I have an aneros helix syn and want to use coconut oil as lube but how do I apply it?
Do I put it on the toy or on me and how much do I use?
Nov 1
So, as expected I had a chance to use the Helix today. I used the Astroglide. It seemed slippery enough, altough it was so thin that it was tricky to get it to go where I wanted and not just drip all over the place.
So, then with the Helix in, lying down and reading. Once again after about 5 minutes I felt the “tingle” starting. I tried to relax and let it go for a few minutes–slow, deep breathing and nipple stim. This time something different happened… I got hard. My Aneros experiences so far have mostly been erection-free, but this time the pulsating of the P-tab seemed to lead directly to my penis. At this point I decided to wait it out and see what happened… though I had a pretty strong compulsion to clamp down with my PC muscle, I decided to wait and see what would happen. After a short while I reached a plateau of the involuntary Helix motions and then started to relax, and the erection went away.
After a couple minutes of relaxing and breathing the tingling came back, and another erection, though not quite as hard as the first one. At this point I was feeling another buildup and I gave in to the impulse to do some contractions. I had some very pleasurable spasms, but it felt like there was more to come.
October 31 & November 1 sessions ; Some corrective measures ; Glorious chairgasms
Hi guys,
This past Sunday morning, I could tell that the upcoming general election for president and other national leaders was on everyone’s mind at church because there was a somberness and surliness in the air. It wore me out. I was so glad to return home in the afternoon. I went to bed early last night to sleep off the exhaustion and actually had an unsettled sleep.
Anyway I hankered for a session this morning, October 31. It lasted about an hour with MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE in the 7 o’clock hour. Before shaving, bathing, and dressing to get some coffee and breakfast from 7 Eleven, I had a sizable BM as a way to get ready for the session.
Yet the session seemed lackluster which mystified me. Despite this, I worked with the models as well as I could. After the session, and cleaning up and redressing, Aless began, but also seemed lackluster. So I paid a visit another visit to the bathroom and had a real big BM! Now there is developing and unhindered Aless. Take care!
The lesson from the Monday October 31: Make sure you have a good sizable BM in advance of a session, preferably a hour or two at the least.
Super, Super O
Last night I had the biggest Orgasm I have ever had. It left me stunned and very, very satisfied.
My journey to prostate pleasure began about three months ago, and I remained sceptical for a short period after it began. In fact I remained skeptical until I could sense that something was happening and that I was progressing. First was the involuntary contractions, they were ‘interesting’, then came the mild pleasure moments, then the mini-O’s. I always wanted the Big One that I had read about, and from time to time I thought I had reached the Big O, but looking back, these were Mini O’s.
For the past few weeks, my wife and I have been away on holidays and I took my Vive with me ( I couldn’t bear to leave it home). Many nights away I inserted it and experienced my usual Mini O’s – (a wonderfull warm and orgasmic sensation that feels similar to regular Orgasm but is dry and can occurs multiple times in one night. They normally last 15 – 20 seconds each).
The Aneros Progasm is my absolute favorite go-to massager in general.
Pain during aneros use (Internal)
I’m pretty young (27), and have used the aneros for a few years, never hurting.
However, for the last three weeks, when I use the aneros, it starts ok, but in a while (20 min?) the prostate hurts when I contract. It is not external pain (as in, SKIN pain from the friction/lube), it is internal pain (coming from the prostate). I feel as if it was inflamed or something. I can still achieve pleasure, but it gets painful and prevents me from moving forward. It is not acute, terrible pain, but more annoying pain that gets worse with time.
It doesn’t hurt without the aneros pressuring the prostate.
I used to do it often (every day to every two days), and since last time I waited 3-4 days to see if it improved, but today I tried it again and it hurt again.
I have no other problems (no problems urinating, or getting erections or anything).
Should I wait for a week or more to see if it improves or should I go to the doctor? I am kind of embarrassed to go.
Holy shit! Orgasms froms contractions alone, nothing in the bum needed!
