Is aneros prostate massager breaking my ability to have erections?

I’ve been using an aneros for about 4 months. I use it every other day for about 20-60 minutes at a time. I really enjoy it.

However, I have noticed that the frequency of erections has gone way down over this time. I can still get one while using the device or if I watch porn. But even with porn, my dick feels almost hesitant about getting erect.

I feel like my sexual response has re-wired to move to my prostate instead of my penis. I guess I’m OK with that as long as I don’t LOSE my ability to have erections if I want one?

I’m not sure what to do, I’m kind of terrified. But, also do not want to stop using the aneros because it’s amazing.

After the cold snap, an awesomely sweet session : Tuesday, November 22

Hi guys,

We had bitterly cold and blustery weather Sunday and Monday this week, so I did have a session yesterday morning.

Unfortunately Sunday morning at church I found myself having very unpleasant, political conversations which upset me. It had to the with the incoming Trump/Pence administration. Not only was it bitterly cold with winds howling outside, I was so agitated that I got only 2-3 sleep late Sunday/early Monday. I arose at my usual hour just before dawn yesterday morning and spent my day with translation work which composed me.

Then last night, I slept more soundly which refreshed me. My Aless in bed this morning before arising was exquisitely sweet, yet insistent.

I readied myself for a session which began 6 a.m. and ended 6:45 a.m., just 45 minutes which my usual Aneros buddies, MGX, Maximus, and Progasm Classic. MGX is ideal for the Aneros beginner. It is just right, not too small and not too large. I just love its ribbed stem which stimulates so nicely my anal canal and musculature. MGX is the perfect Aneros model for opening a session.

I love Maximus for its large size and its curvature for stimulating my prostate more directly. Give Maximus some quality time and he’ll relent for amazing surprises of sensation texture as it relates to Aneros sweetness and sexual energy found in Aneros sessions and in Aless. Read more »

Shipping to a PO Box?

Can anyone recommend any good sites to order from that will ship USPS to a PO Box?

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Origin story & best experience yet!

So backstory first: Long time lurker, after buying a Helix classic. I was first drawn to the aneros by an ex gf deciding to get kind of handsy during a bj, surprising at first with a knuckle duster and then she used her index finger to tap down (barely) on my prostate while going down on me. I melted as I came, it was fantastic! Being curious about this new sensation and comfortable enough in my own sexuality, I decided to investigate further all the while having this image in my head of the guy in Road Trip getting his prostate milked by the nurse – I wanted to feel that even though it was an act, I wanted that feeling. So I looked at Prostate massage for men via google and came upon the aneros and forums. Jackpot, I found what I was looking for and decided to go with a Helix bc the Progasm looked a bit much at the time. The Helix reminded me of the thought I had that if I could just contort my hand the wrong way, I could milk myself lol. Read more »

“At Home With A Cold (And an Orgasm)”

I caught a head cold a couple of days ago, Also some body aches. Not fun at all. This morning, I am awake about 5 AM and decide to just go lie down without any music. While resting, I know I am also lucid dreaming because I can recall very vividly the dream. One thing I noticed right away is that my prostate is buzzing—not a lot, but just enough to let me know that it was alive and well! I couldn’t help but “echo” some very light kegels and when I did, my prostate responded back with a slightly greater “squeeze”. Not much of an erection this AM, so I am now eating, relaxing and watching TV.

Fast-forward an hour or two and I am again lying down and relaxing. With the recent and sustained winds, I am going outside several times already to pick-up my trash cans which cannot remain in one place for long! The prostate “clutch” is still with me and, although it is not annoying, it IS persistent. What does this mean? I don’t know—-I am back to Day 2 of SR. I am aware my prostate is alive all day today!

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“Just The Basics, Sir: Precum and Cum Please”

Wow! I never knew “surfing” can come in two flavors: female and male! This surfing session definitely was MALE! Let me explain……

I awoke very early this morning again (~1:30 AM) and decided to relax a bit while I chilled with some music. I have on my safety towel and just my red boxer briefs. My package felt looser than the past few mornings. I was awakened with a raging, pulsating erection in bed and again felt like I could be headed for a wet dream.

