the feeling and pretend to be completely relaxed…….but it didn’t last too long.

After a while in this mode, I began to get a whole-body arousal feeling which forced me to convulse a bit on the sofa. I felt my prostate “alive” with energy and my suspicion is that it is always contracting and relaxing…….although we are not usually attuned to that feeling. How many times during the day do you feel your anus contract and then relax, if only a little bit? Probably (in my case) too many to count. Is it involuntary or voluntary? Why do I do this? I don’t know the exact answer but I suspect that it is related to what I experienced this morning. Oh, the marvels of the male physique! Read more Â»

Got an Aneros Helix two weeks ago and WOW.

I played around with it in maybe six sessions. Sometimes not much, other times some really good sensations. Not sure if I was doing it right or it’s the right size. Then Saturday, I had some time alone and got serious, relaxed and lubed up, put aside expectations and just gently chased the pleasure for an hour or more. Then WOW. I can’t believe it feels this good. Then over the top. Three dry O’s in a row. I take it out because I think I’ve had enough. My body has different ideas. I come again. And again. I’m starting to worry that I might not stop cumming. I come two or three more times and it’s mostly over except for the awareness that something’s clicked and I get it now.

So a big thanks to the other posters who’s advice has made this possible.

No sensation when it’s in

Is it supposed to be very obvious if the Aneros is touching the prostate? I have a classic Helix and when it’s all the way in, I don’t feel anything. Is it possible it’s not long enough? I’ve never been able to find my prostate at all.

Anyone else had this issue before?

Start of 3rd attempt

Oops. Was having sex with the boyfriend and having lots of multiple orgasms. Just stopped or did one wrong move and triggered the ejaculation reflex. Nothing came out, but know there was a contraction or two at the base of my spine / pumping for at least a second. Lost my erection for a few min. Got it back and finished fucking (without cumming).

Wasn’t sure if I actually came. But the loss of erection and slight feeling of a release now, I’m pretty sure I’ll have to consider that an ejaculation and start from the beginning. I sorta feel some loss of sexual energy. Although I wonder if because it was just a small short feeling of ejacukating I was able to stop, maybe physically I’ll recover faster?

So starting 3rd attempt today. Dammit! This is harder than it sounded.

“Binaural Kroom Mantra”

I was just chilling early this morning. I am only into Day 2 of SR so I was not expecting anything. I had just finished listening to a YouTube track which was not especially arousing. Apparently, the next track in sequence queued-up and I must have dozed-off. That track was: “**WARNING** ANCIENT TANTRIC SEX FREQUENCIES WITH BINAURAL KROOM MANTRA : VERY POWERFUL !” And OMG!! I was awakened with a boner to end all boners. I had on my “pseudo” chastity jock cup and my cock was pulsating within it. It probably lasted at least 15-20 minutes and I could have gone further except I had to pee. I will definitely have to explore this some more.

PS This is not at all like the “typical” binaural sounds……this one was very soothing and the mantra was very melodious. I’ll have to see if it has the same effect on me next time. If it does, I have “discovered” a new arousal technique!

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Day 3 of 2nd attempt

Had a good session last night using Eupho Syn. I sort of forced the session, and wasn’t really in the mood. But I got in the mood pretty quickly, and had several good small intensity orgasms. Compared to last week, the session was pretty tame. I was having crazy long good orgasms last week at this time.

However, I feel better today. I think having a session helped build up some sexual energy and interest and I’m carrying that around today.

Not planning to have sex today, or a session. But will likely have sex Saturday and either sex or a long session on Sunday. So should have lots of juices flowing and stored up in a few days if I’m successful not cumming through the weekend.

“Male Chastity: Sorry, Charlie…”

I had a close encounter with my wife last night. it looked like she was in the mood. Perhaps I would be able to ejaculate with her help. But as the evening wore on, it became more clear that her (implied) response to me was NO! What? Can I be turned-down again? While in male chastity, the response has to be YES! That is the essence of sexual denial. Just because I am “ready” for an orgasm doesn’t mean I’ll get to have one! I am suddenly starting to feel completely helpless in my pursuit of a release and that is the way I am supposed to feel. Will I ever get to orgasm? When? Anytime soon?

I am getting an overpowering sensation from my male package. My cock becomes hard with just the slightest amount of stimulation. It looks bigger, fatter, in need of an ejaculatory release. My balls seem larger and more swollen. They hang lower. I am not at the “begging” stage…..yet. I had no idea that denial will be one-sided. After all, isn’t that the essence of male chastity? Even with a pre-set time for release (days, weeks, months) things can change and “my timetable” can be tossed to the wind! The effect of male chastity on my psyche is dramatic, sexy and at times, overpowering. I like it!

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Day 2 of 2nd attempt

It’s been about 36 hours now since I ejaculated (at that point had made it to 8 days before I had to start again).

When I was ejaculating 2-3 times per week normally and not trying semen retention, usually by now I would start feeling a bit more interested in sex and horny. I still feel a bit drained and uninterested. So I wonder if the drop in sexual energy after 8 days of not ejaculating has lead to more of a depletion that takes longer to recover from. That almost seems like an argument not to do semen retention.

Gonna see what happens and stick it out. Might try to play with myself tonight in a session and see if just getting some good feelings and pleasure (without ejaculating!) helps build up the energy and interest going forward. I’d hate to think that by Friday/Saturday (tomorrow/Saturday) I’m still feeling depleted and uninterested in sex because of an ejaculation that happened on Tuesday!!!! That simply didn’t happen when I was ejaculating every 2-3 days. Usually within 12-24 hours I was horny again.