Hi all!
Thanks to advices I’ve read in this sub, I’ve been able to reach those super O’s again and it was incredible. The things I kept focusing on were my prostate, my pleasure, more pleasure, pleasure again, again, more, more… then boom I’m orgasming.
Then this morning, I was supposed to get some job done so no session for me.
Normally.
The aneros in the butt takes some time to prepare it, to lube it, to get used to it, to clean it, etc… So I just thought of I have a few minutes ahead, why not just contact my pelvic muscles and tickle my prostate just like that. With no aneros. Just for a little.
Holy shit! Prostate + pleasure + prostate + pleasure + more pleasure+ more pleasure … and BAM! I’m orgasming. Like crazy. No need to insert anything in my butt. And it took me just a few minutes (vs more than an hour with the aneros).
I guess the toy in the butt can be uncomfortable so your body needs time to get used to it. Here: nothing in the ass means no delay hence super o’s within minutes. And it kept going as long as I wanted it to go. I had multiples, full body, etc… I kept at it for an hour. Then I really had to work so I put a stop to it but oh boy! Now I know what I’ll be doing in traffic jams or in boring meetings!!!
“Time Out: I Feel A Whisper”
This was more of a deep, meditative “session”. It began with some chillstep music. It is chilly this AM so I grab a comforter and lie down. Having just ejaculated yesterday, I am in “cooldown” mode this morning. After a while, I began to dwell on things…..
A nice restaurant near where I live was torn down to the ground recently, to make way for another one. There is nothing left of the old place, except for the ground. I began to think…..can this also apply to life? The answer (sometimes, unfortunately) is yes! Now I am not implying that my life is torn-down, although if you think about it, it is usually called the “circle of life” and it happens to everyone. Uplifting yet somber.
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I began to dwell on my recent absence from Aneros “sessions”: do I miss them? Of course I do! But, like the groundbreaking for the new restaurant, I have a solid Aneros “foundation” on which to build. As I dwelt on this some more, something happened. I began to feel just the slightest ‘whisper’ in my prostate. At first, it was barely perceptible, yet it was there! So I echoed these whispers back with some very light contractions. And my prostate whispered back to me! I kept up the echoes for a while and began to feel a warmth, a gentle glow from within that led me to believe that the fire is still glowing, there is a sense of sexual balance in my life. At one point, the feeling is building up to a point where I have to shake-out an involuntary contraction throughout my body. Oh! What a nice feeling!
General intro
I was inspired by the “Invitation to Blog” post… I was thinking this evening that it might be helpful to keep some notes for my own benefit. If anyone else finds them useful, that would be a bonus.
Just a general intro… I am in my 40s. I got a Helix Syn in mid August 2016. At this point (late October 2016) I have gone from basically treating it as a butt plug (put it in, enjoy it, end of story) to making a concerted effort to learn what I can do with it that’s more specific to the prostate stimulation aspect.
Sunday, Oct. 30, 2016
My previous session was on Wednesday evening, so 4 days ago. I will say, just for comparison, that it was OK, but nothing special. I have found my fatigue and frame of mind at the end of a long day at work often results in a less interesting Aneros session than when I am better rested on the weekend, but I generally take what I can get in terms of my schedule.
My previous technique had been to lie down after insertion and just relax, usually reading something for about 10 minutes, to clear my mind and let everything “settle down” with the Helix, and then proceed to work on some contractions or whatever I was thinking about trying, and see what happened.
Today, however, after a bit more than 5 minutes, I started feeling a tingling, warm sensation around the Helix. I have felt this before, but generally not so early in the session. So I decided to resist the temptation to do any contractions or anything and just breathe and concentrate on feeling what was happening. I continued to have the tingling sensation as I worked on deep breathing. I sort of alternated between concentrating on the breathing and sensations; doing some erotic visualization; and thinking about situations at work or errands needing to be done. (No, the last was not voluntary or planned, dammit, but my mind wandered and sometimes I had to refocus.)