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I lie down and select this track on YouTube: “Soft Sexy Chill Out Music Mix 2017/ Midnight Sexuality/ Sensual Music Lounge” and began to listen. All is going well as I feel another erection building. This surfing session began just like many others: I began to perform soft, circling, tickling stim on my firm scrotum and feel exquisitely sensual. I keep this up for a while, perhaps 15 or 20 minutes. As I continue this, I again have no desire to ejaculate at this point (I am in Day 10 of SR) only just enjoying the deeply erotic pleasure of my hands. But that will change very soon. Read more »

“Surfing Session: Some Unusual Feelings”

Another super-long session! I am in Day 9 of SR, still horny and entombing my erect package with many layers since it feels so good. I select some stimulating tracks and go lie down. I honestly feel that this could be the morning for an ejaculation…..we’ll see.

After a good long while into this surfing session, I still have a raging erection and my balls are quite firm as well. I travel through a quick fantasy (called ‘Rent-A-Hooker’) to get to a point where I (she) am only stimulating my cock and mostly by rhythmically pressing firmly on various parts of it. All the while, I feel a pulsing down in my prostate and at one point, I (she) am coaxed into pressing into my firm balls. Ohhhh! The combination of testicle massage and moderate pressure on my erect cock started to make for some intense (did I say INTENSE?) feelings. Let me see if I can remember some of them…..

All during these feelings, I felt so close to the PONR that I could “taste it”. How I didn’t go off is beyond me now. But let me describe some of the feelings.

I was standing at the edge of a ravine and it was narrow enough that I could step-across (or jump). On the other side was the relaxing bliss of ejaculatory release. But I chose to stay on “this side” —– extreme sexual tension. Read more »

“Erotic Fantasy Sculpture Garden”

I decided once again to continue my practices of semen retention (Day 8) and masturbation deprivation. This combination has proven to be most stimulating. I am again “wrapped” in several compressive layers on my male package, making for an exquisitely arousing sensation upon erection. I am up quite early (~1:30 AM) and decide to chill with some music.

Some time passes and I am getting extremely aroused with an erection to match. I am carried-into a most unusual fantasy.

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(Now realize that the nature of this fantasy will cause extremely erotic descriptions which may result in extreme arousal, so readers take note. If you may take exception, read no further.)

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My wife and I have tickets to a “private” showing of an erotic sculpture garden billed as the best-in-the-world. I don’t know exactly where this one was located, but it certainly was the best, in my opinion.

The garden is divided into three parts: erotic male, erotic female and erotic couples. Each part is somewhat physically separated from each other. You can choose to split-up and explore individually, or stay-together. We chose to stay together.

This experience was probably the most erotic stimulation I have ever experienced, bar-none. Let me explain in more detail…….

First of all, all the sculptures are anatomically-correct and most all of them are in a smooth bronze which is rubbed shiny and glistening from repeated “handling” of strategic parts. The experience is akin to a “walking orgasm” toward the end. Read more »

My understanding of what happens during reprogramming. How to start step 1 of using the aneros.

– Get super relaxed, so relaxed that you feel like your body doesn’t want to move, and your eyesight gets blacker. I repeat to myself, “going deeper” as I relax, which is done in waves. Focus on the sensations of breath and your body. I like to imagine that I’m focusing on sensory receptors on the skin, inside of the nose and most other cells, because I’m scientifically inclined and that helps me visualize. Eventually your mind gets numb to your body, and you mostly experience just sensations.

– Next try to focus purely on the sensation on the aneros, and not the location of the aneros. What the GOAL, is to shut off the body’s location processing, become completely unaware of the location of the aneros sensation. After this is done, instead of going “sensation-> body part-> brain”, it goes “sensation-> brain”. And so the brain just knows that the sensation is coming from the pelvic region, and it thinks you are being sexually stimulated but instead you are just stimulating a VERY sensitive non-sexual area.

– You have to stay in the super relaxed and super-sensory-shut off mode for a long time while you focus on the sensation of the aneros. I said to myself “I have no idea where this sensation is coming from” as I focused very hard on the sensation. Read more »