can only achieve a wet hands free orgasm

Hi, I own a program and it’s great, it’s my first ever aneros and it feels amazing. However I have only been able to achieve a wet orgasm when using it not the super O that we are all chasing. I feel like this maybe because I start rhythmically tensing to kind of force the orgasm? Any advice on what I need to do would be greatly appreciated, thanks

what your PC muscle actually is.

So, I had fun coaching a newbie.

But I think the thing that isn’t quite explained right is that the PC muscle is the same muscle you try to make your boner dance when you’re hard.
That’s what you want to do, thinking of it pushing DOWN onto the toy. And more is not always better. Sometimes a 35% hard flex is better than a 75% push.

The thing is I was trying to have the toy hit it…

The spincter isn’t really all that important in movement, until the involuntaries come. Try flexing LIGHTLY. That might be what you need to take you to the edge. “

unable to relax

No matter what I do I seem unable to relax into the pleasure. As soon as I start feeling anything I try to relax and focus on the feelings but the moment I do so all the pleasure leaves. I’ve tried edibles but have had no noticeable difference on how things feel in my prostate (maybe i’m not taking enough? usually I take about 5 – 7.5mg). Any suggestions?

I’ve unlocked amazing pleasure

I’ve been on a quest to unlock receiving pleasure from prostate play as well as aless for a while now. Every now and then I would have an enjoyable session with my aneros but I never had patience to rewire correctly.

I finally decided that this was an important goal of mine after reading success stories and other posts from those who have learned how.

Well, I decided that traditional “jerking off” was off limits. With that, I also stopped watching porn constantly. I told myself that from now on, I only want to receive sexual pleasure from anal / prostate play.

I also decided that I was going to start practicing nipple play and meditative breathing.

It’s been about a week and a half and I have been more horny than I have ever been in my entire life! The feeling is off the charts crazy good!

I’ve been away on vacation so I haven’t any privacy nor do I have any toys with me. However, every time I am in the bathroom and even just lightly touch my nipples, I instantly get ROCK hard and start leaking precum. I can literally feel my prostate swelling up and start throbbing.

Every time I take off my boxers there is literally a stream of precum that I have to wipe off with a tissue. Lol.

Absolute Euphoria: Keeps getting more intense

Had my best session last night that ended with me taking out my Eupho (to sleep) but then completely succumbing to a-less orgasms for the first time. They wouldn’t stop throughout the night and my mind and body were in total absolute bliss. In between my constant moaning, I started giggling periodically and I almost came close to crying at how amazing my body felt.

When I first began my journey 7 years ago, I would rate the pleasure as “Non existent”… but now the word I would use is close to “Indescribable.” The only phrases my mind could piece together during last night’s session were “This feels incredible” and “I’m so happy.” that I get to experience this level of pleasure every night.

My prostate is tingling, not with a RAGING horniness (I had to calm it down with a traditional orgasm), but a mild euphoria that is putting me at total peace with everything. I feel so calm right now and tranquil.

Finally some progress

So been going at it for nearly a year now with barely any success. Started with a helix then a knock off njoy wand. Could never get involuntaries and got bored too easy so went for a manual toy. Today I thought Id try the helix again and gave the do nothing a good go and after about 15 minutes I started spasming everywhere and getting mad involuntaries then many waves of pleasure. What now? I assume I rinse and repeat and it’ll get better?